Well said! Unfortunately there are women looking for rich men for the wrong reasons. My theory is that a rich man would be a good communicator, smart, a positive optimistic person, strong, eager, hardworking, imaginative, neat, observant, maybe even a little lucky. Therefore, not all people look at a rich person for the $$$ but what the person is MADE OF not what they are worth. Some people like me have had poor fortune due to health problems that God gave them (why did he do that...it is called a challenge. A person in this situation might seek a man who would be able to help a person with better quality of life....just my reaction of a different point of veiw of why a person would look for a wealthier person without necessarily being a "gold digger"...take care!
No one wants to be viewed strictly by their financial situation, be it immensely wealthy, average, or struggling at the moment.
I think that if a person views this site as just a means to chat, you will find the right person for yourself.
A wealthy person is not necessarily someone I enjoy. I've met a few on here that I definitely do NOT enjoy. They usually just want porn pics of me, without my face (wow....isn't that just plain exciting????). Or they have some weird idea of converting me to something. One man called me up and tried to convert me to his religion. Hello. I have a life. LOL
Of course, there are the array of users. So....regardless of whether you are buying in some rich store or the average one, buyer beware.
I just joined a few days ago, after being a member of a few other dating sites.¿ I have not been able to meet the man I want: integrity, honesty, kind.....seem to be in short supply.¿ I will give this site a month or two, and then give up (LOL)
personally i was asked to join this site.. im 19 and i really think financial preference should not matter, as to the fact of stability, stability can be made as for those who work to live,, not live to work.. to be a succesor in your career and stable is wonderful but with no one to share it with would be depressing ,, im lookin to build a home a family a foundation ,,, if we dont have somthin we go get it if we need it we work for it,,working hard should be the way but living against the grains should be aswell ,, ometimes we are not as successful as others plz dont judge for we all do our best,, just support and rich or not we shall make it through ,, lets work together as a team,,, do you agree
-Most millionaires are in restricted social settings with people of a similar class and lifestyle (birds of a feather)
-Most millionaires do not have time for internet dating
-Most millionaires are most likely technically not interested in the internet (seen as a waste of time)
-If anything most millionaires would probably use a professional match making service found in a major high income city like Beverly Hills, West Palm, Chicago, or NYC.
If anything you might find a successful business professional.
Problem is that you have the issue of people jumping site to site due to issues around fake profiles and not being able to even meet a match for coffee so alot of times they just tune out or their profile will eventually expire.
Usually millionaires to not spend their money on a dating site. They meet up at big parties and fund raising events. There are books at the library that tells where millionaires hang out. The company who owns the site has a potential to grow rich when people pay their money.
The fact that so many have contributed to this shallow topic really speaks for why divorce is as common as bums on benches.
I live a wonderful lifestyle, make enough capital to be in an upper tax bracket, and spend almost all of it. So what? And who is spent on? Women. hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of gas, food, lodging, airfare, coffee, drinks, bad loans, gifts, trips, clothing, wine tastings, concerts, Italy, UK, Germany, France. Yakima Valley, Squaw Valley, Napa and Bordeaux. Schooling, biz startups, yada yada yada.
And here I am, nearly 50, and most of those women I met were shallow, brought nothing to the party (Cinntwist.... I admire your style. If you have out there and up here, well... nuff said. F'k those that can't handle the insecurity cuz they let themselves go and can't understand why the husband or wife hooked up with someone who looks like you, or me. I take care of me, love to live life, and thoroughly enjoy the jealous look from b'friends or husbands when their mates meet me. I'm flirtatious, but have NEVER had an affair with a married woman and have no respect for a woman who does so. So, you Tarzans and Janes out there... let go of the last vine before you grab another one).
Got away from my point for a bit there, but here it is:
If you think you merit being treated like sh't being scraped from a shoe; if you can prostitute yourself and live with it; if you can pretend to enjoy sex with a guy who probably hasn't seen his organ in so long he's probably forgotten he's even got one, and stare at the ceiling all the while wondering how much to spend at the furrier's tomorrow; If you can look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you're okay with the you you've become, despite the nasty looks from others who see right through you and what you are doing; if you'd list 'marriage and divorce' as a profession on an a questionaire; if you refer to yourself as 'self made' but what you really mean by that is you had to get yourself off to tough it out for the bucks...
... if all of these are you, forget my name. save your limited brain cells for important stuff like, figuring out just WHICH bald, dumpy, hairy guy with the $3K suit and bad breath and worse cologne, who sends you dickshots the first email, save those cells to figure out which of those guys you wanna slide into bed next to each night.
could not have put it better myself lols very straight to the point. like it lols
could not agree more, darling....perhaps a chat? i am not a member, but find a way if you like what you see....gold digging is for the losers....i'm beautiful and could go that route, but HOW BLOODY BORING? i have to be me, have own sense of self....$ is great, freedom, and meaningful love and work make for bliss.