how do u make someone happy when what you give is never enough? and they always want more? and why isnt our love ever enough for them an even if it means cutting of an arm an a leg and knowing it still wont satisfy them we do it anyway?

A person, male or female, must be happy with themselves first. Until they find that no actions or feelings of others is going to matter. Sadly, I have seen relationships just go through motions and hang by a thread. If they choose that life, that's fine. But I don't like hearing the same complaints from the same friends. There is only one chance at life & I want it all. Romance, cuddling, talking; I choose not to settle for less. It's my opinion, but I hope it helps some who are settling. Best wishes!!

I concur with the others.  You can't make another person happy.  They must make themselves happy.  All you can do is put a mirror up to their face and show them unhappiness or point them in a direction to happiness.  They must then do the work.

he might not need you love..and you.It is that simple. Find someone else to give love,who desrve it. Look around,they might be near you and cry for your love

A person must be ready to be satysfied. Happiness will come.