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Posted on Nov 13, 2018 at 11:53 AM

As a self-made millionaire, I originally went on this site to find a male millionaire.  Imagine that - given that it is called "Millionaire Match!"  From my experiences, that is not what this site is about..... 

 

For women, it appears to be about 100% gold digging and trying to find someone (supposedly) with money despite the woman not being a millionaire/financially secure herself or probably never even having been successful at anything other than her physical appearance. There are a lot of other dating sites which do not stress money so if they are "shopping" for that on this one and complaining that they have not found it to their liking, that speaks (it seems) for itself.

 

For men, I have also found that the vast majority of men on this site are NOT millionaires but wannabe's even despite purported certifications.  They (mostly a LOT OLDER men too) use this as a potential hookup for gullible and unsophisticated younger women.  Most of the men which I have corresponded do not seem to have the intellectual capacity to be a millionaire.  They try to talk a great game however.  Also love the pictures of them too strolling around a totally vacant seaside home (probably for sale) or sitting in a Ferrari (probably for sale in a dealership).

 

That is my two cents if it is worth anything.


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Posted on Dec 09, 2018 at 07:02 AM

I came here to prospect for gold!!! Admittedly

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Posted on Dec 05, 2018 at 08:49 AM

Great observations Clara. I have been on here for 2 days and from poking around I sense the same thing.

Although there do seem to be some hidden gems(TBD).

I came on here, not specifically for the monetary or wealth component, but because knowing that wealth can be easily achieved, the ones who know this have an elevated mindset.

It's not about the material component but a abundance mentality component with a potential partner who "gets it".

Thank you for posting and confirming some of my thoughts;)

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Posted on Dec 04, 2018 at 10:07 PM

@claraw you seem wise and experienced on this and from my side I'd like you to look at my profile and share tips on how I can be successful in meeting the right man on here.

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Posted on Dec 03, 2018 at 01:28 AM

Hello, yes I am so far from a millionaire, once was though. I love your blog comment. That’s why I wrote. However I would like to say this. Once I was in a very successful position in my own business from nothing. And in all my travels and times the one thing I noticed is that no money can buy you what true affection and friendship is from a loving relationship. After 10 years of giving my son all he needed, and after all that was stolen from me , I am on this site through experience. And that is how much I would have given for a pure soul like me. Not all men are gold diggers. Not all men are like your blog. Just the same as women. I am sad that this world is the way it is. But within this I stand firm and shall never change as I believe a gentleman like a lady is priceless. Kind regards warren

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Posted on Dec 02, 2018 at 12:35 PM

You look like a gold digger to me! Especially when you say you are not! Why need to justify yourself.... lol 😂

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Posted on Dec 02, 2018 at 12:30 PM

Sorry to break it that most men are sadly all about appearance 😒

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Posted on Nov 30, 2018 at 08:23 AM

I think some of you need to give Clara a break. I myself, am not a millionaire and I’m not necessarily looking for one, rather I’m interested in meeting well-rounded individuals. I make a decent enough living that I am able to take good care of myself. That being said, if I were Clara’s age and had her wealth, I would feel I had earned the right to be “short-sighted” or as I call it, selective. I’m sure in her situation, dating is a lot more difficult and frustrating than it is for the rest of us average income folks.

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Posted on Nov 29, 2018 at 11:34 PM

I came on here to find a powerful and confident man but as I get to know them they are far from confident. They don’t really want an “intelligent and driven” woman.

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Posted on Nov 29, 2018 at 06:28 PM

This place pice of crap. Most of mens far away to be a millionaire, just a dreamers.. Some of them maybe have some investments and little bit cash but have a mental disorder)

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Posted on Nov 29, 2018 at 08:20 AM

I absolutely agree I enjoy reading the cheesy come on comments from European and young men. Don’t forget the Euro scammers trying to get your personal info.

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Posted on Nov 29, 2018 at 07:10 AM

if you're thinking of spending a lifetime with someone, then it's natural to think about how you'll pay for retirement and old age. Being able to pay for good independent living/assisted living/nursing home care takes a lot of money. It takes more if you want to be able to pay for it for as many years as it takes off of income and dividends, without going into principal. This requires a bigger nest egg than a lot of people would think to withstand recessions and cost inflation. I can afford my own old age but I'm not sure I can afford the old age of three other people-- my future wife and possibly her parents.  So while I don't rule out dating someone who doesn't have substantial savings or a good pension, I do worry about it. Millions of people my age have almost zero savings. It's interesting to me how few people think seriously about paying for old age. Some of them may find they are in dire straits when they get to 70 or 80 or 90. I have volunteered for years for the elderly and it's sad to see people who were once middle class struggling on public welfare in their "golden" years.

 

Now, if you're looking for financially responsible nice people with class, is MM a good place for you? You can decide for yourself. Nothing wrong with fancy houses/cars/clothes/vacations, but people who are too wrapped up in that stuff just annoy me. And the people who flash that stuff but don't have savings for the long term? Fuggedaboutit.


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Posted on Nov 28, 2018 at 09:39 PM

Quoting author:

One million is nothing anymore.
In my hood houses are 5 million to start.
I know a few billionaires who drive old junky cars and wear torn khakis.old world wealth seldom are flashy.
Im finding this site go be a pile of gold digging liers


 

Zebra10 , 

 

That is right ..I know of some people who does ..one I know

started to work hard again , because the 5 million is almost

gone after buying a house ,cars for the Family etc . I know also

of one who lives in a small bungalow with no extra luxurious

things to save the money ..

 


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Posted on Nov 28, 2018 at 11:59 AM

Great question. I didn’t realize it was for millionaires seeking millionaires or I assume they would verify each and every income. I am not but have much experience with. I have also been the benefactor for a young man less financilly fortunate as myself and enjoyed very much his company on my trips etc. I am looking for someone like me....who wants a pleasant companion and isn’t too distracted by his income to pass up a great experience. Sherie

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Posted on Nov 24, 2018 at 12:43 PM

One million is nothing anymore.
In my hood houses are 5 million to start.
I know a few billionaires who drive old junky cars and wear torn khakis.old world wealth seldom are flashy.
Im finding this site go be a pile of gold digging liers

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Posted on Nov 23, 2018 at 10:23 PM

Love your comments. It's frustrating as I find this site the most dishonest, the most scammers and unfortunately usually a waste of my valuable time. Hope you find someone real.

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Posted on Nov 23, 2018 at 02:35 PM

Goes for both sides of the fence. Amazing how many “ladies” remain 49 forevermore. Time to say good by

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Posted on Nov 22, 2018 at 08:57 PM

So I guess the only way a woman can be secure is if she is a millionaire? That’s laughable and not to mention ignorant. Then to imply that because a woman is not a millionaire she is a gold digger and 100% of women are on here for the purpose of gold digging. Ha, again laughable. One, I’m not a millionaire but I damn sure have an awesome career and make good money. With or without a man, I hold my own. Two, I’m offended you lumped every woman on her as gold diggers, which would include yourself. You did say that the man you want has to make more then you. Not sure what that makes you? Last but not least, trust me. Ive had many chances with top athletes that I flat out turned down. If I wanted a man with money, I don’t need a site to do it.

This dating site is nothing more than any other dating site. It’s called making connections? Connections that are based on people’s personal needs and wants.

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Posted on Nov 22, 2018 at 08:27 PM

I’m in montecito calif. 👌I’m real .. 3.2mil home. . Earned it. Worked it. Hi Iq time spent. ... can’t seem to find equal respect .. based on other than net worth. You should try that

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Posted on Nov 22, 2018 at 05:24 PM

Hmu u know what this is really about

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