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Posted on Apr 09, 2018 at 09:04 AM

Every day I am asked to review profiles and give suggestions on how he/she can attract a mate.  The last few profiles, I reviewed, said she is looking for a long term, serious relationship yet her photos all showed boobies and butts.  I made the suggestion that perhaps she should change her photos because they were too suggestive and men aren't taking her seriously. The next profile, I reviewed, was a woman properly dressed, perfect makeup and says "just looking to have some fun".  This made me laugh because I am thinking show some boobies and butts so men will take you seriously.   This is quite the dilemma.  I (for one) don't feel the need to show your goodies on a dating site but I could be wrong.   YOUR THOUGHTS?????

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Posted on Jul 04, 2018 at 01:46 PM

Aren't the clothes that will show if a woman is to be or not to be for have a relationship. Clothes are just for occasion - nobody will in a marriage ceremony dressing bikini or will at beach dressing hijab (unless are a Muslim).....

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Posted on Jul 03, 2018 at 09:01 PM

I think a person can control the narrative of their profile.  But I know for a fact men will be looking to have the casual relationship with the cover up woman.  And men will want a long term relationship with the woman with the more revealing clothes.  

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Posted on Jul 02, 2018 at 09:35 AM

The truth is, I don't think a lot of men know exactly what they're looking for....and if they saw it...many wouldn't recognize it anyway.  I look at some of these men's profiles and they describe themselves as "hot", which makes me question if they even own a mirror.  lolol   I know that sounded a bit cynical.    I've had all kind of pics up.  Some classy and demure...some funny and winsome....some sporty and unassuming.  I don't think it really matters too much.  You can't figure out what a man may like and you can make yourself go crazy trying to.  One guy, a multi-millionaire, responded to my rock climbing pics.  He asked me out to a really nice restaurant.  When I showed up dressed elegantly, nothing over the top sexy...but to the 9s....he acted disappointed!  He told me right off that I was not what he was expecting...and he cited my casual appearance in my pics.  So whatever!!!  loll     I say, a woman should dress sexy, classy and confident.....or in whatever manner which pleases herself.  Dress to be comfortable and have fun....within the rules of the site. 

   


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Posted on Jul 01, 2018 at 05:36 PM

Real right here:)

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Posted on Jul 01, 2018 at 01:36 PM

How about just some real women, and no scammers

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Posted on Jun 30, 2018 at 02:56 PM

The goodies show shouldn't be re-runs from ten years go, but rather a brand-new production.

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Posted on Jun 30, 2018 at 10:26 AM

Everybody has something to sell: the girls boobs and butts, the boys flashy cars. And sometimes that is sadly everything they have to offer. If you expect more from your partner, search for those who have more to sell than looks or money.

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Posted on Jun 29, 2018 at 11:01 AM

Show more class women!! I think it degrades what a woman is all about. If that’s all a man is looking for in a woman than that’s all he is after. I don’t think a woman should dress so provocatively just to get a man. Just b yourself, u can only dress up the outside to an extent. The real u will come out sooner or later and that’s your true character.

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Posted on Jun 02, 2018 at 05:27 PM

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Here’s a question for the ladies, “”What do you look for in men when they post pictures of themselves? How do you all feel that relates to when the conversation is boobs and butts?” I have two beautiful little girls 4 and 7. Honestly I would throw up if they projected themselves on any a dating website in an overly provocative manner. Don’t get me wrong, I do my share of looking at the photos too. However, maybe think about what message your sending. I prefer classy sexy all day long. I’m raising my daughters to have enough self confidence to not have to expose themselves to draw attention. To be honest, there are some profiles on here that look like a gold shovel should be attached. You don’t have to look to deep sometimes to see what a person is all about simply by the way they portray themselves. Conversely, if your a guy wanted nothing but to get laid, put your financials up. If your truly looking for something serious, I can’t believe any guy would post his financials on here.

  If a guy will Post his picture naked I will advice him to join the Go go boys ..Lol .. The Dating Site is no place for exposing  Boobs and Butts and I will tell them to join the Boys as well . It is the 1st impression that makes the whole thing ..  


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Posted on Jun 02, 2018 at 05:12 PM

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Huh...I once had a conversation with a very pretty, intelligent woman that was car-shopping, but was not being taken seriously by the male salesmen. She felt she needed male backup, at the dealer. I told her to lower the neckline, show some cleavage with a push-up bra, put on the sexiest outfit she had, and go in there with the mindset to bargain, even if it meant walking away a few times. I saw her a week or 2 later, and she said it had worked.   I saw one Profile here with the woman dressed only in lace, in her bedroom, in every pic. This is competition here, and a woman has to use every asset at her disposal, to get her message across. Chemistry is different, with most people, especially in this,"ME" time we live in today, and a woman's prospective of setting tone, respect,and rules.


  Hi STAN ,   I think you gave her a good advice ..not bad..  but as a man will you give the same advice here in the Dating Site ?


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Posted on Jun 01, 2018 at 06:17 PM


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Posted on Jun 01, 2018 at 07:17 AM

Just my opinion and god knows I’m not right all the time. I have little girls to think about. Best of luck to all.

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Posted on Jun 01, 2018 at 07:15 AM

Here’s a question for the ladies, “”What do you look for in men when they post pictures of themselves? How do you all feel that relates to when the conversation is boobs and butts?” I have two beautiful little girls 4 and 7. Honestly I would throw up if they projected themselves on any a dating website in an overly provocative manner. Don’t get me wrong, I do my share of looking at the photos too. However, maybe think about what message your sending. I prefer classy sexy all day long. I’m raising my daughters to have enough self confidence to not have to expose themselves to draw attention. To be honest, there are some profiles on here that look like a gold shovel should be attached. You don’t have to look to deep sometimes to see what a person is all about simply by the way they portray themselves. Conversely, if your a guy wanted nothing but to get laid, put your financials up. If your truly looking for something serious, I can’t believe any guy would post his financials on here.

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Posted on May 30, 2018 at 08:20 PM

Huh...I once had a conversation with a very pretty, intelligent woman that was car-shopping, but was not being taken seriously by the male salesmen. She felt she needed male backup, at the dealer. I told her to lower the neckline, show some cleavage with a push-up bra, put on the sexiest outfit she had, and go in there with the mindset to bargain, even if it meant walking away a few times. I saw her a week or 2 later, and she said it had worked.   I saw one Profile here with the woman dressed only in lace, in her bedroom, in every pic. This is competition here, and a woman has to use every asset at her disposal, to get her message across. Chemistry is different, with most people, especially in this,"ME" time we live in today, and a woman's prospective of setting tone, respect,and rules.

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Posted on May 27, 2018 at 01:11 PM

In the markeyplace you have to sell what others have interest. Some profiles are so skimpy and such a low completition of just the basic facts.   What does on say as an introduction?   Oh...you are ....

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Posted on May 25, 2018 at 11:46 PM

I totally agree. I have many male friends and they told me the same thing. You want serious? Show1 sexy class and 1 fun playful pic. Less pics the better. Leave something to the imagination is what the relationship guys say. That’s our audience. !!earn you respect now. Don’t compromise!

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Posted on May 01, 2018 at 11:40 AM

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Maybe you should just stare at them Mac.............just sayin.   hahaha


Aw shoot -- I could think of that.  : )


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Posted on May 01, 2018 at 11:23 AM

For sure the fastest and quickest way to get the attention of men is showing off you butt and boobies

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Posted on Apr 30, 2018 at 09:35 PM

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Maybe you should just stare at them Mac.............just sayin.   hahaha


  @MMCounselor ,   Remember the saying " Look but don't touch  " ....LOl


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