Alice, since you were in a bad relationship, take time to heal. Can I just add this little piece of information, you are on the wrong site looking for a nice guy. I am not saying that there arn't any here, but if there are, they are rare and hard to find. You are young, if you are seeking someone your age, usually they do not have millions, if you seek an older man, be careful.
I know there are good people (and not just here on MM) out in the real world we live) for my profession and I learned that if only 20% of people in this world are good (20% of people good) is worth living in this world!
Do not be discouraged if someone approaches you with the idea of one sex or playing with you (the removal and the report immediately)
Do not give up what we want to please the other person (being true to his thoughts and ideals).
If you do not find what you want (I'm sure you'll make friends on this page MM)
And if you find what you need and want in terms of its profile (Congratulations)
Dont give up Candy.....there really are soe nice guys on here. You need to weed through the mess to find them. Join in the chat room where you can talk to real people and get to know them. Dont let a few pigs deter you in your quest for love......:)