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Posted on Jul 25, 2018 at 10:49 AM

I have been on this site for about 3 weeks. I have emailed and texted with about 5 men. I and i'M SURE OTHER WOMEN, am not perfect.  Are you.  I've found there are scammers on here. Men that love themseves more than anything in life.

I have also found most men want younger women in good shape and will do anything for them. I DON'T UNDERSTAND. Are there women out there that are going to stay the way they are forever?  I don't think so.

 

The men do not want a women with any problems what so ever. Do they exist, or they pretend so they can "catch a millionaire to solve whatever problems they do have.

 

Let's say there is a woman, or several, that do have problems. They could be  very beautiful and have a few dollars and never complain. I have found Men and women have problems like maybe they are a little depressive at times or they like the mirror more than the man and that could be true for men also.

 

O.K, let's get back to just women. They are interested in a man and email him.  He reads the Email and she is everything he wants,or put in his profile, however she failed to mention she was raised in a abusive family and is not yet over it.  Maybe she was raped and hates sex. She is totally honest from the beginning and tells the man she was in an accident and forgets things and cries a lot or she is Bi-polar  but all is controlled with medication.

Let's say she tells him about all her failures and hopes together they may be able to help each other or the million dollars will.

 

Don't men know that there are no perfect women or men out there, we all have problems we haven't or can't

solve.

 

It seems I am being harsh on the men and women on this site.  I just want both sexes to to realize NO ONE STAY GEORGES  FOR EVER.

 

I have found that they want honest,fit women and they want long term as well as marriage or they just put that there because they think women will be attracted to a lifer relationship. Actually when they do find a totally honest beautiful , fun loving lady who has it all together. They find out she only wants his money,she is only into herself,and she was a meth. head.

 

like I said before I don't mean to be so hard on women, I am sure there are men out there too just like the women I have described.

 

I am honest from the start i let them know the good ,the bad, and the ugly.  The I don't hear from them.

 

All you men and Women out there remember no one knows what they really want in the opposite sex.  We think we do ,but when they come along they rarely are what we wanted in the first place.

 

Bottom line no one is perfect. No one will stay young and beautiful forever.  Can we really grow old together when our youth and looks are gone? 



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Posted on Jul 29, 2018 at 10:10 PM

I think women of this Generation they want christian bad boys who os part time stripper ! Honesty , integrity , and been Gentlemen is only past Generation Dream today if you drink like a fish and do drugs or flirting with whoever is acceptable cause we call ourselves realistic !

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Posted on Jul 29, 2018 at 05:43 PM

Im not perfect as I have a funny toe nail. Sometimes he calls himself John or Graham, once Lucy which led into a very interesting conversation. Fluid sexuality is a thing and my toe Sabrina explained it all

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Posted on Jul 29, 2018 at 04:17 PM

You are completely right! I am in this site for about 3 weeks, talked to many guys, some of them with height level of expectations! Others affraid of themselves! Yes nobody is perfect! Everybody has issues and life stories. Miracle to find someone really interested in YOU, not what you have or how beautiful you are...

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Posted on Jul 29, 2018 at 12:59 PM

You can’t tell them the bad & the ugly right off the bat or you’ll Scare All of them away. You have to get to know them, and them you, first, in general. Their likes, dislikes, hobbies, career, future plans, family life etc etc

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Posted on Jul 27, 2018 at 07:33 AM

 

lookAtmeandsee1 , 

 

Believe me , there is no perfect mate and a perfect human

being in this world ..it is only how we see in them and how 

they see in us ..the expectations from both sides ..


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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 10:08 AM

Thanks for the beautiful text so true

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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 09:28 AM

Nobody is perfect.  There might be someone perfect for you.  How so.  Your imperfections may not matter to them and their imperfections may not matter to you.  


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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 07:39 AM

Me personally, I have never based a woman on how she looks. I base it on her mind alone. I need to be mentally drawn to a woman.  Actually that is people in general for me. which is why I do not find alot of people interesting. And yes, I value a woman who is self-sufficient. And it was because of how I have seen my mother and my sisters live their lives. To have the ability of being able to resolve you own issues in life as an adult is something everyone is capable of doing. Some just need a little push in the right direction more than others. I never said that I do not want to deal with some of the issues of my potential partner, but she also needs to be ready to deal with mine, and not run the moment they arise. I honestly get tired of the sentence "I want someone normal." That is a cynicism of what society defines. Me personally, I am attracted to a woman who will have no issue walking up to a man and saying: "Hi, I like you. Let's sit down and talk". If you can do that, that will go a long way with me. I'm just not into the whole shy, passive thing. Because society says that women should be that way? not with me.



“I can accept anything, except what seems to be the easiest for most people: the half-way, the almost, the just-about, the in-between.” ― Ayn Rand
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