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AsianAmericanIdol
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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 18:48

I hope all of us ladies in here have better luck than this one did, though I actually CAN picture myself ending up that way...

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Posted on Wed, Aug 02, 2006 19:21

Slightly creepy, AAI... But sometimes it seems all to true! Thanks for the semi-hysterical giggle!


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Posted on Wed, Aug 02, 2006 16:00

NativeNewYorker, as nice as those two success stories you know about sound, I've TRIED the long distance relationship thing, and to say it doesn't work for me would be a gross understatement. I actually moved all my stuff to Minnesota once to be with someone else, and he turned out to already be living with another woman and was trying to leave her without even TELLING her first--just abandon her and let her read about in a letter or just figure it out for herself. Then we tried sharing an apartment and he bailed out on me within--get this--TWO WEEKS, after all the trouble I'd gone to. He went back to the first woman. He's probably quite similar to some guys I've seen online (not here) who brag about who they've strung some woman along to the point of getting her to move to be with them, with no real desire to have a life together with her, "just to see if she would really do it." Nothing but some sick dare gone way too far. In any case, I've got a child now who's pretty attached to all his grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc., and I'm not about to uproot him just to go chase after some man who probably won't even hold up his end of the deal, and will probably ditch me just as quickly as the other one did.


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