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Posted on Sat, Jul 29, 2006 08:26

It utterly amazes me how awful and deceitful people can be. The lengths that one would go to in order to manipulate an innocent person, believing that their intentions are good and true, only to have their heart ripped out and spit upon. I'm talking about all of the innocent people out there who are being used and don't even know of the nefarious plans their alleged man or woman have in the works, just waiting until they get what they want, not caring of the emotional road kill they leave behind. I don't believe in using others to get a means to an end, and it angers me when I see it happen to those around me, whether I know them or not. I know that some people welcome being used, and that they even perhaps thrive on it. But what of those who are unaware? Who are blind not because they choose to be, but because of the intricate cleverness of the illusion that the deceiver creates? I feel helpless in the fact that it is not my place to point these things out to certain individuals, and that someday they will know the truth as I have come to know it- the hard way, burgeoning with pain and torment, guilt and regret for not realizing the fool you slowly became, knowing that there will never be a way to rectify your past mistakes, feeling suffocated by your own tumultuous, traitorous thoughts of "If only they came back..." How awful it must be; how awful it is.

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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 08:46

NativeNewYorker: Thanks :D


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Posted on Mon, Jul 31, 2006 06:53

Mariana2005- I'm sure it's happened to most of us at one point or other, but I wasn't talking about me, or anyone here. I just wrote this cause I was pissed, and writing is the cheapest, less lethal way of expressing one's self ;D Thanks for your comment. Cybil: When I assume things, I usually assume the worst. Therefore, I will ask that you clarify your statement before I post a reply to it. tallsxymet: This person is so far spun in denial, that no matter what I say, she ain't coming back from it. Perhaps if someone here is going through a similar situation, maybe this will give them a jolt back into reality? At least, I hope so. Bonnie: Thank you. Yes, the healing process... though usually, it can be quite gruesome ;D I'm glad we're two women capable of surviving such things. Makes us all that much stronger...


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Posted on Sun, Jul 30, 2006 21:26

Clearly something is burdening your heart and perhaps it is none of my business, but if you feel someone is being wronged and it bothers you so deeply, even if you cannot come out and say what is irking you, then perhaps nudge the person of whom you speak in the right direction. If this person is worthy of your assistance they will accept it gratefully if not... well they will learn soon enough.


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Posted on Sun, Jul 30, 2006 20:14

I never manipulate anyone, I just ask


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Posted on Sun, Jul 30, 2006 19:27

Btw, I am not bitter or by no means referring to myself. Just an unfortunate situation that happened to a friend of mine.


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