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Posted on Jun 25, 2018 at 06:50 PM

Its great to chat and connect with so many decent men worldwide but at the end of the day it is just chatting and connecting. It starts somewhere i guess, sure i get that. However i have a distinct sense that FEAR overrules most relationship opportunities from ever hitting the ground and gaining momentum.
For me i know this impasse - as i had a son who was at age that i just couldnt expose him to a potential partner. So i Didnt. Im ready now - he is 17.
Other factors that contribute to relationship readiness in general are: financial stability, unfinished business with exes, family interferences, location, employment, and pretty much all those topics that go UNSPOKEN in any chat session with a potential partner.
If you cannot or avoid speaking about these topics then IT IS CLEAR YOU ARE NOT READY for a new partner.
Mid life partnering comes with often over-used, kinda ugly word “baggage”.

Another word for baggage is “life” and the experience of being human, encompassing all of the human condition.
Healthy partnerships share human experiences from the trivial to the life changing-
I DO NOT CARE IF YOU LOST/ GAINED wealth, status, cars, properties, and your altruistic pursuits or assests you have acquired. (Apologies for the caps..)

I am interested in YOU as a human being.

Have you ever failed? Made a mistake that impacted you?
How do you continue to recover, grow, survive, what did tou learn about yourself?

If you want to chat with me - this is what i want to know about you! Talk to me about your “baggage” - I’d love to hear it.

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Posted on Jul 02, 2018 at 06:40 AM

I could not agree with you more on this. That's exactly what I want to hear as well. I want to hear the baggage. The good times and the bad. No matter what it is. That's why I was very forthcoming in my profile. Because I want to actually speak to someone who is actually able to do the same exact thing.



"We lose ourselves when we compromise the very ideals that we fight to defend. And we honor those ideals by upholding them not when it's easy, but when it is hard." -Former President Barack Obama
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