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Posted on Jul 25, 2018 at 01:16 PM

Do you belive its ok for and older man/woman to date a younger woman/man ? Where does the age limit stop? Because i tend to get turn down alot because of my age. And Its hard for me, because i truly like older men.

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Posted on Jul 30, 2018 at 06:59 PM

I recently went through an experience w a man from New York who was 20 years older. I am a widow and he knew it but treated me in a not so kind way. He kept saying because he was older and that he had experience treating women in a kind way. He ended up being the biggest player I have ever met. Just wanted to share.

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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 06:07 PM

Thanks everyone

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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 05:09 PM

Maybe im a little old fashion, but i still believe than a man should take care of there woman.. society has changed the rules, im tired of taking care of a man, its my time to enjoy life. Ive always loved older men because i know i will learn from them and always be taking care of. Young men arent the same these days. I just want equal in return. Not a sugar daddy, more of a teacher, adviser, a lover , and much much more

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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 11:57 AM

I really like your blog and these men needs to wake up because we don’t stay young forever and looks is not everything I also realize that we’re all looking for that perfect mate but reality is not out there but I know when you find the right one you’ll know right away thanks for your blog👋🏼❤️🙏🏼

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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 09:19 AM

Whatever any single male and single female decide is ok is ok.  It is nobody else's business.  


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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 07:02 AM

One thing I will say is that with us as men nowadays the dynamic is changing. I can only speak for me here and a small minority. I look at it like this. I would have no issue being with a woman younger than me. But she would need to have her life in order. And I apply that no matter the age. career-focused, college-educated, has experienced some things outside the U.S. in order to appreciate what we have here as far as being cultured. As the other gentleman stated about having an older spirit, leaving behind the clubbing and partying, and start doing more adult things. There is an old saying about "You are what you attract". I actually have a saying that goes along with that. "sometimes the best thing to do is to stay on your level." In that, if you wish to attract a man who meets your standards, start acquiring the things to attract that man yourself. And that is more than just material things. I mean let's just be real here about this. You cannot wish to attract a man who makes 6-7 figures, has a nice house and car, and a great career, when you have no job, still living at home, and are doing nothing to try and better your life. The people around you, your interests. Can you be more practical than emotional when it comes to thinking? We as men pay attention to these things even if women think that we don't. we men nowadays are looking for women who are a little more self-sufficient. More than likely because of feminism, but also because women said that they wanted to prove they could do anything. You are being given the chance to do that.



“I can accept anything, except what seems to be the easiest for most people: the half-way, the almost, the just-about, the in-between.” ― Ayn Rand
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Posted on Jul 25, 2018 at 09:35 PM

You like stability, i feel you

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Posted on Jul 25, 2018 at 08:31 PM

 

VanityV ,

 

Just wait for your turn .to date somebody is based on one's 

conviction and choice . " The Type ". We can't do anything about it ..or try to date men of your age ..


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Posted on Jul 25, 2018 at 07:43 PM

I’ve talk to over 120 women your age and they are all having problems with men your age.

I know a lot of couples with 15, 20, 25, and even 30 years difference in age. They are all very happy. One just lost her older (by 25 years) husband to cancer. They were married over 20 years. She took such good care of him. A couple of years past and now she’s remarried to a guy only a few years older. She’s happy.

So follow your heart. Walk away from those guys that will try to entice you away from your older husband just to compromise you and destroy your marriage. Be extra faithful, loving, and caring. Have an older spirit leaving behind those childish parties and start doing grown up things. You will find the older man in your life will cherish, respect, and love you more than those guys your age.

Jay

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