Its really a sad thing for us balck women that we are constantly betrayed and undervalued by our balck counterparts. Tigress4U, youve preached a sermon of sorts.. Amen to all that you've said.
Its as though the stigma or trials long past still resides in them (black men). Black women are way
too often lied to, used and abandoned by black men. Women of every colour are made with the same desires; to be loved, cherished, protected and cared for, and for succeeding generations black women have not been able to get the love and devotion they deserve from black men.
For me, i'd like to think that i have not given up on our balck brothers, but truth be told; the evidence is staggering and continues to stack up. What do we do in the face of that? Ive seen balck women who are independent successful beautiful great personality and they too have been disappointed abd betrayed by balck men who use them, exploit their success, trample on their self worth, etc etc etc.
Bottom line is we all want to be happy in life and especially in love. So guess what? we (black women) will go wherever the love is.. and if that means a white guy "we don't care"!! We're just tired of the lies and deceit and want to be loved.
To all my black sisters who are looking for love, best wishes to you.
I don't think there is any difference sexually between black men and men of other races. I find non black men to be more respectful and appreciative of women. I have dated many black men of all different types, different backgrounds, different educational levels and different careers. From unemployed to millionaire, GED to PhD. Unfortunately, I have never met one that could accept me for who I am - inside and out. They say they want a women who is attractive, smart, independent etc, but when it comes down to it they are threatened by it. They don't want you to be too attractive, too smart or too successful. If you are, sadly they will try to convince you that you're not. I have also not met one who is mature. I think the gentleman who posted earlier with comments on what he will do sexually except the " hole" proves this. I know all black men are not like this, but I know my people and I can tell you the majority are. The non blacks I have dated seem more interested in me, what's in my heart and what I have to offer.
Thanks for your response. I wanted to always hear from a black woman who dated black men from all backgrounds. Mainly because often the same black women that say "white men are better because..." only dated a specific "type" usually all from same background (economic, educational etc..)
Thanks again for your honest response.
I just love a guy who would die for what he believes in/loves.
A white guy, most of the time will be honest with you. If he likes you, he gives it a go, if he doesn't, he will tell you politely. Most black guy I know .. if they don't like you, they will take advantage of you. Have sex with you then go. While you had strong feelings for them. I know a white guy can do that as well but 90% if they realise you'll seriously interested in them and you have strong feelings towards them, that is reason enough not to go far and be honest with you.
Love making : black men are mostly concerned by their own pleasure, while white men are mostly concerned by their partner's. The thing the black men don't realise is the most Madam is pleased, the more she gives out and it will always end up being for Mister's pleasure.
Separation and children : if you're together and have children but one day for one reason or another you split .. Generally, a white man will want to separate his ex with his children. I mean not mixing the hard feeling he has for his ex with the right feelings he has for his children. Because no matter what .. they will always be his children and he loves them unconditionnally. But a black guy will use them to hurt their mother. Why can't they love their children truly?? Why can't they show them love and care? There is a saying in my country "The love of children is on the belly button of their mother!" a guy can feed his lover's children (who are not his) while his own starves!! That's what the proverb means. Is this really right?? Something else, most of them (black) don't recognize their children if born out of wedlock. Funny enough, when the child grows up to be somebody or appreciated by many, the dad will want a relationship with him. And those other black guy who if a child behave, they are proud and want everybody to know it's theirs but the moment the child is misbehaving, the blame is on the mum. The child becomes her mum's!!! Nothing to do with that black sheep!!! ;(
Falling in love: the more you are in love with a black guy, the more you risk to suffer. Because he will take advantage of it. While a white guy will respect you for that even in case he can't love you back. Rarely will he want to take advantage of somebody in love with him. And if he loves you, the white one I mean, whatever happens, whoever you are, bad or good, slim or fat, whatever race or color, whoever wealthy, society, mentality etc they will stand by you
They may have their own mistakes, white men, but in terms of love they try and I do appreciate that. If I was in love again with a black guy, I'd go for it but reality would still be reality. But I know chances are I'd be happier with a white guy.
SEXUALLY WHITE MEN CATER TO EVERY BODY PART AND BLACK MEN DONT
WHITE MEN ARE MORE INTO MAKING YOU FEEL GOOD AND WORRY ABOUT THEMSELVES AFTER THE FACT
AFFECTION, GENEROUS, AND ROMANTIC IS ALSO BIG WITH WHITE MEN
DONT BELIEVE THAT SAYING ABOUT ALL WHITE MEN BEING SMALL NOT TRUE BELIEVE ME
Dede I had a white bf and to be honest he was the biggest I have ever had but he was so gentle and caring n sometimes he always care about my needs first,that is the reason I ll always choose a white man over a blk man
Yes white men are very different from black men in general.
They love romance, they're touchy and love caress,kisses.french kiss,massage of every body part...( back,breast ,cunninlingus)
Some of them ,with italian blood..athletic,strong guys ,got big penis/big cock better than black men..
White men from a nice family (italian ,french,english) love to spend money for their queen/lover/mistress/future wife/best female friend (specially a beautiful black queen) when he's falling in love .
I agree many white woman think white men are small from women's mags and some movies... Not true ladies. While on sports teams in HS and college fellow men..ie boys would play contests to see who was bigger. Winner gets free drinks. Trust me It is a myth that only black men are bigger.
unfortunately for you women if this is your way of turning yourself on then you've got your ways.Black versus white hey girls get down with whatever color that feels good for your body and soul and forget the black and white lines.It's no competition
about who's the best.
I don't think there is any difference sexually between black men and men of other races. I find non black men to be more respectful and appreciative of women. I have dated many black men of all different types, different backgrounds, different educational levels and different careers. From unemployed to millionaire, GED to PhD. Unfortunately, I have never met one that could accept me for who I am - inside and out. They say they want a women who is attractive, smart, independent etc, but when it comes down to it they are threatened by it. They don't want you to be too attractive, too smart or too successful. If you are, sadly they will try to convince you that you're not. I have also not met one who is mature. I think the gentleman who posted earlier with comments on what he will do sexually except the " hole" proves this. I know all black men are not like this, but I know my people and I can tell you the majority are. The non blacks I have dated seem more interested in me, what's in my heart and what I have to offer.
i'm going to pass this on to as many gal-friends i have..loved your comments..Yeah..you rule in the I got it together department.. learning from others...is fun.
This is my morning laugh..thanks for sharing some "truth" via here I'm sure there isn't any difference. It's an interesting topic,as i wouldn't of thought there would be any difference in any race, other than perhaps cutlure.
Good read.. i love the saying you put here..if you sleep with dogs you'll get fleas...hilarious..enjoy your day.
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