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GraceIvy
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Posted on Mon, Jul 08, 2013 05:35

Orlando,  MleighC has summarized it nicely.  Nice guys are well sought by mature and intelligent women. I must say however that there is a difference between a truly nice person and someone who just acts nice to go out with you.  We can tell the difference.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 07, 2013 19:44

I can tell you straight up that nice guys do finish last.  I used to be so nice to women, I tried to be so thoughtful, so romantic, try to understand on a individual bases what would make them happy.  I wasn't after sex, my intentions were pure.  But it (I) was a joke, women saw me as a friend but nothing more.  I hated to lose my kindness and consideration, but it was getting me nowhere.  Why should I put a effort into something that women don't even appreciate?  Sure, they will say they appreciate it, but their actions dictate the truth.  I'm still a nice guy, but I just don't care as much.  I love women, but they don't control my world like they used to.  I've never been one to make promises as I'd rather just show action.  I am still the same way.  But men make so many promises to women, promise they cannot keep, pure lies.  Women fall for it and find out when it's to late and they are already in love.

 

Orlando, per your research...perhaps women that seek out bad boys are only looking for sex.  But what started out as seeking sex many times ends up as feeling and a long term relationship for women.  A relationship with the wrong kind of guy.

 

Orlando, your blogs are interesting.  Nothing you blog about bothers me personally.  But you should know that many on this site are already completely aware of the outcome of these research surveys.  Living life tends to teach us.  With that said, even though we may know the outcome, it's good to refresh it in our mind.  Thanks for reminding me why I'm not getting any sex. :-)



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Posted on Sun, Jul 07, 2013 19:27

The so called nice guys in school may not get the girls. But nice guys are the ones that we end up working for once we are all grown up. So they really have the last laugh. And they get the women later in life that bad boys cant get. Because by then women have had enough dealing with bad boys that won't grow up.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 07, 2013 17:16

I know some think I copy and paste.  As a professor I would never allow that of my students and I would never practice plagiarism.  I read every article and extrapolate the information.. My  writing is original or I would use quotes.  If you do not like my blogs please seek the one you like.  I mean no harm.  Consider karma as a guideline. 



**My top strength is"learning." So, my blogs are learning-focused. ~Orlando

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