out of curiosity would like to ask our gentlemen on this site how would they like to be surprised by their sagnificant someone? or perhaps you once in your life have been astonished by anything or someone.
many times what we think is good for the one we like/love is not always as good.... in fact, it can be disturbing and wrong.
craving to hear good stories and beautiful ideas ...
I've enjoyed being waken up at night;
when I'm still off in dream-land by my lady, who has indulged herself with me and gently invites me for more! Now what guy can complain to that surprise.
But, the best surprises are the little tender ones of caring and the love notes and unexpected thoughts and breakfast in bed, or my ladies special treats of whatever may make her happy . Or just letting her know I care! Lotsa Love , to a beautiful Lady!
I've been astonished in my life and I think that surprises are much more in number and quality as you don't escpect them. Waiting (both for men and women) is not the better way to be surprised! lol
I think that there is no one right and absolute way to surprise in a positive way the partener. It is all due to sensibility, to the attention we have towards the partner and to the difference form usual behaviour.
Example: as a shy girl can surprise me waiting at home in stockings or something similar, a "hot girl" can surprise me in an opposite way.
The best surprise I received and I did were due to a particular attention to the partner, to her needs, to her fantasies, to her unexcpected and deep thoughts and feelings.
This is the better and only way I know to do positive surprises. :)