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DosAguas75
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Posted on Fri, May 10, 2013 17:43

 

Started reading some blogs, and even though did not comment I am truly enjoying them. I did upload some more images of myself, however still wondering if should remain on website or even if I should become a member. I can't chat online as standard member, but the few times went on made me think of high school which was something I am not looking for. Just hoping to maybe meet some new decent positive friends, and maybe a men who is not so shallow.

 

I know even though I am 37 I am still young, but many have told me I might have set very high expectations of people. I am always looking for the best  in people regardless if just friends or in a relationship with them. I always see it as accepting the good as well the bad flaw since it is those imperfections that make us so unique. Being there through good and bad times, and not running when things get out of control. I have seen many people turn their back on friends when they most needed a shoulder or just someone to talk to. I believe this is a result of growing up watching my parents marriage. They are celebrating 43 yrs married this yr, and my grandparents one set prior to their passing had over 60 yrs married, and my grandmother who is a 87 yr old widow had over 50 yrs marriage prior to my grandfather's passing. Also my own experiences in overcoming situations with a positive outlook when told sorry no positions left open after mentioning I am deaf makes me wonder if I am asking too much in people.

 

Is it too much to ask for honesty, loyalty, compassionate, humble, honorable, etc. in people hmmm does the word unconditional even exist within people anymore?

 

Now my experience on here is still in debate if the site is something that will enrich my life with good positive individuals even if its just friendship that I end up finding. Hmmm still left thinking ...

 

 

 

 


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Posted on Tue, May 14, 2013 10:07

I can only say, that I have never been a real fan of these types of websites; however, this post just changed my mind.  I find it absolutely humbling to see someone to be so enlightened by the relationships around them, & to gain such a wonderful perspective. I too believe that the "unconditional" aspect has been overlooked and replaced by superficial  shortcomings..I know now that this world is still filled with such wonderful people. "There is no yellow brick road leading up to paradise palace, it takes work!" Really refreshing.



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Posted on Sun, May 12, 2013 12:41

Nice post. I enjoyed reading it and agree.. it is so hard to find decent people now adays.. both as a couple or just friends.

 



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Posted on Sat, May 11, 2013 09:29

Making positive genuine friends even if you say a little weird  is a good reason to stick it out. The thing is most of my friends, and my family  married and with  children. I understand they have responsibilities, but it would be nice to make new friends. Even if girls night ends up chatting online ... lol

 

I admit the blogs have had me chuckling as well learning about others more. Thanks so much for the warnings on scammers, as well on chat room.  I did see some nice fun chat, but got lost when someone was stating inappropriate conversations/topic made me think of high school being scolded. I might need to get membership, but will hold on that a week or two. Until then will stick to blogs and forum, thanks so much the welcome and look forward to getting to know you as well others ...

 

PS I seen a few educators on here, please bare with me on blogs since you might see many grammatical errors ... lol ... English writing was not my best subject. The irony is I love writing personal journals reflectioning now and then, and prefer reading than out clubbing at times. 



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Posted on Sat, May 11, 2013 04:59

Hi Dos,

 

Good to see you on the blogs. From my personal experience, I would recommend that you give it time. You will certainly enjoy the blogs and make good friends on here. The bloggers are wonderful, witty and intelligent. We have formed a very good bond with one another and have supported each other over time. Of course we do have the odd debates and sometimes agree to disagree, but in all, it is lively and interesting.

 

As for dates, I cannot say that I have had a wonderful or special experience, that might be a function of where I am so you may find differently in your own experience. So my advice, like others here have mentioned, is give it time....

 

Liv.



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Posted on Sat, May 11, 2013 04:49

I have been on this site off and on for a little over a year.  Been on a couple of dates but nothing special.  What is special is the friends I have made through the chat room and the blogs.  I find the men that comment in the blogs/forums to be real and entertaining.  

The chat room may seem to be of "high school" mentality but is actually quite fun and a good place to get a good laugh.  Private chat is where the serious conversations take place.

Dos, give yourself some time and you will find many people on here are genuine, caring and compassionate. The blogs will guide you on how to avoid scammers, give you food for thought and help you connect with some wonderful people.

Stay positive, Dos, and positive things will come your way.

Hugs



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