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Posted on Mon, Sep 25, 2006 10:05

-----{@@@@@@@@@}----- I received this book today...from a dear male friend..someone I have shared my experiences with here and off the Internet...He also read Tuesdays With Morrie to me to help me deal with the coming loss of Daddy...I will always love him for this...His consideration and sweet thought to me has been of profound benefit to me... -----{@@@@@@@@@}----- The following is an exert from the book..@ Mean Girls All Grown Up: Surviving Catty and Conniving Women@@ Another Survival Manual...My feeling is what a shame anyone would need this...I suggest it.. It makes for good reading and understanding of these women...and men..for men can be just as unforgiving and catty as women. @}-----@}-----@@@@----{@-----{@ @@@ The mean Girl. The BEAST. The one who tears at your flesh and devours your heart. She growls when you walk by. She hisses as you leave. She probably drools over you in her sleep. She is a beast all right, plain and simple. Its evident in all she is and all she does. So what do you do with a BEAST in your life? Can you find a hint of hope, or are you destined to spend your life running in fear from this rabid female? @@ Women have become the most catty, manipulative emotional people on the planet, and you are at their mercy. Or are you? " Mean Girls all Grown UP" is a call to spiritual strength..A Call to Stand Firm. It is a call to face the Beasts in your life head on and with a faithful resolve. ..@@ @}-----@}-----@@@@----{@-----{@ Why are women so catty? What makes a women feel she has to strike out in such a negative manner ..what makes women lash out in an insecure hateful way.....what makes women gossip maliciously and insult someone they don't even know? why do women have to be vicious and nasty to one another? I have been a victim and have seen piranha elbowing here. I have seen and have experienced women declare how nice they are but underhandedly and secretively strike out with intent to destroy another woman's character...why? For what reason? Because she may be attractive..sweet...write well..may be well liked...may be more talented...or she just simply receives a lot of attention..I just don't get it ....why do these women feel so threatened that they have to destroy and condemn another woman.....spreading wicked nasty ugly groundless lies and rumors that are just this alone...lies and groundless Rumors...How can anyone judge another human being without ever talking with them much less seeing them in person....what kind of person sits in front of his/ her computer screen thinking up ugly nasty things to say about someone else they don't even know......what kind of mind does this..what kind of heart...spirit does it take to do such a thing....and what kind of People jump on the band wagon and contribute to such ugliness...all with nothing in hand but their own insecurities and self absorbed self pity......What a destructive way to live...What makes women MEAN ? What makes Men Mean ? I believe we get back what we put out..what goes around eventually comes back around to us... Whatever happened to the simple thought and idea of the " Golden Rule " Do unto others as you would have them do unto you....Have we forgotten these profound words...Why not think with love and appreciation in our hearts...why not celebrate the uniqueness of another human being ...What cost is it ..to just be @@ NICE @@..Isn't there enough hate and chaos in the world...I don't know about anyone else...but I simply choose @@ NOT @@ to be a part of it....So to all of you women and men .. I salute each and everyone of you for the wonderment that is you...the uniqueness that is you...the beauty that is you.... Peace and Love to all..yes even those who are sitting there thinking up the next ugliness to bestowed on our world....or on me for that matter...God Bless you All! Erica Anne@>------------------

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Posted on Mon, Oct 23, 2006 03:37

i am without sin i didnt buy any today, anyone have a pack of sin i can borrow, i need my sins lol


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Posted on Sun, Oct 22, 2006 17:34

Good One John thank you... Erica Anne @)--------


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Posted on Sun, Oct 08, 2006 07:29

Alexia...just forgetaboutit ..let it go if you can......put the negative influences here ... behind you...just be the sweet generous person you are. For the life of me..I don't get it..I just can't understand how anyone can be so self righteous that they feel they can judge another person...There is a statement in the bible which reads.. " Let he who is without sin...Cast the first stone " Is anyone here without sin? I am certainly not..not one of us is..we are not perfect ...not of us can claim this...so where is the compassion the understanding the empathy..the forgiveness...all these traits are positive... why not just be kind and gentle to one another..... " Love heals the sick of heart " Food for thought.... Thank you for posting...Alexia... Erica Anne @)---------


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Posted on Sat, Oct 07, 2006 09:06

thank you B . B. I do keep thinking people will tire of all the drama..the bashing..the cat fights..back biting ...I guess in a way they are ..for they are leaving and disappearing like mice jumping off a sinking ship..... Its sad..this venue has so much potiential.... we have lost some really great people... R. H. It is my inclination to thank you...but honestly..I am not quite sure just how to take you... erica anne @)-------


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Posted on Thu, Oct 05, 2006 01:29

hey gem..I agree ..just look around at our world..fear..anger..resentment jealousy bitterness..rules the day...why one can't take a simple drive without hearing someone cussing or blowing their horn in anger and frustration...people are standing in line complaining about the line the weather the service..one rarely ever hears thank you..you welcome or please any more...every day seems to be a fight for survival...what happened to the good family neighbors...now one never sees or hears from them unless they have something to complain to you about....It is so easy to reach out in kindness..love and understanding...where is the empathy ..compassion for others not one of us is perfect..why can't we as humans reach out to others with love and understanding..why NOT just say something NICE ????? What could an act of kindness do but ....MAKE SOMEONE'S DAY!!!!....... GEM you are a sweetheart...Its good to see you...thank you for posting.. Erica Anne@]---------------


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Posted on Fri, Sep 29, 2006 08:15

Hey Barbara!! I love you too! Giggle...Cyber hug! Its good to hear from you and I am right with you on the Dale Carnegie Book...every man I know that has his own Corp. or Business..has read that book. It is a must read. You know it is all really so simple ..I mean just to be * Nice * ...It is all good all positive energy. This is truly what we need to send out to others...You get back what you give ...and even if you don't keep on giving....it all comes down to it is our choice..free will...we can either see life in a positive light or choose to see only the negative...I simply choose to be positive...makes for a much happier me!! giggle ..now is that selfish or what??? *Wink* Barbara..you have been sweet to me from the get go...I love you for this...anyone would be honored to have you as a friend... Thank you for posting!! Erica Anne @}-------


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Posted on Wed, Sep 27, 2006 18:54

LCl..Thank you...And just for the record ...You are anything but an old Hag..wow just look at your photograph...beautiful..vivacious...definitely a woman of class... Thank you so much for posting.... Erica Anne@}-----


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Posted on Wed, Sep 27, 2006 11:02

Thank you AsianAura and Mailorderman...I appreciate your support and kindness... Erica Anne@}----


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Posted on Tue, Sep 26, 2006 17:21

Thank you Candie..Don't ever let anyone drive you away or bring you down...there are a lot of great people here...one has to keep their percpective..keep a sense of humor and just don't sweat the small stuff... you are beautiful and offer a positve spirit here.. thank you for sharing.... erica anne@}------


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Posted on Tue, Sep 26, 2006 07:26

Lorie..you are such a sweet understanding spirit...you are so pretty and seem to have the soul of an angel...I do agree with you however...their are a lot of sick puppies out there..who are bent on destruction of others... we just have to see it all for what it is..." A Veiled cry of pain from a sick tortured soul..." Thank you for your support and for posting LA.... You are a sweetheart... Erica Anne @)----------


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Posted on Tue, Sep 26, 2006 06:36

Erica Anne, GREAT Blog! You are a woman of grace and beauty.


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