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Posted on Tue, Sep 19, 2006 08:58

God gives us men and compels some of us to love them. Yet why is the man, an animal with such a big heart, so hard to understand at times? Perhaps it's because if our men were easier for us to understand, and we could trust them with our hearts, we wouldn't be able to enjoy the experience of life. Or, perhaps it's because God wants us to learn unconditional love. To have a man in your life is a gift of sorts. A good man can teach a women courage, if she chooses to take that chance and hang on for dear life. Even the smallest of men thinks he is mightier than the tallest of women. To conquer the fear of failing, making mistakes in a relationship, having one's heart crushed, or being publicly humiliated is an admirable feat for any women. For that, we can be grateful. Men teach us responsibility. Unlike a bicycle, or a computer,a man needs regular care and most of it requires that we need to get dirty, maybe smelly, and up off the couch. Choosing to leave your cozy chair to bring your man a beer, or wine is a responsibility. When our man drinks heartily, we know we've made him happier. If he is happy he will want to stick around for more treats and cuddling. Learning to care for a man is both an art and a science. Some are easy keepers, requiring little more than regular turn out, a microwave dinner, a beer or wine, and some quality time under and above the sheets. Others will test you, you'll struggle to keep them from being too fat or too thin, to pick up their clothing, keep the toilet seat down, or to remember important dates. Some are so accident prone you'll swear they're intentionally finding new ways to injure themselves. If you weren't raised with men, you can't know that they have unique personalities. You might expect this from dogs, or horses, but men? Indeed, there are clever men, grumpy men, serious men, and even men with a sense of humor. Those prone to humor will test you by finding new ways to escape from the house or chores when you least expect it. Men can be timid or brave, lazy or athletic, obstinate or willing. You will hit it off with some men and others will elude you altogether. There are as many "types" of men as there are people, which make the whole partnership thing all the more interesting. If you've never lived with a man, you probably assume it's a simple thing you can learn in a weekend. You can, in fact, learn the basics on a Sunday, but to truly know a man, well that takes a lifetime. Working with a living being is far more complex than turning a key in the ignition and putting the car in "drive." In addition to listening to your psychologist, your man will have a few things to say to you as well. On a good day, he'll be happy to go along with the program and tolerate your mistakes. On a bad day, you'll swear he's trying to kill you. Perhaps he has not learned how to communicate, or perhaps he's fed up with how slowly you're learning his language. Regardless, the man will have an opinion. He may choose to challenge you (which can ultimately make you a better person) or he may carefully guide you through life's challenges...if it suits him. It all depends on the partnership, and partnership is what it's all about. If you face your fears, swallow your pride, and are willing to work at it, you'll learn lessons in courage, commitment, and compassion in addition to basic survival skills. You'll discover just how hard you're willing to work toward a goal, how little you know, and how much you have to learn. And, while some people think the man "does all the work", you know better, and so does he. You'll be challenged physically as well as mentally. Your man may humble you completely with his love. You may find that being around him is the closest you'll get to heaven. You can choose to intimidate your man, but do you really want to? The results may come more quickly but will your work ever be as graceful as that gained through trust? The best partners choose to listen, as well as to tell. When it works, we experience a sweet sense of accomplishment brought about by smarts, hard work, and mutual understanding between a man and a women. These are the days when you know with absolute certainty that your man is enjoying his life with you. If we make it to the older years with our man still in our lives, most of us will squeeze them into our oversaturated schedules; balancing our need for things around our relationships, with those of our career and households. It seems there is never enough time to play, or to be with them as much as we'd like. Hours with our man are stolen pleasures. It is in our blood to love a man, we want to share our life with them. Our man knows our secrets. We share our tears with him as he wraps us in his arms and whispers our hopes into our ears. Our home becomes a sanctuary in an unsettled world, a sheltered place where life's true priorities are clear. It is a warm place to sleep with someone who loves us, where we know that our man really cares about us. When you step back, it's not just about men,it's about love, life, and learning. On any given day, a man could be celebrating an achievement or recovering from an illness. That same day, there could also be loss, a broken limb, a case of the flu, or he could be having a bad day. As women, we share the life cycle of men, the hurried rush of life, love, loss, success, and death, that caring for a man brings us. When our partners pass, it is more than a moment of sorrow. We mark our loss with words of gratitude for the ways our lives have been blessed. Our memories are of joy, awe, and wonder. Absolute union. We honor our men for their brave hearts, courage, and willingness to share their life with us. To those outside our circle here on MM, it must seem strange. To see us in on this site, who would guess such poetry lives in our hearts? We celebrate our men with praise worthy of heroes. Indeed, our men have the hearts of warriors and often carry us into and out of fields of battle on their white stallions. Listen to the stories found here, of that once in a lifetime man, of journeys made and challenges met. Of relationships found that will last the tests of time. The best of men rising to the challenges we set before them. Those who know them understand how fully a man can hold a woman's heart. Together, we as women, share the joys and pains of finding the man who can touch us so deeply. We shoulder the burden of deciding when or whether to begin a life with a true companion. Or so we like to think... In the end, we're not certain if God entrusts us to our man or our man to us. Does it matter? We're grateful God loaned us this man in the first place.


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Posted on Mon, Jun 23, 2008 12:47

Purrfectlynormal. What you say is so true. I have never doubted that feeling...but have found myself creating fantasies when on line. Sad, but true. It must happen this way for both the men and women here. We talk to a person, without meeting them, and build up this reality that may not be true...The good thing about those who blog is that we can actually see what kind of a person they might be. Amazing what shows in the way a person writes and responds to others in this community. May all our dreams of happiness and love come true.

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Posted on Mon, Jun 23, 2008 12:37

Quoting iamsamiam33: whatyouhavesaidwarms theheartsofmanymenhere thankyouQueen forsharingyourlove

Thank you Sam. Most of the women here feel very grateful for the men on MM, and those out there in the world. Sometimes we forget to let you know how important you are to us. God Bless the men in our lives.

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Posted on Sat, Jun 21, 2008 18:36

Queen, I dont know who he will be, or from where or even when but I can feel "the one" around me also. And when we find each other he will know this: Being with you wakes up my soul, made to love but never finding till now, the you, I adore.

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Posted on Fri, Jun 20, 2008 03:49

I bumped this blog for Ryleigh and Virtual. We have been discussing the merits of the men that we are attracted to....

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Posted on Thu, Feb 14, 2008 04:39

Well, well. Looks like this blog has been reincarnated yet once more. And in perfect time for Valentines Day! Smiles and the feelings of caring for others are contagious. This is a great time of the year to share both of these with other people who are around you... May all our hearts be inspired by dreams of happiness and love. May we spread goodwill, smiles, and laughter where ever we go these days. May each person we meet feel our warmth and know that we care.

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Posted on Sun, Jan 20, 2008 05:31

Irocas, That is soooo funny. It is the only way you could shut her up! That might be a great idea for a book. I think there are many who have that same problem with their yappy partners. This could be big. Be careful or someone here might take your idea. Heck, write the book and it might save many relationships. I am still laughing at the thought. So she really quit yapping when you were bed bouncing?


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Posted on Fri, Jan 18, 2008 16:05

Irocas. Now I know who bumped this blog! Yes, I agree with you. People who ramble on without any intent or concious thought remind me of a puppy that cannot get enough attention. Yap, yap, yap. Some people like their mates/partners to be like that... Personally, I do not want to be around people like this for any longer than I need to. Or those people who feel the need to kiss my ass ets. They bore me. Of course, they do have their purpose and life to live. Not everyone can be like we are... I would not have made it to four months. One day with a person like that and I would have said, NEXT....but than, maybe she made up for it in other ways??? LOL! Was she good at bed bouncing?

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Posted on Thu, Dec 13, 2007 04:40

Re: irocas write: Grunting is in our DNA. It has been proven that women have a much larger vocabulary and actually speak 2 1/2 times more words in a day than a man does. The problem that this poses is that by the time we get home from work we've run out of words whereas you have many more left. Grunting is God's way of compensating for man's shortage of words. Re: Queenofyourdreams write: LOL! Another wise man, Irocos. We have the best men on this site!!! Now about those grunts....Is there a way to teach a man to grunt in front of a TV if he does not know how,yet? Wait a moment, can a man be trained? Do we really want a trained man? That would be like having a robot. Maybe that is a good thing? (thinking here.) Hmmmm. Maybe that is not true as we can train animals and they communicate better with us....Does this mean that it still comes down to understanding and communication? And have you seen my cat Zina? He has been gone three months now and the pet psychic said he will be back soon. From her lips to Gods ears.... Re: irocas write: We're not as complicated as you make us out to be. We do grunt a great deal, especially in front of the TV. You just have to figure out what the grunting means. When you do that, and then come to appreciate that we rarely have headaches.. you may find a place for us in your lives.

Irocas, I have heard about women having a larger vocabulary...This must be the average women who has been locked away from people during the day and only sees her man when he comes home tired. However, I have met people (Are there any here?) that do talk endlessly, without point, without knowledge, without thought...

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Posted on Mon, Dec 10, 2007 05:12

Re: Phantomea write: Men are such wonderful creatures. I think men are works of art, created by the artist known only as God.

Phantomea, I agree! "In the end, we're not certain if God entrusts us to our man or our man to us. Does it matter? We're grateful God loaned us this man in the first place.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 10, 2007 05:08

Re: wwww12345 write: "(Are you saying that men are the reason some women are gay?)" reply I have no doubt that is true sometimes, but I promise to do my best to help prevent as many conversions as I can. lol

These ladies are all waiting their turn...wwwwwwwwwww. It is good to see you back writing again. I received emails from many women who know you. They all said that there was no way that you would be the reason for a women to become gay. Several did mention the amazing, life changing experience they had while you played bongo with your fingers on their rumps.....


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Posted on Sat, Dec 08, 2007 23:35

Men are such wonderful creatures. I think men are works of art, created by the artist known only as God.


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Posted on Sat, Dec 08, 2007 20:51

"(Are you saying that men are the reason some women are gay?)" reply I have no doubt that is true sometimes, but I promise to do my best to help prevent as many conversions as I can. lol


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Posted on Sat, Dec 08, 2007 04:59

Re: irocas write: We're not as complicated as you make us out to be. We do grunt a great deal, especially in front of the TV. You just have to figure out what the grunting means. When you do that, and then come to appreciate that we rarely have headaches.. you may find a place for us in your lives.

LOL! Another wise man, Irocos. We have the best men on this site!!! Now about those grunts....Is there a way to teach a man to grunt in front of a TV if he does not know how,yet? Wait a moment, can a man be trained? Do we really want a trained man? That would be like having a robot. Maybe that is a good thing? (thinking here.) Hmmmm. Maybe that is not true as we can train animals and they communicate better with us....Does this mean that it still comes down to understanding and communication? And have you seen my cat Zina? He has been gone three months now and the pet psychic said he will be back soon. From her lips to Gods ears....

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Posted on Sat, Dec 08, 2007 04:47

I feel so much better knowing that there is a least one gallant man out there who is working hard to keep women straight.... (Are you saying that men are the reason some women are gay?) wwww.1234 Queenie, I loved your opening statement. Wonderful writing and observations. As we read your writing and with a little reading between the lines, its easy to see what is wrong with many marriages. Thanks Thank you for the compliment. Relationships can be tricky. I feel the secret is in having a partner, like you, who is willing to communicate and learn how to be with another.

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Posted on Thu, Dec 06, 2007 08:37

Queenie, I loved your opening statement. Wonderful writing and observations. As we read your writing and with a little reading between the lines, its easy to see what is wrong with many marriages. Thanks.


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Posted on Tue, Dec 04, 2007 11:44

I do not "stir up trouble". I just have a "mission in life" to keep you women straight. Women have already succeeded in their "mission in life" --- drove me crazy.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 03, 2007 14:11

Re: _HONEY write: Queen, you have described MEN in general, not just the MM men. This is a beautiful description. Still looking for a first hubby: a healthy,loving, loyal, tall man to share the rest of my life with.

Honey, Yes. This is about men in general. There are men like this here, and out there in the other world. May the man of your dreams be looking for you. When he goes to sleep, may he imagine holding you in his arms....Tonight when you go to bed, imagine that he is already there. Let him pull back the covers as he waits for you to come closer to him. Feel his arms reach around you, and pull you closer...(you know where to go with this!)

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Posted on Mon, Dec 03, 2007 14:05

Re: wwww12345 write: Here are the only drums I have been playing lately. I am getting even with my daughter by teaching my granddaugter to play. I am going to teach her how to play in the mud next, and buy her a untrained puppy. Paybacks are so great. However, I wouldn't turn down a good set of bongos to play. lol

It is good to see you back wwwwwwwwwwwwww. That is very funny about your daughter getting pay back. Hope to see you stirring up trouble here in the blogs like in the days of the forum. No need to let those well honed fingers stop tapping.... Be prepared, wwww is back in the house!

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Posted on Sun, Dec 02, 2007 22:11

Queen, you have described MEN in general, not just the MM men. This is a beautiful description. Still looking for a first hubby: a healthy,loving, loyal, tall man to share the rest of my life with.

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