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Posted on Mar 25, 2017 at 07:30 AM

Every day we get suggestions and complaints about this site.  We are asking you to help us improve your experience on this dating site.  Please provide suggestions and complaints as to how we can deal with "scammers",  ideas on how to make your contacts more enjoyable, and what you would like to see in the future.   ALL SUGGESTIONS WILL BE REVIEWED!!!

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Posted on Oct 15, 2018 at 12:16 AM

Sure I have an inbox full of messages I can't retrieve until I upgrade!

 

I was a paid member then I stopped and went away. Now I noticed as a non-paying member that all you can do is watch pretty much.

The chat is gone, in the past non-paying members can enter the chat room and watch the conversations, that allowed paid members to notice them and initiate contact. Now that has been taken away which is sad because having access to the chat room is a PERFECT way to filter out fake profiles from real profiles. Another option would be to allow all members to view the chat history of other members because SCAMMERS would not be too involved in chats. I gained many friends just from the chat room because you can have a glimpse at their personality before you wink at them ;)

 

The other side of the coin is that the site needs to make money and if they allow non-paying members To be in the chat room they believe they will never join.

 

Since I've been on both sides of this, most of the friends I gained had observed my conversations before they ever approached me and the fact that they were not paid members kept me from cancelling my membership because I was getting value from paying and not the other way around.

 

Long story short, if MM gods take my advice and:

1- Allow all members access to the chat history (because I witnessed many nutjobs in the chat room)

2- Allow non-paying members to enter the chat room,even if they can only respond to paid members invitations

 

This will keep your existing paid members happy, cuts down on falling for scammers for the ladies, and actually increases your renewal/upgrade rates because paying members will refer others if they actually receive value from their membership.

 


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Posted on Oct 09, 2018 at 06:54 AM

thanks for keeping it real!

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Posted on Oct 08, 2018 at 05:10 PM

A person doesnt get wealthy going around giving you money to be on this site. Try charging if we get married. otherwise- I'll hang onto my money. You are just looking for suckers.

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Posted on Oct 08, 2018 at 04:51 PM

strange questions. Im looking into getting my pilots license, you ask if flight is important to me, I think what you mean is -am i stable. dont limit the responses. a lot of your questions were yes or no. alot of my answers would have been -never worried about it or never cared about it, or not relavent. Contact me if you want help making better questions. I can correct your ideological errors and direct you to the proper results you are looking for. I wont do it for you but I will help if you want it. cant help people if they dont want it.

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Posted on Oct 08, 2018 at 11:51 AM

A gentleman should not need to bring it up at all.  If he is normal he will be interested in sex.  It is a given.  First they need to establish that they like each other.  Then they need to establish that they like each other well enough that sex needs to be discussed.  That would normally be at least a few dates past the first one.  If the lady wants to bring it up on the first date that is her prerogative.  


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Posted on Sep 28, 2018 at 11:05 PM

Naturally and Sadly men still make more money then women, and yet women pay more for certain things.
Besides the name is Millionaire not Millionairess ! Also the majority of scammers, rapists, stalkers, and others as such are of the male persuasion. There i said it and its the truth.

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Posted on Sep 28, 2018 at 10:51 PM

Please do a bit more, perhaps a background check, nothing extensive.
Enough to know at least the basics such as identity, their income, social security, and any criminal activity on their part. Surely if these men are serious about finding a loving lady then certainly they'll be willing to put more into it. And for those who dont have or want to go further then apparently they have ulterior motives. And with all of this being put into action, by word of mouth MM shall become even more acknowledged as the site to go to for the Love of ones life....

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Posted on Sep 26, 2018 at 02:34 PM

I also would like to mention a gentleman will not need to bring up the topic of sex except once maybe twice on a first chat or call. Myself I have to get to know a person somewhat before I jump in the bed with them. But that is me. I can pay for my own dinner and Hotel if needed. I am seeking a genuine loving gentleman. Hopefully financially secure. Money will not make me a slut..you ladies are big girls and have every right to make your own choices. But be caucious...myself...I want to land on my feet happy. Not tossed to the side..

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Posted on Sep 26, 2018 at 02:21 PM

First of all if a so called gentleman starts and then continues to asks you questions all day...if you allow him...this is a scammer! They can be ordinary questions mind you...but on and on...no. Just be very careful. Be aware that the two of you are to be getting to know each other...not answering a million questions that really dont go with the flow. Use your better judgement your instincts....if something does not feel right. Shut him down!

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Posted on Sep 24, 2018 at 03:41 PM

Huge issue and confusion with Email/chat situation - many premium members dont always understand the fact that non premium members cant reply to the chat messages and think they are being ignored 

if premium members can email non premium and non premium can reply , same should be applied to chat 

it will be more exciting if a small chat window will appear everytime someone try to chat vs what you have on the site now 

 

 


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Posted on Sep 22, 2018 at 11:21 PM

I agree with the photo verification, however i also suggest that the men verify as to their income/millionaires. Ive had a few men way too interested in just pics, it makes me wonder if these photos are being used in some illegal manner or are they a fetish for these men or what ? And frankly i do not believe it should be the women's place to request verification if he is a millionaire...........isnt this the subject and title of this site/app. Just saying !!

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Posted on Sep 20, 2018 at 05:41 PM

Regarding photos verification : if that would become a must (passport copy) then MM would have to limit this site to the USA. I'm in Europe where authorities are strongly advising people not to give away passport copies (not even in hotels) in order to avoid fraude. I'd love this website to verify whatever they need to verify about me, but unfortunately it will have to be without my passport. And I can guarantee you that I'm no scammed! I just take my passport very seriously. It is my identity! Not a simple piece of paper to be sent back and forth! Sorry.

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Posted on Sep 16, 2018 at 09:21 PM

The questions asked need updating and there needs to be more wiggle room to write in an answer. Also, someone’s photos being RECENT should be a requirement

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Posted on Sep 13, 2018 at 05:45 PM

Don’t feel video chatting is a safety net. Agreed it is better to see a video chat if distance prevents meeting for a while but I have web cam with men that while it was them in their photo it didn’t stop the scam!!

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Posted on Sep 13, 2018 at 05:36 PM

When people apply for a membership they should be screened to make sure they are real and not scammers. My experience has been the same on your site as all the rest. To have a site that a member could feel safer on would be wonderful. It would also separate you out from the rest. While it might hurt cash flow in the beginning once word gets out you would get the lions share! You can check and see how many I have reported to you in the last couple of months. I shouldn’t have to clean up the site but hopefully I have saved some from being scammed!

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Posted on Sep 13, 2018 at 09:37 AM

I live on an Island (Oahu) in the middle of the pacific.  It is difficult to make a love connection here and I believe that one never knows where you may find it or it finds you.  So I look outside of Hawaii as I am more than willing to travel.

 

Consider a search feature for distance.  You have distance listed under preferences but I can't build a search exclusive to ladies who have no issue with distance.



Serious Inquiries only please
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Posted on Sep 11, 2018 at 04:57 PM

I think the “Wink” messages are so corny. 😂 maybe change few of those.

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Posted on Sep 10, 2018 at 09:30 PM

To avoid scammers, simply do not disclose your income and don’t verify your income. It’s private and should be kept that way.
I’m not here to meet a millionaire, I’m on here to meet a good man! If he happens to be a millionaire as well, then cool.
I have my own money and don’t need a man for money.

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Posted on Sep 10, 2018 at 05:08 PM

Quoting author:

Great! STOP discriminating posts that ARE legit just bc someone looks amazing the office shouldn’t Not allow female members to post! There is DEFINITELY DOUBLE standards here as I have men ALL out YET there are allowed to post the goods! One reason I don’t Pay to be on this site.


We review photos several times a day and YES we have quite the collection of penis, breast, vagina and nude photos.  Any photo that shows "body parts" are not allowed on this site and are quickly deleted.  If we happen to miss one please let me or support know so we can remove the photo and possibly the profile.  If anyone tries to post a nude photo he/she will be removed from the site.

We appreciate your cooperation and suggestions, we want you to have a positive experience on our site.


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