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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 09:44

I HAVE BEEN NOTICING THAT A LOT OF WOMEN HAVE BEEN BASHING OTHER WOMEN. MYSELF INCLUDED. I MOSTLY HAVE MALE FRIENDS DUE TO THIS. WE SHOULD SUPPORT EACH OTHER FOR WHO WE ARE. WE MIGHT HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS, OR VALUES, BUT WE SHOULD EMBRACE THESE DIFFERENCES. WE ARE ALL ADULTS HERE, LETS NOT CALL EACH OTHER NAMES, OR POST HARSH BLOGS TO HURT ONE ANOTHER. I AM NOT SAYING THAT I HAVE NOT BASHED OTHER WOMEN ON THIS SITE, BECAUSE I HAVE. I REALLY DON'T LIKE WHO I AM WHEN I DO THIS. CAN WE ALL JUST TRY TO BE A LITTLE MORE CURTIOUS TO ONE ANOTHER?


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Posted on Wed, Jul 26, 2006 15:24

I meant, I am also a fighter.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 25, 2006 13:04

HI Kolohe All the ladies can relate to this.... When your at a crowded night club and you head to the bathroom, you'll RARELY see just one woman walking by herself there. Woman travel in groups. Your decked to the nines. Heels, hose, adorable outfit, having the perfect hair day etc. Yet as you pass by other tables full of woman you can feel each and every eye, and fingernail ripping you apart from head to toe. "Look at her hair!" "What makes her think she can get away with wearing THAT dress", "Those shoes look like she should be standing on a corner"..... and on and on. We all see it. We all have taken pot shots in our day. The line to the womans bathroom is always a mile long because usually for every 1 woman that has to use the bathroom, there are 3 w/her to talk, fix their outfits and their hair. We sit so high upon our pedestals sometimes we forget that we're all a little vulnerable and want to be accepted. Its much easier to climb down off that pedestal once in a while then to be knocked off it by others.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 25, 2006 09:28

It's good to take a stand. But I'm tired of having everything I write criticized. I also am a fight, and will stand- up to other people who make me mad. And, the only way to make me made is to hurt someone I love. BUT THERE COMES A POINT IN OUR LIVES WHEN WE ALL NEED TO GROW UP!


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Posted on Mon, Jul 24, 2006 23:22

I just wish you would not comment on my blogs anymore. Or even the comments I've made on other people blogs. I don't feel like fighting with you.


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Posted on Sun, Jul 23, 2006 22:20

Actually, in 2004, My College Professor had us write two papers. One on George W. Bush, and one on John Kerry. The paper was about the Pros and Cons on each candidate. So I did make an informed decision. I watch the news every night, and am up to date with current events. I am also notified by email every single Political move George makes. So yes, I do have all the facts. And that saying "Even Republicans Hate George W Bush" was a bumper sticker. I did not make this up. And please don't try to educate me on the things that happening in this World. I don't need any more Professors. This is the last time I will respond to your put- downs.


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Posted on Sun, Jul 23, 2006 11:04

I don't know who SV is. I now have a boyfriend that I met on this site. But don't fight over one guy. :) There are so many on this site. I wish you the best DEBBIE IN ITALY.


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Posted on Fri, Jul 21, 2006 15:25

NATIVENEWYORKER, You are one of the Women that bashed me. You said I was acting like a dumb blonde. So everything you said in this blog is full of ****. I want peace in my life, not term oil. We should all support our differences, not bash them. No more calling names, or playing unfairly.


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Posted on Thu, Jul 20, 2006 20:50

If I could understand it I would explain it. I think a lot more women out there haven't dealt with some issues in their lives perhaps. I see a lot of jealousy and I really don't understand it at all. And like you I tend to have a great deal more male friends then female friends. I'm very very selective of the women I choose as friends. I almost wonder sometimes if this is simply part of that animal instinct found in everyone. Someone has to be the top dog. I even think some people actually get a high out of these petty fights. And I too have been guilty and have felt really bad about my behaviour and most times appoligized in private to the person in question. Leigh


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Posted on Thu, Jul 20, 2006 14:57

I dont find it neccassary to be a team just because we are similar between the legs. I will take a stand against any man or woman I dont agree with or who I dislike. It doesnt matter to me what sex they are.


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