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Posted on Jun 25, 2018 at 09:07 PM

Navigating in “dating land” can be challenging and frustrating at times

 

How  can we make sure to attract the "right person" ?

 

A friend of mine found her soulmate on the second date. After 30 years of marriage, her husband had left her unexpectedly.  It was a tough situation on many levels.

After grieving the loss of her marriage, she was ready to date.

I gave her a giftcard to this website and offered to help her wtite the profile.

When I asked her what she was looking for I quickly realized that she had no clue.

 i'm just looking for a nice man who dosn't drink" is simply not enough for this beautiful and loving woman. She deserves better. 

 

We needed to prepare her and I asked her some quistions:

 

Who are you? (2 minutes pitch), What's your passion, What makes you Happy? 

What are you NOT looking for? What can YOU add to a relationship?  What did you learn from your divorce? Where do you see yourself in 3, 5 or 10 years?

 

I gave her a small assignment" Build a man".

She used a vision board to describe the physical, personality, spiritual traits she would like her soulmate to have. Stephen stepped into her life  2 month's after...99 % like the man she had created on the vision board. This is a TRUE love story. 

 

I believe that we attract “ who we are”.

 

When we know ourselves and dare to stand up for who we are, the better chance to attract the right person. Don't try to be someone you are not. Take a good look within, ask friends how they see you, learn more about yourself. Don't opload old photos or photoshop new ones. Ofcource we all want to present ourselves in the best possible light, but the rule is" be real?. Be proud of who you are. The more autentic you are, they better chance to attract the person who is meant to be with you.

And there is love enough for everyone. 

 

Good luck ...

Susan

 

Picture: I had great chemestry with Mel Gibson and I love when a man have a great sence of humor. 

 


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Posted on Jun 29, 2018 at 03:12 AM

I found your advice to "build a man" very profound, and it makes perfect sense.

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