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Posted on Sat, Jan 19, 2013 12:38

 

There are number of things one can do to maximize finding the right woman. Congratulations you have just taken the first step!

Step1: Join an award winning website for singles, like this one.

Step 2: Determine  your goals:  Are you seeking long term, marriage, or fun?

Step 3: We are all single for many reasons, consider stepping outside of the box; try something different. If  you tend to be highly attracted to blondes consider a highly attractive red head. If you love tall thin model types, spark a conversation with average height thin woman.

Step 4: Leave the baggage behind, don't place individuals in categories or assume one woman will be the same way as an ex, or fall for sterotyping:  all blondes aren't a certain way ect. Give an individual a chance without biases; until you either prove your hypothesis about them is true or false. You may be suprised to learn something new, you may even find true love unexpectedly.

Step 5: From biblical days, even if  one isn't religious this is helpful to know, God placed a formula for successful in  relationships, blessed is the man who finds a wife, he obtains favor from the Lord, a man that finds a wife finds a good thing, and women are to be a support mate  for their man. (Man is the head of the house)

A High powered, over achieving woman is admirable and respectable but will she have to time to cheer you on, to support your visions, to nourish the family full time? The bible states the man is the head of the house hold he is the provider, our society at times has switched up the role of a woman and man and it has caused less success in flourishing relationships.

Step 6: Appreciate and be grateful for the people that come into your life, there is always are learning lessons that one may use that will build character; if a date doesn't work out.  THINK POSITIVE!

Step 7: Stop expecting people to be perfect or flawless, non of us are; even Miss America has flaws.

Last, REFLECT LIGHT be a giver, do not look for things in return. Do good because it is noble, and because you select too. If someone has a goal to take advantage of you, what goes around comes around. An old Chinese proverb says; karma comes back to us all, so do good at all times, so good will come back to you.  If you feel someone is a user; wish them well and press on. There is someone out there for all of us.

In closing, if ones goal is to find the woman of your dreams, do good, receive love, be thankful, think positive, try something new, speak positive words, demonstrate giving without expectations, smile for goodness sake; then one day, you will find the woman of your dreams, remember; it is the heart that determines who a person is not outward appearances.

PS, if one reaches out to a love interest and the person responds : "your not my type or doesn't respond at all," think: THEIR lost, always know that you were marvelously and gloriously made in the image of God, he didn't make junk and all hIS creations are beautiful, 

Do not let anyone tell you you are not worthy!  BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER, IT STARTS WITH YOUR EYES FIRST, WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF? THAT IS WHAT MATTERS, NOW PRESS ON, AND DON'T  GIVE UP in your search of finding "THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS."

 Leave me an email if you would like to discuss this further or just say hello.

Regards,

Vibrantheart

 

 


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