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Posted on Aug 17, 2013 at 12:44 AM

To achieve success in life we must set goals and targets, so is dating.  Our weaknesses have to be fixed before getting into the business of fishing for a partner online. We should never expect to come and drop a line of sweet words on our profile on a dating website and expect to catch a beautiful juicy fish. To go for quality we have to prepare for quality. This means our spirituality, character, anger management, social skills you name it need to be improved as we venture into the market of dating.

Now, if we know our value we will not go for cheap stuff. One of the most important goals to set in life before heading towards anything else is our spiritual goals. Once we have control of our spirituality 70% of our battles and success in life is already won. Two factors play a role in this.

The first is Hope; when we develop spiritually and have faith we develop hope. Hope is the lubricant of the rolling steam boat to success.

The second is the cosmic collaboration between us and the universe. When we tap into our higher self we facilitate communication and understanding between the physical and the astral world, this helps us find balance between our soul and personality. Once our personality is in alignment with our soul we become highly intuitive and collaborative with the universe. This means life gets easier and things get done even if there are stumbling blocks on the way.

Now where does cheap stuff come in? When we build a strong spiritual foundation cheap stuff including partners, friends and junk in our lives give way for new and better things. It is our duty to choose what we now want in. Be ready to accept change because at times it is brutal when it comes. Remember change is not an easy dish to accept. Be ready to make the hard choices. Get out of the box you have been placed in with stereotype. Here is an example.

A young white girl of about 25 years never loved to go out with black people for one reason or the other... After going through trouble in her marriage she divorces. And decide to have a new life. She goes on a dating website determines date white people only. But she gets a very sweet and honest mail from a black guy. She reluctantly responds to the mail. The black send another mail more convincing than the first one and touching right to the heart of the lady. As the relationship begins to grow the lady is fighting her former decision with her present desires.

It's like a dog seeing fresh juicy meet but the master is say you can't have it. As a week runs by the lady can no longer hold it. She said to the black person one day; "I can no longer keep this to myself. I hate black people and I never wanted go out with a black person. But I want you so badly." She broke down and was crying as she spoke. "I love everything about you in and out."

She found a soul mate after making a very hard decision. We have to learn how to get out of your little box we have been placed in by stereotypes take the hard decisions make amends in our lives and enjoy it to the fullest.

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Posted on Aug 25, 2013 at 07:30 PM

The OP here is covering a lot of bases, New Age thinking (I don't like it), racism (I don't like it), cheap stuff ( depending if it is quality and just priced cheaply, then I do like it).

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Posted on Aug 24, 2013 at 09:22 PM


I pretty much agree with most of what you said except for this part: "Once we have control of our spirituality 70% of our battles and success in life is already won."


I think that we never have contol over our spirituality. Once we think we've "arrived" in consciousness, it seems like the Universe shifts us into a whole new level where the lessons become even more intense and complicated.


It is my belief that spiritual evolution is never-ending. I hope I'm wrong. I would like  someday to become a graduate of Universe University and not have to fight battles or fight for success and be able to cruise through life comfortably with no dramas and still have great fun...... ;-D......BeWell

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