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Posted on Apr 02, 2015 at 05:47 AM

I can really be dense when it comes to picking topics that get people's blood boiling.  I have friends that say I'm too negative, and I suppose I am too opinionated.  It was kind of how I ended up being with experiences I had.  Anyway, most importantly to me, I hope to be more positive about relationships of all kinds from now on.  My experiences on this site have been mostly positive, and I've learned that people are generally caring.  It's just that sometimes uncaring people or suffering people that lash out are louder than the people that sit by caring but say nothing at all.  I suppose those uncaring and suffering people need the attention most of all, and that's why they are so loud to begin with.  I do hope everyone is enjoying the spring weather (if you live in the northern hemisphere?) and find someone that makes your life better.   I'm going to have to remember to not post many other religion and politics posts, or if I do something that isn't so dramatically polarizing.


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Posted on Apr 19, 2015 at 11:38 PM

 

***** @ ROC ***** 

 

Ok ...but you are a really funny guy ..I have to laugh as I read your answer to David ...Metamucil ...got it ...you're clean inside and the pressure is gone ...good remedy ...it works ...

 

ROC , Im sitting in the same boat with you when it comes to partnership ...better now than later .. to eradicate bad bacteria now than to get sick because of it later ....

 


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Posted on Apr 19, 2015 at 11:22 PM

 

******@ DAKOTA35 ****** 

 

Go back to my comments on Tivo ..I know he didnt do it ..just put it this way ...In my PSYCHOLOGY class ( I have lots of it ) we made several times tests of " words " and sentences and the outcome is we interpreted it differently but not obviously , so I think that is what happened referring to our problems ... Our minds works differently so for me ..not a big deal ..I dont dwell with it and in here ... as I said what is gone is gone or gone with the wind ...Ok ...


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Posted on Apr 19, 2015 at 11:07 PM

 

***** @ TIVO *****

 

I never thought that its you who did it because I know it and I observed your behaviour( literary ) that you are not the kind ...I really think of MM because they are the owner ...they make their own interpretations of vulgar and obscene ...I have lost some of my comments and some I removed it myself , but I just asked because it happened to some bloggers which is a mystery ...My Miss Marple mentality is working ( have you heard about her ? ) and I didnt  mentioned the case obviously 

because I dont have a proof ..Im too far to see things clearly so I loose it this time ...Anyway as I said what is gone is gone , no big deal for me  ...ok ..


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Posted on Apr 19, 2015 at 05:13 PM

I didn't delete anyone's comments.  I don't bother to say anything because you don't listen to me. Because, you know my own posts get deleted off this site, too.  Off my own blog even, and I just accept it because it's not my site, it's MM's.


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Posted on Apr 19, 2015 at 09:11 AM

 

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Thanks for going back to me ... If Tivo didnt removed my comment who did it then !!??? I checked on it 2x after I wrote it then on the 3rd time it was gone ... but you know what I dont care about it anymore ...what is gone is gone ...my everyday life doesnt evolve on the blog only but Im glad I met ( literary ) you all guys ( jolly good fellows ) ....


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Posted on Apr 19, 2015 at 12:54 AM

 

******@ROC ******

 

After reading your comments , I would like to say Im sorry what 

happened to you and welcome again ...Just like David Im glad 

you' re feeling much better ... Sigh ...


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Posted on Apr 16, 2015 at 10:13 AM

 

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My answer to your last comment was removed and I dont know why !!!???? Im tired with their regulations ... not a good ad for the site ...I dont want to reconstruct it anymore because 

ideas come and go and I think they dont know about it ..

 

I just want to say that your friend made a mistake at his own expense ... I know you won't do the same ..


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Posted on Apr 16, 2015 at 06:32 AM

Quoting Dakota35:

I'm calm, I'm taking it easy. :)  You just can't give Diana a inch or she'll take a mile. LOL  Despite her being misguided, I like Diana.  It's fun to debate with her as long as it doesn't get really deep and exhausting.

 

I though that was the way the photo thing worked.  

 

Just a few days ago I met a Asian lady that lived in Houston, TX on here.  She of course asked for a photo and I didn't want to make one public.  Then I got to thinking, how does one have such a long distance relationship?  So I simply replied back (through comments as neither of us are paying) that I didn't know how we could make it work.  I believe she got offended.  But I found her really attractive and if she had been within a hour or two drive, I'd have sent her a photo and talked more.  I kind of felt guilty, and sadly that is not the first woman I've done that to.  Although, sometimes I wonder if my objection to a public photo actually keeps me out of trouble?

 

As you said, both people would have to be committed to a long distance relationship...so that's double the chance of failure.  Sometimes I wonder if it is in some of the women's mind that guys on this site are wealthy enough to just move her closer or move her into their home.  I'm sure some guys would be willing to do such, but I'm a little old fashioned and I don't trust people enough to make that call.

 

Mary, I know less now as to where my life is going in regards to a relationship with a woman, than when I was in my 20's.  I thought we were supposed to get wiser with age.



One of the classes I took online was a psychology class.  It said that people usually end up with someone nearby that is similar to them.  Long distance relationships can be hard, it takes something special to be interested in someone far away when you have to worry about relocation which might require large expenses.


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Posted on Apr 15, 2015 at 03:57 PM

 

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David , I hope that your Philosophy in life won't make you farther unhappy and unfulfilled ...Maybe you have to open up a 

little and be quite flexible ...I just hope that you find somebody 

who will cope up well with your wishes ...Don't give up easily ...


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Posted on Apr 15, 2015 at 01:52 AM

 

***** DAKOTA35 *****

 

Hi David ! Take it easy ...Calm down  ..

 

As far as I know you can only upload a Photo in the " PRIVATE"

Corner if you are a " Member " of the site as one of the previlege and only selected members of your choice ( with your approval ) can view it ... Sorry .. 

 

About distance relationship .. you can maintain it and its possible but its quite difficult and must be according to your Philosophy of doing it  .. that means ...if you really want her and be clear with the ups and downs ...There must be an agreement between the 2 of you after the 1st meeting ...I know a lot of pairs doing it and have done it ..its all up to you ...

 

 


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Posted on Apr 12, 2015 at 09:00 PM

Quoting Dakota35:

Almost everything I post is deleted.  Will this be deleted also???



Yikes!!!  Is THAT what happened to your picture too????


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Posted on Apr 08, 2015 at 02:35 AM

 

***** @ ROC *****

 

Dont be hard on Tivo ...He' s really trying hard to cope up with the bloggers demand ...Check on his recent comments ...they are well said and and nice ... 

 

*****@ TIVO *****

 

I dont know if you can remember me ..I wrote my comments on some of your blogs but not directly adressed to you ..Actually I dont write long comments because Im used to direct to the point views ..so I dont get off the track .. I wish you goodluck with this blog and keep my fingers crossed  ..


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