is it ok to marry a man who is 36 years older than a girl? Long Term Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Jun 06, 2009 at 11:01


    The fact that you are asking strangers for permission or affirmation is revealing however, I am not one to judge. I do not know your economic background or personal history. If you were my daughter I would say no way.

    Perhaps he may be able to help you through life. It would simply be a mutually beneficial arrangement.

    I wish you well.
  • View author's info posted on May 20, 2009 at 00:49


    Life doesn't come with a handbook. Go with what you feel. :)
  • View author's info posted on Apr 21, 2009 at 09:49


    You might run into problems when you
    get older.
    Your interests and point of view on
    life could change as you mature, not
    that you aren't mature now, but love
    and what people think love is often
    changes.
    I think it would be important to step
    away from how your heart feels and look
    at some of the realistic factors that
    could easily happen.
    Chances are you will be widowed,and the
    rate of divorce is high with people
    that have such a broad range of age
    differences.
    Also, would you be ready to take care of
    your man when you were in your 40's and
    50's?? He will be in his 70's and 80's.
    Of course, your relationship could work.
    There are celebrities that marry ones
    they love a lot younger or older.
    Billy Joel pops into my mind.
    However, I would urge you to look at
    the future and what lies ahead before you
    jump into any decisions!
  • View author's info posted on Apr 20, 2009 at 16:40


    I'm not sure what you mean by ok? Two consenting adults certainly have right to do what they feel is right.

    I will say this. You have to prepare yourself for the possible loss of someone you love and cherish.

    I lived with a man for 25 years, he was eleven years older than I was. It was instant attraction and I wouldn't have changed meeting him for the world, but he did die of cancer.

    Ultimately it is up to you. Good-Luck

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  • View author's info posted on Apr 18, 2009 at 19:40


    Not sure anything matters in 100 years unless it effects the planet/world/enviroment...who cares it they are happy.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 07, 2009 at 23:56


    Tell me how do i contact you?
  • View author's info posted on Nov 24, 2007 at 20:53


    OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOnly if you really love him.there is a gentelman in my life that 20 yrs older than i'am and it mean nothing to me. i would marry him in a heart beat if he knew I cared that much.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 04, 2007 at 07:55


    absolute_angel write:
    Angel_Kleo write:
    So, what you think about it?

    Re:




    I'm in love with somebody who is 35 years old than me. If you asked me "Could I fall in love with someone 35 years older than me" before, I'd say NO, but now I know love has no boundaries...My advice, if you're in love, make all possible to keep it., if you don't love him, don't waste your time..Trust me time goes so fast..So try to find that special someone and enjoy your life...

    Re:





    Yeh, I bet it's because he has a shit load of money he's willing to leave behind for you, you vulture.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 02, 2007 at 14:39


    Dressage1 write:
    I think it's up to the parties involved. I wouldn't do it, remember you're going to have to sleep with him. If love's not involved, it's just prostitution.

    Re:





    If that's the case...
    then perhaps on that note we shouldn't prosecute the 21 year old men who bed and genuinely love some 14-16 year old girls?

    Why, if it was fine 100 years ago... why not today, eh?

    Personally, I find no problem with it.
    Though I believe what you said it's the heart and soul of this website:

    Shameless prostitution for one's gain through a relationship.

    Am I wrong? :-(
  • View author's info posted on Aug 12, 2007 at 05:39


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  • View author's info posted on Jul 05, 2007 at 16:28


    Sure...if your name is Anna Nicole...lol
  • View author's info posted on Jul 03, 2007 at 10:48


    put it this way...youll have alot of money one day...but if your in love with him youll also be very lonely...not to mention youll becone a care giver in your prime and my have to adopt/be left to raise kids n your own...
  • View author's info posted on May 28, 2007 at 18:08


    In a hundred years will it really matter?
  • View author's info posted on May 26, 2007 at 23:03


    36 + 24 =...uh, 60.

    Hmmmm, that's a big age difference.
  • View author's info posted on May 06, 2007 at 13:39


    Well personally I "don't" want to see a man who is my dad's age "undressed" it gives me the gross geezer factor.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 14, 2007 at 08:07


    Angel_Kleo write:
    So, what you think about it?

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    Sounds to me like you're trying to find the easy way out of life.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 09, 2007 at 14:07


    Age is just a number!
  • View author's info posted on May 08, 2006 at 19:44


    BobbyStL write:
    tallclassy69 write:
    Hi,
    Thanks for this topic. I would not marry anyone I dont love 100%. If you are able to fall in love with an older man, then go ahead. However, people will still think you married him to gain economically. I would recommend you to live with an older for 2-3 years as if you are married to him to see if that relationship really works for both of you.

    I'm curious what that shiny, sticky material is that's splattered on your face in your pic. Is it what I think it is...?


    Sorry Tallclassy69 if i show up as having looked at your profile, I couldn't resist i had to see what that shiny, sticky material is...lmao
  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2006 at 23:44


    Hi,
    Thanks for this topic. I would not marry anyone I dont love 100%. If you are able to fall in love with an older man, then go ahead. However, people will still think you married him to gain economically. I would recommend you to live with an older for 2-3 years as if you are married to him to see if that relationship really works for both of you.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 01, 2006 at 13:19


    I understand why men want a younger gals....and thats fine to a certain level. But I think there comes a threshold point of "respectability" among colleagues, peers, and friends.

    When it goes a bit far.....(age gap gets wider)....people are judgmental, society is judgmental.

    Just have to wish you the best of luck and hope that you dont lose respect from everyone in general (your peers, colleagues, friends and family). Because unless you (young lady) are some sort of prodigy who can stand on your own feet, I hope you can handle the "whispers" in the room and out of the room when you two are out and about.
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