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Posted on Wed, Jul 17, 2013 11:19

Hello everyone,

 

I met a member on MM,he asked me out to this VERY POSH place in Berlin.Cool,I thought.Now here comes the problem - his profile said he was 6'2 feet.HELL,he wasn't 5'2! Now my question,why do men lie about their sizes.You can't grow 1 ft in a week! It was so funny I didn't know whether to cry or laugh.I felt sooooo sorry for him and that's the main problem,I'd be sorry for him all the time if we were together,coz he gave me the feeling that he wasn't comfortable about his size.Everything about him was ok; medical surgeon,educated (I could tell),spoke various languages fluently,but what the heck? Now if you're searching for someone who stands 6'2 in such a posh place and well..... ok I'll stop here.What are your experiences? What do women/men lie about?



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Posted on Wed, Sep 18, 2013 16:58

Hi everyone!

Thanks Justsimplicity.First thing I want to say is,IF THOSE ARE YOUR PAINTINGS I WANT ONE,NO AT LEAST ONE!!! HAHA!!!

Sencond....... meeting in the bedroom is a little too late to escape,don't you think so? I think everyone has a particular preference and a person who suits the preferences somewhere on earth.It's just a matter of time till they meet.

They aired Tailormade's soap in Germany and no oe could understand why girls were so aggresive towards each other for the sake of this man.I don't either..... but..... well,either they loved his money or he is a most wonderful person,or both.



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Posted on Sun, Aug 11, 2013 22:02

He needs to grow up. Height and size does matter when people are not smart, confident and capable of mentally dealing with dates. All women have three things that if any man resolves they careless about every other thing. Love'm and make love to them very well, teach them important things about life they do not know, and how to secure real happiness, let them feel really secure and protected. You will see their original thinking begin changing?

I once saw a beautiful rich professional lady marry a crippled beggar. People kept asking why she will marry such a person. My answer; he has something the woman cannot get from other men but him. It is that simple. If you want to know more meet them in their bed room. Oya!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 06, 2013 15:25

Hi everyone!
I loooove your stories! Seems like I ain't an exception.Rezi,where did you go to? Thanks a lot Hoping4Love2000,Livnlov,Curious2078.
 
Hoping4Love2000 - I absolutely agree with you.A man just has to stand taller & we LOVE our stilettos.If we don't wear them,men will look elsewhere,so it's just fair.Ok,the age story is tough.Do people really believe they can alter an identity completely,or do they lie to the point of believing they possess the ability to create human beings or lie to the point of believeing what they're saying,as suggested by Dakota? What if we all were in a postition to clone ourselves.I'm sure the world would be perfect,but the way it is,with all our flaws is better.I asked this guy whose picture he used,for well,the person didn't seem short at all.He said it was his brother's.LOL! Anyway.... history.
Livnlov - Yeah! Still laughing at that,but I swear this man could hardly reach for his plate on the table. I was about to go like,"Are you there,or underneath the table playing hide & seek?" LOL! You're right here too - one lie leads to many so the earlier one quits,the better.And hey! Your German is almost excellent! There are people who use translators,but the message doesn't come across,so keep it up! I get the message,though.My daughters pic is supposed to show that we're inseparable.Whereas many men expect to be taken the way they are,some usually pretend to be fine with a woman's kid(-s) just for you know what.Guys,NO GO!
Curios2078 - I really respect the fact that you're honest about your age.Well,I,after being here for a while,have come to the conclusion that dating sites are an excellent way of killing boredom,but that the right person just may be next door (my neighbours excluded,of course! LOL!!).I think it's sad that we're all geographically sooo separated & that if the opposite was the case we all wouldn't be "searching" (just a thesis).Don't give up!
 
What about THESE success stories? Real or fake? ANYONE GETTING MARRIED ON THIS SITE? I've come to a point where I want to celebrate anyone's wedding,don't care whose it is.LOL!


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Posted on Sat, Jul 27, 2013 19:54

Quoting Dakota35:

This is so funny.  Honestly, I don't understand it and think some men actually believe they are taller or have lied to themselves so much that they beleive it.  I'm 5'10" and tower over a friend, yet he says he is 5'10".  I just let it go, and I've experienced it with other men.

 

Rihanna, let me give you a little advice.  He lied or is in denial, don't go back out with him.  Never feel sorry for someone under those circumstances it will get you in trouble.  Also, many doctors are screwed up and have weird ways. 

 

Women lie about their age.



I never lie about my age, and never have.  I'm 68-1/2 currently.  I could get away with saying I'm 58, but I don't because it isn't true.

 

I hate the lies, which is why I never ever do any searches any more, never contact anyone with the hope of a date, and never ever respond to winks.  I've been here far too long, had far too many liars contact me, or respond to me, and seen far too much scamming going on across the board.

 

I'm here for the blogs only.  The rest be damned. Have no faith left in ever finding romance on this site.  LOL.  It's all just for fun as far as I'm concerned. 



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Posted on Sun, Jul 21, 2013 22:21

Hi Rihanna,

 

Your date experience is funny, but not unusual with internet initiated dates, LOL! They can lie just about anything really and so can some women! For me, once there are such lies, I nip it in the bud! There's no point as the lies will continue and I am much too allergic to lies to stand by and watch such a person make a complete fool of himself whilst I stifle some giggles threatening to burst through my lips! Not worth the laugh at all.

 

As an aside, Vielleicht möchten Sie Ihrem Kind die Bilder von hier zu entfernen. Das Internet ist nicht ein sehr sicherer Ort, um unsere Kinder anzuzeigen. Aber es ist ganz Ihnen überlassen.

 

It's rather cool that she loves green vegetables, LOL.

 

Take care and I wish you better luck next time.

 

Liv.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 21, 2013 14:51

WELCOME to the blogs RIHANNA!

 

 

 

I have to admit, men have lied by a few inches before to me, but A FOOT! I did have one guy here lie about his age----

 

 

 

BY THIRTEEN YEARS!! (The photo he placed appeared that old as well!) I did NOT recognise him!! Very disappointing! 

 

 

 

I agree w/ DAKOTA! NEVER go out with him again! Who cares WHY he lied? He was FRAUDULENT in who he was, and if he is that way from the start, makes for a very bad start to a relationship!

 

 

 

Height IS important to me... I wear stilettos and do not like looking down at my date!! I also must feel attraction, and I just don't sense it the same with short men. I also like a man to be able to rest his chin on my head when he holds me and to be able to hold me in his arms. I do feel badly for shorter men, but it isn't like a man has to be Godzilla to tower over me. ;)

 

 

 

I am more capable of being attracted to a man with a few pounds on him than a man as short as me! If a man doesn't outweigh me by at least 50 lbs? NOT INTERESTED! 

 

 

 

I agree with SPEED--- WEBCAM!! BUT, guys you do have to approach this on needles! LOL.. We have so many men approach us about sex, when you mention "cam," we think, "Oh brother, here we go again!!" 

 

 

 

REZI- Not placing your name on a site is not lying or being fraudulent. That is being smart and men respect that.  

 

 

 

People who know me better on here know my name is not Hoping or Hope--- But they know I do not use my given name publicly. It's security... When a man asks me if Hope is my name, I tell him the truth.....

 

 

 

"It IS today, for this purpose! I don't know you!"   ;) 

 

 

 

WELCOME again RIHANNA!! Break out that webcam! BUT KEEP IT OUT OF YOUR BEDROOM! LOL..



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Posted on Sun, Jul 21, 2013 13:30

Quoting Rihanna:

Hi everyone!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey rezi,thx for contributing.I didn't know that some individuals here have two profiles.You're giving us ideas :-).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not everyone lies,but I believe that meeting someone is like writing a cv for a job.Now who writes about how hysterical they can get when the pay is low :-) ? It isn't an offence to present ourselves the way we would like to be seen,but exaggertaion to the extent of "creating an entirely new human being" is blasphemous.



Yes I found and catch one that is same person just different name and photo and even age, it was written 58 but was 68 in real and not the one and only first man who lies about age imagine, one account from 2009, the other in 2012, or one was newerly married in  summer 2012, and in 2013 he was in the site for better new one behind back of new wife, he 50 she 30, and its just incredible how they reach to lie like this with things that can be verified and that hurts plp In real! So u r lucky just dealing with heights  



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Posted on Sun, Jul 21, 2013 11:00

Hi everyone!

 

Hey rezi,thx for contributing.I didn't know that some individuals here have two profiles.You're giving us ideas :-).

 

Not everyone lies,but I believe that meeting someone is like writing a cv for a job.Now who writes about how hysterical they can get if the salary is low :-) ? It isn't an offence to present ourselves the way we would like to be seen,but exaggeration to the extent of "creating an entirely new human being" is blasphemous.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 21, 2013 08:02

Quoting Dakota35:

Rezi, just pulling your strings...in case that doesn't translate, I'm just being aggravating to get a response.  I like to keep things lite, as sometimes we get into some really deep and controversial subjects on here. 

 

I read what you wrote on your profile, it is interesting.  Apparently, you are not one that pretends the world is all rainbows and candy...as some.  I agree, sometimes life is no fun. 

 

 



Life is not funny or fun but the most important is being happy and have the greatest and privileged reason to wake up every morning and go to sleep at night with ur life ur kid! Thas the real life love and happiness 



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Posted on Sun, Jul 21, 2013 03:14

Quoting rezi1983:

Yes me too I don't use my real name Dakota and this for security reasons and as I can't trust to plp I don't know, when u r quiet reserved and private person, u protect ur self from everykind of plp that u don't know esspecially if u are a mother and have a great responsibility that of your kid! Try to get it all from what I wrote do not just take it with only the beginning as other things inside are deeper and meaningful, look in advance not in only wHat u want too, by the way there is no wrong here it's just personal comment, and we both know am not wrong, am right!



Rezi, just pulling your strings...in case that doesn't translate, I'm just being aggravating to get a response.  I like to keep things lite, as sometimes we get into some really deep and controversial subjects on here. 

 

I read what you wrote on your profile, it is interesting.  Apparently, you are not one that pretends the world is all rainbows and candy...as some.  I agree, sometimes life is no fun. 

 

 



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Posted on Sun, Jul 21, 2013 01:38

Quoting Dakota35:

You said: "I personally think here everyone lies".  Then that means you also lie.  Is that correct?  No everyone doesn't lie, it's just that the ones that do make others that don't also seem like liars.  I never lie and even berate myself so that I will be more than expected if I ever meet someone on this site.  So you are wrong "everyone" doesn't lie.  I don't... what about you?.


Yes me too I don't use my real name Dakota and this for security reasons and as I can't trust to plp I don't know, when u r quiet reserved and private person, u protect ur self from everykind of plp that u don't know esspecially if u are a mother and have a great responsibility that of your kid! Try to get it all from what I wrote do not just take it with only the beginning as other things inside are deeper and meaningful, look in advance not in only wHat u want too, by the way there is no wrong here it's just personal comment, and we both know am not wrong, am right!



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Posted on Sat, Jul 20, 2013 17:28

Quoting rezi1983:

I personally think here everyone lies, beginning related their life, their ex-es, their look, their photos, names, weight, height, even in what they want from partner and what they r ready to do, because in content they mainly are only on hang out dates or sex dates, no one take the step or decision to do something from their side , all just want u to do what they need, and when it comes to needs here it goes all about sex, age, aparence and shows of that mans pretend from their partners and from other side woman's asks for money, trips holidays, tickets, car, houses. I think both parts put it on interested things that they need, thas why in all profiles is just writing, when it comes to facts and reality and acts its all other thing completely different, beginning that here they have even 2 open accounts, and so one, considering that all are adults, imagine where all this goes, ups I forgot here there are even married mans who cheats! 



You said: "I personally think here everyone lies".  Then that means you also lie.  Is that correct?  No everyone doesn't lie, it's just that the ones that do make others that don't also seem like liars.  I never lie and even berate myself so that I will be more than expected if I ever meet someone on this site.  So you are wrong "everyone" doesn't lie.  I don't... what about you?.



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Posted on Sat, Jul 20, 2013 11:02

I personally think here everyone lies, beginning related their life, their ex-es, their look, their photos, names, weight, height, even in what they want from partner and what they r ready to do, because in content they mainly are only on hang out dates or sex dates, no one take the step or decision to do something from their side , all just want u to do what they need, and when it comes to needs here it goes all about sex, age, aparence and shows of that mans pretend from their partners and from other side woman's asks for money, trips holidays, tickets, car, houses. I think both parts put it on interested things that they need, thas why in all profiles is just writing, when it comes to facts and reality and acts its all other thing completely different, beginning that here they have even 2 open accounts, and so one, considering that all are adults, imagine where all this goes, ups I forgot here there are even married mans who cheats! 



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Posted on Fri, Jul 19, 2013 00:25

Quoting Conyersguy:

Speed and Dakota are right.   Women (our age, Dakota) lies about theire age.  I haven't noticed many 20 somethings doing so.   

 

And Speed is right about web camming.  Many women assume we mean cam sex.  And before meeting we should ALL do a  web cam session.  I had a woman last week get REALLY defensive when I said I would stand up and give her the 'full body shot' (fully clothed, of course.)  And she was insulted because of the inference (although I had not asked) that she should then do likewise.  This is from a woman lying on a bed, with only her face visible to the camera.  A bright, very computer-savvy woman.  A woman who wanted me to fly thousands of miles to meet her.  After two weeks + of not being available for a web cam session. .....Online every day, but never available for a cam session to say hello.  

 

Men lie about their height, some because they think that their personal presence is strong enough to make you ignore their lack of height.  And as  Rihanna says, some men CAN do this.  (Some men lie about height like they'd lie about any shortcoming...they are insecure in their own abilities to earn a woman's companionship.)   Sure, it is shallow of women to want taller men, when there is no basis for that need in contemporary society.  But we are all entitled to our preferences, and it is foolish of us to ignore what makes us desire someone.   After all, desire is a key component of love.   If a dark skinned woman is not desirable to us, we are not going to initiate (or maintain for long, lol) sexual relations.  If a heavy man makes her want to look away during sex, she is not going to want to do it again.   We are not going to cure the decades of experiences and prejudices which cause someone to react negatively to us...........go look for the one who LIKES what you are.   And don't criticize yourself for your own preferences.  If you want a tall guy, be courteous to the short guy, but move on.  You don't owe an explanation.   



Hey CG,

Nice to see you back dude!



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Posted on Thu, Jul 18, 2013 15:38

Thanks for sharing your experiences and advicing me.Dakota,you're so RIGHT.I heard that somewhere... there are people who lie about something so much,they end up believing it's a fact.Conyersguy,what did you tell the lady who refused to cam? If someone politely asked me to cam and mentioned that I should remain dressed up,I'd term his intentions serious.BUT many men don't understand something; men want a lady who looks gorgeous and will drive his comrades mad with envy,women could equally ask to see a man's financial status in return.Would you be willing to open up your financial records to a stranger? :-)

I know that a man would  lie inorder to boost his male ego.But lying inorder to build yourself up is wrong.

When I was a young girl on my way to school in my mom's car,I said,"Mum,when I grow up I'll only marry someone who is crippled coz they need help." My mom abruptly stopped the car and gave me a slap across the face I never forgot.What I'm saying is that I feel sorry for everyone who is different.I tried to tell him on phone today that I cannot date him and he promised to provide for me in whatever aspect.But money ain't everything,I said.There is much more to it.

I think there is no second chance for the first impression,so it better be perfect.... perfection from my point of view is a date who gives me a choice in revealing the truth about himself before the date.Should he have said he had a problem with his height I'd have made a choice between meeting him or not.I am extremely clumsy,for instance,and because I can't hide this fact,I mention it.I'm not an angel and we ALL lie,but truth be told,lying about things we cannot alter is wrong.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 17, 2013 23:08

This is so funny.  Honestly, I don't understand it and think some men actually believe they are taller or have lied to themselves so much that they beleive it.  I'm 5'10" and tower over a friend, yet he says he is 5'10".  I just let it go, and I've experienced it with other men.

 

Rihanna, let me give you a little advice.  He lied or is in denial, don't go back out with him.  Never feel sorry for someone under those circumstances it will get you in trouble.  Also, many doctors are screwed up and have weird ways. 

 

Women lie about their age.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 17, 2013 14:18

Well,women can put up with a lot,size included and though I agree with you,Oewerst,I must mention that a lie especially at the beginning will lead to other lies. Would you get into a relationship with an oversized lady who claimed to be a size zero?

 

 

 

There are men who stand 5'4,but have the confidence of a giant,making us feel they're capable of protecting their women and that's what counts and yet honestly I am not willing to be with a man shorter than I am. I believe one doesn't have to excuse themselves for something nature gave them,though,so stand up to it .The secret is CONFIDENCE.Thanks for your tip,SpeedDallas.I like it!

 

 

 

 

 

 



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Posted on Wed, Jul 17, 2013 13:49

i understand about the height, but 5.2 when you are 5.4, i learned that the small things is something that can be to much for a person give loose and see what now if he could be your love and when you learned to know him well he could be very hansom man for you, i pushed once a girl away becuase of something stupid today when i see her i know what i throw away. be thankfull



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Posted on Wed, Jul 17, 2013 13:44

I've never had a bad experience like that, but i usually ask to cam chat before a meeting. After getting past the often assumed belief that I'm really asking for cam sex, we proceeed. If they won't chat live, there generally is a reason for it. Is not just the looks either. A picture is a split second in time. Seeing how people react during a conversation is a great way to test how they'll get along in person.



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