It's Amazing that there are not more straight forward people on this site.
Bottom line is if your a man on Millionaire Match your probably trying to attract a more attractive or better class of woman than you could without displaying your wealth. Plus your financial leverage gives you a sense of control.
If your a woman on this site it's probably because you want or have grown to like the good things in life and "Ed the Plumber" just can't provide and your willing to be a good companion to a generous partner.
But the amazing part is the big dance. Everyone acts like this doesn't exsist. The women make the point over and over that the man they pick need not be rich in there profile on Millionaire Match, Come'on. And most of the men are posers working 9-5 with a 40K salary a wife two kids and a mortgage.
I say MM require a recent tax return from the men and an honest pitch from the women.
It's a lot like the homeless guy on the cornet that holds a sign that says "Why Lie, I need a BEER" At least he's honest. I'll always give hime a few bucks.
Men have a deep need to provide and protect, women who understand this and let them do just that are usually very happy and lavished with gifts and an abundent life.
It's that simple so why dance around the matter.
All women seek security, call them gold diggers if you want, but so what and all REAL men seek an attractive woman to be proud of, to spoil and protect. So where are the real women?
I'd like to hear opinions about this to see if I'm as on target as I think.
Despite what EVERYONE else is on this site denying, I my friend own what I do in life. Of course women want men with money. Whoever says money can't buy love may be right but it sure can buy the things that we love and that is right as well. Furthermore, What man wouldn't want a beautiful, intelligent, and charming young lady on his arm as a "trophy"? Let's all be real, right?
Kudos dear, Say it loud and say it proud. I do!
Hey goodlife....I found your comments to be, quite frankly, the most sincere and "non agenda'd" of the bunch. Yes, some of us women do have our own money and Oso said it best "some of the women on here probably make more than the guys". Yup. :) I took a look at this site, not for financial reasons but if someone is motivated enough to do well financially that means that's the type of person they are and THAT is what is attractive...a motivated, positive, able to handle the rough road to the top, kind of person. Good luck to you. Paris16
i came here to find a woman that don't need me,but wants me.there is a differance. if she has more than me fine,if not thats ok too.but one that can live with in her means.don't need me to pay all her bills. tired of being used,then throwed away like trash, when they think they have found somthing better. i don't have a problem pulling my wieght in a relatonship,that don't bother me. maybe i'm wrong thinking this way but been used alot.i'm more than a paycheck.
0sopicky writes: If you're a woman on this site it's probably because you want or have grown to like the good things in life and "Ed the Plumber" just can't provide and you're willing to be a good companion to a generous partner.
- Like goodlife says, you're off the mark here,a little, Oso. As an artist and journalist, I grew up in the art and media world where the rich frequently arrange to rub elbows with creative genius. (Sorry if that sounds conceited, but I didn't originate it). It's a lifestyle I'm used to, like black tie dinners, benefit concerts, gala art exhibit openings and charity art auctions where the artists are sometimes heralded as brilliant, benevolent beings and media people all know, or know of, each other. I'm on MM because I feel more comfortable dating people in the affluent world.
0sopicky writes: I say MM require a recent tax return from the men and an honest pitch from the women.
- This, I think, is completely invasive. I would never sign up with an online dating service that demanded such personal information from me. IT'S A DATING SERVICE! Not admission to the Millionaires' Club or something!
0sopicky writes: Men have a deep need to provide and protect, women who understand this and let them do just that are usually very happy and lavished with gifts and an abundant life.
- If this is true, Oso, then where are they hiding? LOL
I wish it really WERE true but I've watched "the chivalrous knight" diminish on this planet for so long, I fear he is an endangered species now. Please convince me he can come back, thrive, and multiply. I want one!
GeminiDi write: I agree that MM should have much stricter requirements for membership. It would eliminate a lot of broken hearts from women with whom I've corresponded who've discovered that the jerks, I mean, gentlemen they've been emailing, calling, and DATING are, indeed, married! We're all here to find the person who fits us best. For some, it's strictly financial security. For others, it's simply a playmate. Yet, for most, I believe it's the dream of a more successful, classier, and more intellectual person than one might find on just any other dating site.
To each his/her own. May you all be successful in your pursuits for finding THE right one who fits your life best!
P. S. I disagree, however, with your comment, "all REAL men seek an attractive woman to be proud of, to spoil, and protect." We have yet to define "REAL" men, but I'm sure my definition would differ with yours. "REAL" men don't need a trophy wife who has nothing more to offer than a pretty face. They are well aware of -- and SECURE with -- who they are.
Just my opinion, of course.
I couldn't have said it better myself. You are right on the money, Gem....no pun intended! We are all looking for something, whether it be security or someone to love. Maybe some are looking for both, but there are those out there who are just looking for the wallet or the big chest, and once they find it, they may be very disappointed.
Ha. Clever guy. Unfortunately not so clever as to realize some of us ladies have our own money. Or that some of us stumbled here by accident and just think it's a hoot!
But you're right: We all, hopefully, bring something to the table. For some it's a chubby wallet, and for others it's a chubby bra size. The more shallow of these animals will eventually stumble into one another and make each other "happy" for a fleeting moment. Others yearn for the true love, knight-in-shining-armor-lady-fair fantasy.
The rest of us fish in multiple ponds, because, well, ya just never know.