Going to dinner , enjoying some good wine , getting to know each other, having good conversation:)
A great first date for me would be in a casual, relaxed atmosphere...maybe a game of pool or something a little competitive.
Paint ball shooting and a Boat ride around the statue of liberty
On the beach and near the golf course
My first date with you hopefully would go something like having some drinks then a nice dinner at a high end restaurant, and then to the batting cages or to an exciting football game.