I totally understand you, I was born in Peru with an Italian background but never really quite fit in there, not even the music. I moved to US and met a peruvian guy, got married but we were so different at the same time; what happened next... yeap... got it.
Just wanted to drop a note here, and say I agree with you about the 'drinking' in England, BUT as a virtual none drinker, don't look in my direction, but don't rule out English girls, they are not all drunks. Be very well. K.
Foreign women (other than American) definitely add flavor to the possibilities of a relationship. Ultimately, it doesn't matter if they are in your country or not. It only matters if you love them. Seek love and not ethnicity and you will find the one you seek.