A most generous offer 5 w's. Will you provide the RVs or will it be a BYORV affair? Put me down as a yes, if it ever gets off the ground...Bill"
A bring your own RV affair. I could probably handle 80 or so, no hookups, former greenhouse pads. There are also state parks on the nearby lake (Lake Degray) that has RV parking, cabins, hotel, marina, etc. Nice area.
Wee. She e-mailed you? Even I have not gotten up the nerve to do that. LOL. I suppose that does change things a bit as far as my post is concerned. She seems to have provided some entertainment here. The thread she started now has 70+ posts...Bill
Jungle cat I agree with you that many african americans had too much hardship but put colour aside as women also through centuries have also experienced hardship. However if you reread what she wrote she is playing the self pity card. She went on to say "Quote"Women of color have to work ten times as hard and sometimes hard to find the very work that white women without any kind of talent whatsoever find in a heart beat". My own Mother would be appalled if she thought this young Lady saw her life more difficult. Without going into the full dynamics my wonderful Mom (god love her)fought against all odds and raised 5 children with no help...never excepted stamps or welfare. I too decided it was up to I to make my life successful. That which I have done. I may not make alot of money however no money can give me this great satisfaction knowing I save lives everyday. The other wonderful part is I did it on my own with no help and put my self through school whilst pregnant. If I can do it and my Mother could any one can. Besides there are more services avail to people these days then our ancesters ever had....and they never complained
Billzeke I can say it has upset her enough that she feels compelled to justify her original post and personally emailing me. If she did not care what others feel I would never of heard from her. I am trying not to be judgmental nor form a opinion however she writes many days after the fact. Could it be she is experiencing her manic phase when she does??? food for thought
I have noticed that Candy consistently stays on her message and never gets rattled or mad even though many people here have insulted her. Maybe it is her business. Sort of like a telemarketer. People hang-up on them and yell at them all the time, but they just keep calling delivering the same message until they get a bite. It must work as it is a multi billion dollar industry...Bill
I have attempted in past to be honest yet only stir some feathers unfotunatly in responding. It would be nice though if she exhibited more confidence on her outer and inner beauty and not play the racial card. After all some of the top models globally are not caucasion...such as Trya Bank ect...hey and who was the last winner of America top models...EVA....she was not caucasion. I bet a million bucks these African Americans would be greatly dissapionted in her in subcoming to the stresses of life. After all they worked their tush off to get where they are at.....Maybe she should or better yet work as partners with her husband to succeed after all she is married
I apologize to you if any of this may sound offensive but I have to say a few words.
Instead of us stepping into your shoes, (which, I'm sure there are many individuals here that have already been there), try stepping into ours for a change. Why is it that people who are less fortunate feel it necessary ALL THE TIME to come to us for a handout. Yes, you are looking for a handout. Those of us who have worked very hard and are financially responsible are not banks! The majority of us already give to charities or causes only AFTER we investigate them and we know exactly where our money is going. It's called being responsible. Some of us even volunteer our time for certain causes which is time well spent.
If you are in fact looking for a job, good luck with that, but I suggest to you that coming onto a dating site and literally begging for money is not the way to advertise yourself as a hard working, willing to learn female. Especially laying on a bed with a glass of wine in your hand. In my opinion, and yes I hire people, I'd say you're a drunk and would never be at work based on that photo. Remember, first impressions last a lifetime. It's not being prejudiced it's being a realist.
You say you want to get where "we are." What does that mean? You will never get to where I am. Why? Because I have certain skills that vastly differ from yours. What are your skills? What do you bring to the table that would make someone want to hire you? Nobody is going to give you any credence based on your initial post. You also said that "some people only view you as a sex toy." How on earth could that happen? Once again, I digress to the laying on the bed with a glass of wine photo. There's that first impression again.
You say prejudice is unbecoming of those who consider themselves gentlemen and women, so does begging and offering stories of self pity. Seek help, you owe your children that much!
Candy41 you mentioned before you were diagnosed with manic/depression and as a result unable to work by the advice of your Practitioner.
Bipolar disorder is a treatable illness. Key word treatable What sort of treatment if any have you seeked and tried? And more importantly what type were you diagnosed with? As there are many
Coping with bipolar disorder can be difficult. Support groups can be a valuable part of a wider network of social support that includes health care professionals, family, friends and a place of religious worship.
Various support groups bring together people, family and friends who are coping with any of a wide variety of physical or mental health problems. Support groups for bipolar disorder provide a setting in which people can share their common problems and provide ongoing support to one another.
Ask your doctor about self-help groups that may exist in your community. Your local health department, public library, telephone book and the Internet also may be good sources to locate a support group in your area.
I sing the song of the down trodden.
Giving of myself what I could.
Wanting peace, stability, love.
Wanting to give in to life.
Tired of all the opposition.
Yet still moving on.
Why can't I have what you have.
What is so wrong with that?
There are pretenders through out!
To them I say to thine own sell be true.
Do not fear what you do not understand.
Instead learn not to prejudge.
There are millions of fish in the sea.
No need to compete!
Maybe we could be friends if you'd just get to know me.
Everybody wants something,
What are you here for?
I appologize for offending the hard working people of the world. However if this site was only for the rich, why is it that when you sgn up on the site there are to classes. Seems to me you need to find a more exclusive club or site. They have them online, I went to a search engine and found several. If you want to look at me a golddigger fine, have your fun. I am just trying to get where you are and I don't have may advantages at my disposal. I am legal sick and should not be working anyway, but I still choose to try. I have children and I don't want them living in poverty because mommy is sick. Yes, I am a model, but I am often told, I am too short or not light complected enough, or too light, or not white, or too thin. These different things make up the majority of the world. Why does every model have to be tall thin and white. Women of color have to work ten times as hard and sometimes hard to find the very work that white women without any kind of talent whatsoever find in a heart beat. No I am not prejudice, I am going by experience. It is not my wish to offend anyone on this site, just stating the issues I deal with as a young woman of color. The only thing I am seen as good for is to be someones sex toy, and that is not fair to me. I am looking for more than that. I may not go out the door every day to work, but, I do work everyday. I take care of my children and still force time to go online and do job searches everyday. I also find the time to administrate my non moving business. I need some advantages, be it finding the right contacts, or someone willing to invest some time and money into me. I am not just looking for someone to take care of me, I am also looking for a partner and friend for life. So, sorry about you women and men on this site that feel I am being lazy but, step your feet in my shoes before judging me. Prejudice is unbecoming of those who consider themselves genlemen and women.
wwwww123 write: MM Convention: I have 10 acres of parking for RV's (primitive) near two pretty ponds. Bring the whole MM community and we will have a cookout. If that isn't enough, we can rent the town. Town has 760 people. Could double the population overnight. lol
And that is a serious offer for anyone who would like to meet here.
We could have three-legged races and play tug of war! And I'd bring some paintings and BoBo could bring some oil or some cornpone or shoefly pie and other people could bring stuff and you could hold a silent auction and give the proceeds to the charity of your choice!
And after we have big fun at wwwww's we can go to Bob's to see his boat. Domino, Minerva, start saving your plane fare!
MM Convention: I have 10 acres of parking for RV's (primitive) near two pretty ponds. Bring the whole MM community and we will have a cookout. If that isn't enough, we can rent the town. Town has 760 people. Could double the population overnight. lol
And that is a serious offer for anyone who would like to meet here.