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Posted on Sun, Feb 02, 2014 08:52

Isn't it enlightening to read these posts?! And exciting! For me, it is about personality and charisma. A sharp mind, great sense of humor and confidence are an aphrodesiac. As a professional woman, I am in charge at work, and I do not want to be in charge on a date. I love it when a man takes control with my best interest in mind. For example: he picks the restaurant or other destination, but he has learned enough about me to know what I would like (maybe he has even asked me what I like!). He makes sure there is nothing for me to worry about or navigate on my own, like transportation and parking. This means he picks me up, sends a car or handles the valet for me. He quides me with his hand in the small of my back. He is well dressed, maybe even stylishly so (easy to research if you do not know). He asks me questions about myself, has a sense of humor, does not talk only about work (or heaven forbid, his ex!). Why is this important? All of this provides me with the space to be feminine. I don't have to be the boss because I am with a man whom I trust enough to take care of things.

 

And the reward for the man who knows these things are important is a woman who smiles, laughs, is relaxed, and respects him and is interested in his thoughts. I want to touch him, even kiss him. I know he will make sure I am taken care of. Does this make sense?



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Posted on Sat, Feb 01, 2014 11:40

Quoting 3345roc:

It starts with a kiss.  You can tell so much from that first kiss.  I believe, if done properly it could be considered an art form.  While some define a kiss as an "upper persuasion for a lower invasion", it's best to go slow and bait each other's hook.  It's difficult to do that long, deep wet stuff with a hook in your mouth.


Indeed...the kiss is all important.  Again less is more.  The worst thing is to be too hard or too fast.  The idea is to get the woman leaning forward....not backing up!!  Men with beards need to be careful, especially if they keep it trimmed short.  If you kiss too fast or too hard it feels like a porcupine.

 

I was on a dinner date with a man that wore a 5 o'clock shaddow beard.  We were sitting catty corner at a square table, talking quietly....about something....in a small, cozy Italian place.  He was drop dead gorgeous and I was liking the date pretty much.  About 3/4 into the date, he reached up to my cheek, traced the side of it lightly up to my ear, tucked my hair gently behind my ear and then traced my jaw bone down to my chin....lifting it gently and kissed me ever so lightly.  Right there in the restaurant!!  I almost swooned!!!  lololo......ended up dating that man for 6 years....even with the prickly beard!  *wink*



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Posted on Sat, Feb 01, 2014 11:06

Quoting Dakota35:

I can say that in my area, women must like jeans better than cargos.  I started wearing cargos and not near as much attention.  Started back wearing jeans...and things are much better. :-)  Diane, how do you feel about a 3 piece suit, worn with a red dress shirt?  Feedback please...I only own 2 piece...thinking about a 3.

 

I should have added dark grey suit or near black.


Dak,

I didn't think they made 3-piece suits anymore.  Red shirt???  No....not unless you are trying to frighten the woman!  Perhaps a dark burgandy with black slacks can work.  For men....less is more.  You can't beat all black with a nice belt or black with a white shirt.  White western boots....Never!  My favorite boots on a man are Lucchese goat in plain black, the dress toe.  But since no one knows what you look like, it's kinda hard to tell exactly.

 

A blazer/jacket is always the best choice for an evening out.  I also don't like much jewelry on a man.  One really nice watch and maybe a ring.    Never a bracelet!!

 

PS:  No wonder about the cargo pants.  They scream unsophisticated.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 01, 2014 07:44

It starts with a kiss.  You can tell so much from that first kiss.  I believe, if done properly it could be considered an art form.  While some define a kiss as an "upper persuasion for a lower invasion", it's best to go slow and bait each other's hook.  It's difficult to do that long, deep wet stuff with a hook in your mouth.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 01, 2014 07:39

Quoting fishyme:

  Is it legal to say large breast? Guess I'll find out soon enough.

 

 

          The spark of adventure in her eyes is the first thing I see. A rose color from being outside a lot adds to it. The small chit chat getting to know each other, interest, likes/dislikes. Are WE comfortable? Taking a hike, would you rather stay on the trail or make your own trail? [I like my time off trail mostly]

 

 

 

     Can't forget the most important: Is she any good with a chainsaw :]


One large breast could be a problem.  She would have to wear a unibra which is only fashionable if she had a unibrow to complement it. Two breasts, of any size, would be preferable.  Four...two in the front and two in the back might indicate an improper bra size... but could make for some exciting slow dancing.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 31, 2014 20:37

Quoting Diana3316:

For me it's a sharp dressed man.  I like black slacks, but a nice pair of Wranglers or Levis are ok too.  Although I used to like a white starched cotton shirt....not so much anymore.  Now I like a soft, taylored shirt, preferably solid colored.  I definitely want to see that he dressed up to meet me.  Nice shoes are a must.  I want to see he brought his 'A' game.

 

I don't mind if he walks in front of me.  What really sends me....is if he sticks his hand out behind him and wants me to slip my hand into his.  It feels to me like he's breaking the trail for me and broadcasting that I'm his.

 

I hate it when a man puts his arm around my shoulders.  Invariably he leans his weight on me or pulls my hair.  grrrrr 


I can say that in my area, women must like jeans better than cargos.  I started wearing cargos and not near as much attention.  Started back wearing jeans...and things are much better. :-)  Diane, how do you feel about a 3 piece suit, worn with a red dress shirt?  Feedback please...I only own 2 piece...thinking about a 3.

 

I should have added dark grey suit or near black.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 31, 2014 20:32

Quoting fishyme:

  Is it legal to say large breast? Guess I'll find out soon enough.

 

 

          The spark of adventure in her eyes is the first thing I see. A rose color from being outside a lot adds to it. The small chit chat getting to know each other, interest, likes/dislikes. Are WE comfortable? Taking a hike, would you rather stay on the trail or make your own trail? [I like my time off trail mostly]

 

 

 

     Can't forget the most important: Is she any good with a chainsaw :]



No Fishy, it is not "legal" to say "large breast".  Therefore you are sentenced to 6 months in a women's prison. :-)  Have fun!!!


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Posted on Fri, Jan 31, 2014 17:13

For me it's a sharp dressed man.  I like black slacks, but a nice pair of Wranglers or Levis are ok too.  Although I used to like a white starched cotton shirt....not so much anymore.  Now I like a soft, taylored shirt, preferably solid colored.  I definitely want to see that he dressed up to meet me.  Nice shoes are a must.  I want to see he brought his 'A' game.

 

I don't mind if he walks in front of me.  What really sends me....is if he sticks his hand out behind him and wants me to slip my hand into his.  It feels to me like he's breaking the trail for me and broadcasting that I'm his.

 

I hate it when a man puts his arm around my shoulders.  Invariably he leans his weight on me or pulls my hair.  grrrrr 



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Posted on Fri, Jan 31, 2014 14:25

 

I think for me the hook occurs somewhat later.  First dates I am pretty tolerant.  I think she’s pretty.   She seems smart.  She seems to have a good sense of humor.  It is really too early to tell in either case, but there is no evidence to the contrary.  She is polite and seems to be having a good time.  She agrees to a second date.  It is a plus if she does so with a bit of enthusiasm. 

 

 

 

Over a number of dates the relationship warms up or it doesn’t.  There is a fuzzy line when it occurs.  At some point you know, but I am never sure when it happens.   

 

 

 

It might be I am hooked instantly if I am going to be, and it just takes me a while to know it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

RMac 

 



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Posted on Fri, Jan 31, 2014 13:06

  Is it legal to say large breast? Guess I'll find out soon enough.

 

 

          The spark of adventure in her eyes is the first thing I see. A rose color from being outside a lot adds to it. The small chit chat getting to know each other, interest, likes/dislikes. Are WE comfortable? Taking a hike, would you rather stay on the trail or make your own trail? [I like my time off trail mostly]

 

 

 

     Can't forget the most important: Is she any good with a chainsaw :]


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Posted on Fri, Jan 31, 2014 09:11

Sex !! Ok, ok, seriously.

 

Her smile, a silhouette with a fetching symmetry...a liquid grace. Her easy laugh even if alone.

 

A present full of hope, imagining its future...bearing fruit. Then, then in its time, the pleasure of waking up in the 

 

morning, turning over in bed and...seeing her smiling face.

 

 



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