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italian8angel
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Posted on Fri, Aug 04, 2006 06:41

I have met nice men on this site,,and I am very interested in meeting a man of my quality ,.. I am very passionate and sexual if it is with the right person,,,, BUT,,,.. when I have spoken on the phone,,most of the men get VERY sexual right away,, I even warn them before speaking to them that it is not right in the first few conversations!!!! What I want to know ,is this normal,,???


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Posted on Wed, Aug 09, 2006 09:28

wow alexiaa you never cease to amaze me with both your misspellings and your answers. Honey did you know you can spell check your replies before you hit submit?


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Posted on Tue, Aug 08, 2006 21:39

The problem here is class. You seem to be a lady and there is no filter in this system which allows only gentlemen to contact you. A man with class knows a lady will be affended by crude language, especially when two people are just getting acquainted. Intelligent men should consider conversation with a classy lady as a kind of ritualistic dance and relish it. He will find out soon enough what happens behind the bedroom door. With crude conversation there is little chance of getting there at all. With intelligence and class a little patience and discretion go a long way.


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Posted on Tue, Aug 08, 2006 16:46

It's a very sad state of affairs but this does happen very often. A lot of men these days just want one thing and get it way too often from the women out there that it ruins it for the good girls. If they get the reaction they want from you, they figure you're game. If they don't they move on to the next profile. If a guy asks you if you have a web cam, hit escape as quick as you can......he'll be disrobing in a heart beat and think nothing of it! I just crack up when a few minutes into an IM session you get asked "so what do you like?" You know where that's going. Getting to know one another these days is somewhat a thing of the past for some. It's all about the score.


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Posted on Mon, Aug 07, 2006 08:24

Is it COMMON for men to try to come onto a woman on the phone? Unfortunately, yes. Is it normal or appropriate? Not by my standards, it isn't, and it certainly shows a lack of class and respect for women on the man's part. That goes for IM's as well, where guys who don't even have pictures in their profiles will say in their very first IM session, "Are you horny? Do I turn you on?" That's why on the one online messaging service I use, I have my preferences set where ONLY people on my friends list can message me, and I only add people I actually know, either from real life or from chatrooms/forums that we share. I NEVER add complete strangers.


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Posted on Sun, Aug 06, 2006 19:58

What difference would it make what others think? Are you saying if people here tell you it's normal, then you'll accept it as such? You correctly see it as abnormal, so hang up and don't have anything to do with them. EVER. Also, don't warn them in advance. It's best if dirt bags feel free to be dirt bags from the start. Saves you time screening them out. By instructing them, it's like you are saying "it's OK to fool me from the start ... you'll only have to do that for a little while." Geez, the stuff I read on this system is mind-boggling.


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Posted on Sun, Aug 06, 2006 18:57

I guess some men are on this site for one thing. Well, i believe a large number are.


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malcolmjames
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Posted on Sun, Aug 06, 2006 18:06

It isn't right if you don't request it, Italian8angel. Personally, I don't go there at first and I find it tacky when women try to turn it into sex quickly, but I'm not surprised that most men would. If you have made it clear that's not what you want to start talking about then the real gentlemen will respect you and not go there. Just my 2 cents. Malcolm


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tallsxyemt
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Posted on Sun, Aug 06, 2006 08:09

I have encountered this problem as well, and honestly I view it as a red flag, particularly if this man was forewarned that this behaviour is unacceptable. I see it as a sign that he a) will not respect my feelings orb) can't control himself. I'm not sure which is worse.


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Posted on Sun, Aug 06, 2006 08:08

I find it abit disrespectiful. You shouldn't have to send out 'pre-warning' signs of how to be treated like a lady. Not sure if men think that is the way to win over a lady?? but let us tell you, it's not! lol Even if you do have plenty of $$, doesn't give you an excuse to be an @$$! *grins*


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