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Posted on Sep 14, 2018 at 09:36 PM

Should you respond to a post if you do not meet all of the individual's requirements. I usually don't respond if a male has certain preferences; specifically the "hot" or very hot preference. I don't consider myself hot, I think I am an average, professional female, who looks pretty okay for her age.  Would love to hear from others!

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Posted on Oct 22, 2018 at 09:27 PM

If you only fail to meet a few minor requirements, go ahead and email them. "Hot/Very Hot" is in the eye of the beholder, you might as well give it a shot. The trick is figuring out the difference between flexible requirements and and strict requirements. I've gotten messages from some women even though I was outside their preferred age range. I got the impression they listed some requirements just to prevent a flood of emails from men.   Also, some people seem to have very unrealistic requirements that no one can meet. If they go for weeks and months with no Mr. or Ms. Perfect showing up, they may eventually learn to settle for an actual human being.

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Posted on Oct 21, 2018 at 03:30 PM

You are all hot to trot! Just use your skills to sell the deal.fun.fun.fun.honesty.then close the deal.beauty starts from within.best of luck to you all.hell ya! You will all be winners.paddy has spoken! Haha!

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Posted on Oct 18, 2018 at 02:37 PM

I agree, let him decide what he likes. You are beautiful. I dont respond if they are looking for 30 to 50 and are 60 +

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Posted on Oct 18, 2018 at 01:39 PM

Let him decide if you are hot.  His definition might differ from yours.  Who knows what he means?    

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Posted on Oct 16, 2018 at 01:32 AM

I look for friendship first, if you cant stand to be away from that friend there's a spark waiting to be ignited.

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Posted on Sep 20, 2018 at 02:29 PM

Hi EverLoyal, my view is to reply, because dating interest are dynamic. However, I error on the side of caution to stay inside their requirements when sending a wink.

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Posted on Sep 17, 2018 at 05:16 PM

Why not respond???/  Life is precious.  Go out there an be BOLD!  Nothing beats a failure than a try.    

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Posted on Sep 15, 2018 at 05:32 PM

You decide if you like him.  Let him decide if he likes you.  

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Posted on Sep 15, 2018 at 02:54 AM

  Yes I answer to all Post just to say thank you and goodluck  . ..Male members here knows how to interpret messages so  no worry ..they will understand you if you are  not interested.  

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