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Posted on Aug 12, 2018 at 03:30 AM

Good afternoon beautiful people!
Today I want to talk to you about memories.
And I need your help, if someone has or had a similar experience. Do you know when it comes to that feeling of lack? You have dreams about your previous boyfriend, and think that no one else can replace him. Even if you meet people you are not ready to go further and have a physical contact, as your mind is completely devoted to your old love. The issue is even bigger as it was me to leave this person, as after 2 years and an half did not want to commit. I am so in love with him that I could wait
for him forever if he only would change attitude. Unfortunately he is 40 and never been engaged. I think he is not able to love anyone. And that's sad as I loved him more than myself. And I cannot forget.
He only sends pictures to me or talks about sex, he wanted to make me dipendent and did it well.
Now for me it is even hard to breath without him.

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Posted on Aug 14, 2018 at 08:31 AM

Good morning, i am glad i can be of some assistance. Life is to short. I live my life as if everyday is my last. As we know, we know when we are born, but we dont know when is going to end. We all are selfish in one way or another, but one must love and respect one self. You will be fine, take a holiday enjoy your self. You will meet that man that will make you happy, but 1st you must be happy.i know is not easy, but sometimes that person that is in front of us and we don't pay any mind to them. Maybe because his looks, or maybe because we dont want to let go of someone that doesn't care or acknowledge that we exist. Take a walk, go to a museum, a theater there's many ways to enjoy yourself and meet people. Just be a little cautious, andvhave in mind not to give yourself for granted to anyone, because you are a valuable human being.
Best of luck Taina

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Posted on Aug 13, 2018 at 02:14 PM

Thank you Taina. I will try to move on. Your words are so precious :-) I will try to take care of myself, even if it is hard as love is beautiful when it is shared. I cannot conceive myself thinking only about my needs... But it is clear I have to start this journey to increase my self esteem and love myself more . Thank you again and congratulations for your achievements in life. I am sure you have been a great mother, wife and woman. Goodnight dear!

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Posted on Aug 13, 2018 at 12:34 PM

Dear, you are a beautiful woman. Don't lower yourself for a person that doesn't appreciate it you as a woman or a person. Look in the mirror, theres a beautiful woman that need to love herself 1st before making someone else happy. Make yourself happy. Take a trip, go on a shopping spree. Enjoy life is not worth making someone else happy, before thinking of you. I was married 31 yrs, woke up one day and said I'm done, I raise my children, i took care my mother and everyone else, except the most important person, me, myself and I. These three people within ourself are very important. Move on, you will definitely meet the man of your life, before, you no it . The past 5 years been the best of my life. You are you have no worries, I'm 54 I have none. Don't let no one ever humiliate you, nor humiliate yourself. As you move on, he will look for you, but if he doesn't then let go.

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Posted on Aug 13, 2018 at 09:57 AM

I send my greetings to the ones that spent some time commenting my post. In this difficult moment I know I am not alone, as we are all humans and have to overcome the same issues and experience similar feelings . People are our biggest asset , many thanks for your Human touch :-) I wish you a bright life!

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Posted on Aug 13, 2018 at 09:57 AM

@Maryclaire2000
I send my greetings to the ones that spent some time commenting my post. In this difficult moment I know I am not alone, as we are all humans and have to overcome the same issues and experience similar feelings . People are our biggest asset , many thanks for your Human touch :-) I wish you a bright life!

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Posted on Aug 13, 2018 at 09:55 AM

I send my greetings to the ones that spent some time commenting my post. In this difficult moment I know I am not alone, as we are all humans and have to overcome the same issues and experience similar feelings . People are our biggest asset , many thanks for your Human touch :-) I wish you a bright life!

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Posted on Aug 12, 2018 at 08:12 PM

Hi Miss Bibic 88, sometimes in life we find unconditional love and sometimes we find real good lover,  but the difference between the two is that one of them has both qualities. The one that has both or all the qualities you are looking for is the most dangerous individual you'll ever meet! But the cure is to notify your inner self that you love this individual unconditional and because of that strong love you have for them it is a good possibility that those filling may never leave, so cry cry cry until you don't have anymore tears, and after you've done that. Let the healing began,  and whatever you do, do not let the love you had / have for that past individual interfere with your new life. 

 The one thing I've learn in life, is that there is always something better waiting on the other side, you can either walk over and possesse it, or you can sit and wait for it to come to You!  But do not, and I mean do not take a past intimate experience into your new chamber of ecstasy and love. Do what you need to do to enjoy Your life, teach your new lover everything he needs to know on how to take you where you need to go, then remind him that he is your King and that he has a responsibly to make sure all your needs are met and if he lacks any of those qualities then it would be best he leaves now!  Why, because you are not a ordinary lady, and a lady of your caliber do not have time to be playing love games. Make sure you make it clear and if need be get it in writing. And if he cannot handle what you / I just drop on him, then there is your answer. 

 

One more thing take a class on what unconditional love is, and if you can't find one, then teach yourself every aspect of love and unconditional love, and if you like / love what you have discovered then open / start a love / unconditional love support group...

Remember when you date from now on dialogue about love, unconditional love so you can see their reaction. Good luck, enjoy,  be careful and safe. 

 

 

 

 

Sincerely Mr Born1top...

Love and peace,  🥀🥀🥀 all ladies deserve flowers...


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Posted on Aug 12, 2018 at 10:17 AM

 

As I can read and understand you love him painstakingly ..

Did you ever talk to him about his mistakes ? If not then its 

time you do it ..Give him a month and if he doesn't change his

attitude then its time to say goodbye and go on with your life.

You are still young and pretty , for sure you will find a guy that

suit to your likes a. dislikes .. Goodluck ..


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