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Posted on Dec 01, 2014 at 10:16 PM

It's been about a year since I started this blog.  I do feel better now.  I still can't figure out what women really want.  I have a better grasp on it though.  It's some weird thing where they say one thing but mean something completely different.  Women lie to you about it to make you feel better and then you spend years wandering around making the same mistakes. ha.

 

Oh well.  Sometimes I feel like if I did have a million dollars, a nice car, and a good job, I could be the same prick I acted like in this blog and women wouldn't really care.  In fact they might eat it up.

 

Maybe the personals site should do some #realtalk. 

 

Women's personals ads should read like this.

In search of... someone that reminds me of my father

                       someone who has enough money that I don't care he's not physically attractive

                       someone to be a father to my children.  (The real father is a jerk, but he passed on his genes, so who's winning?)

                       someone that tolerates all my bad behavior, because I never do anything wrong.

 

Ah well, you get the point.                 


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Posted on Dec 21, 2014 at 12:00 PM

You don't come off as mad at me or mean. You come off as a person who wants to understand, change and heal (eventhough you're still a bit reluctant). I wrote a longer answer in your other thread. Please have a look at it. 


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Posted on Dec 20, 2014 at 09:43 PM

I understand that you are trying to help, though it wasn't my choice to be in those situations or to respond to them by having a depression.  People don't choose to be a victim, they are a victim, and people with depression don't choose to be happy either.  I do *not* tell you this because I am mad at you or trying to be mean.  I realize you are trying to help.  I would like you to think that maybe some people are not able to be happy and that is why they cannot attract good people in their lives.


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Posted on Dec 15, 2014 at 09:43 PM

Tivo, whatever happened to you, you have to let it go, move on and start over. NEVER let your past ruin your future. 

 

A lot of people have had bad experiences in former relationships... and it's a choice for each and every one of them to either learn and grow from it or to refuse to move on and never heal. You CHOOSE if you are a victim or not. Simply choose not to be one. YOU are responsible for your own well being, NOT someone else. 

 

Also, you attract what you are. Happy attracts happy and bitter attracts bitter (and all kinds of other crap). Finding a happy, healthy person to share your life with starts (and continues) with being happy and healthy yourself. 


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Posted on Dec 15, 2014 at 12:44 PM

@fairycurls I was going to do that, but I don't feel comfortable talking about them so publicly.  (even behind a pseudonym)


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Posted on Dec 15, 2014 at 03:55 AM

Tivo, would you like to describe your "extremely painful situations when dating and dealing with women"? 


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Posted on Dec 03, 2014 at 04:45 AM

@Dakota35  Good question.  I don't know if you meant it as rhetorical.  I've had extremely painful situations when dating and dealing with women, and that has something to do with it.  People usually blame me, so that they don't have to deal with anything that makes them uncomfortable.


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Posted on Dec 02, 2014 at 06:15 PM

Just :-)


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Posted on Dec 02, 2014 at 05:32 AM

Well Darlin.... 

 

Your first problem is this.. 

 

FOLLOW YOUR STATUS ON YOUR PROFILE....

 

"Women are to be loved, not understood." 

 

Women don't even understand other women...

How many times have you overheard a woman say, "I think she's crazy to do that!"

 

And you think you should be able to sum us up in a year? LoL... 

 

PUT DOWN YOUR WEAPONS!!! 

 

In the same vein not all men desire "bubble headed bleach blondes with boobs the size of watermelons," 

not all women are after money, or a new baby daddy because their other baby daddy is a loser. 

 

If what you seek is a woman with a negative attitude, then what you portray is what you will get. 

 

Now can somebody hand me my estrogen bottle and put a fan on me?

 

I can't tell if it's the hot underware model on my telly that has me in an uproar,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

or if I need to take my pills!!  :~) 


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