If you can't look for love then why the heck have you joined a dating website? Course you can look for it. Doh!!!
I have had many female friends who have told me that assinine statement or something to that effect, "Stop looking , he will find you", or "You can't look, yada, yada". That type of statement really tees me off. I am not going to say it's common for most people online but I just had two girfriends get married to men they met on singles sites. Yes, it can happen!! I don't feel the need to get married but I do want a committed relationship. Just my 2 cents.