I am new to online dating, and I have to say that Iam a little dissapoint in what kind of guys are attracted to me. Mostly in their mid 50's. On my profile it said the age of the men I am looking to date, not more than 43! I feel that guys that age should be looking for a woman around 45 and older. I even have guys around 60 looking a my profile! that is 30 years older than me!!!! What is it with guys in the 30's! what are they looking forrrrrrrrr A supermodel? a one night stand? a teenager? Whatt??? I don't know what to think. Iam not Angelina Jolie, but I think I look decent enough to atract at least guys my age! Are guys lying on their profile, writing they want to find love, and bla bla bla, when in reality they are looking for somebody just to spend the night! I would like to hear other women opinions and histories about their dating. Do I sound that boring that only a grampa can be interested!!!!!
I am new to online dating, and I have to say that Iam a little dissapoint in what kind of guys are attracted to me. Mostly in their mid 50's. On my profile it said the age of the men I am looking to date, not more than 43!
I feel that guys that age should be looking for a woman around 45 and older. I even have guys around 60 looking a my profile! that is 30 years older than me!!!!
What is it with guys in the 30's! what are they looking forrrrrrrrr
A supermodel? a one night stand? a teenager? Whatt???
I don't know what to think. Iam not Angelina Jolie, but I think I look decent enough to atract at least guys my age!
Are guys lying on their profile, writing they want to find love, and bla bla bla, when in reality they are looking for somebody just to spend the night!
I would like to hear other women opinions and histories about their dating.
Do I sound that boring that only a grampa can be interested!!!!!
Awww....come on back CG. Even though LC and I aren't the youngest babes in the crowd.....WE still think ur HOT!!! We LIKE fuzzy ears.....really....no kidding!! :)))))
Quoting laughing_cloud:
He definitely does.
Quoting laughing_cloud:
He definitely does.
Awww....come on back CG. Even though LC and I aren't the youngest babes in the crowd.....WE still think ur HOT!!! We LIKE fuzzy ears.....really....no kidding!! :)))))
think people....the guys who are younger obviously get girls so ofcourse ur only gunna find the old heads who wanna get married...no offense...the younger ones dont hit u up because they have so many excuse my french...whores who are throwing their naked bodies at them plus i spoke to a few thirty and mid thirty yr olds...all they do is ask for pictures....then more pictures...then their always out on a vacation or working twenty four seven. by that time the conversation dies out because u get tired of sending so many pictures...that you just drift away until you find a new guy to do that with. yeah well it didnt help me...im left with three options...one. delete my account. two. become a lesbian. or three. get stuck with a fifty yr old and just pretend ur a play boy dummy i mean bunny ahaha best of luck sweetie. im good lookin and twenty five...still nuttn...beat
think people....the guys who are younger obviously get girls so ofcourse ur only gunna find the old heads who wanna get married...no offense...the younger ones dont hit u up because they have so many excuse my french...whores who are throwing their naked bodies at them plus i spoke to a few thirty and mid thirty yr olds...all they do is ask for pictures....then more pictures...then their always out on a vacation or working twenty four seven. by that time the conversation dies out because u get tired of sending so many pictures...that you just drift away until you find a new guy to do that with. yeah well it didnt help me...im left with three options...one. delete my account. two. become a lesbian. or three. get stuck with a fifty yr old and just pretend ur a play boy dummy i mean bunny ahaha best of luck sweetie. im good lookin and twenty five...still nuttn...beat
i think CG is correct when he says that there are not too many men in there 30's here, so perhaps it would be an option to join another site that is more populated with men in the 30's category. Many older men here seem to consider the option of dating someone far younger than themselves so I guess many are going to take the chance irregardless of what perimeters the other person has set regarding the age requirements they would consider.
I still find the best option of meeting men in there 30's is still cafes/bars and in my experience you will find some more interested in a one night stand but these are in the minority most are open to seeing if it will go further. In many ways I still prefer this method over internet dating because in person you become more than a static image with a few words strung together to describe yourself, you show your personality and after having many discussions with male friends over the years , personality ranks very highly as attractive qualities they seek. In other words no matter how great somebody looks if there personality does not match or is deemed unattractive , interest is quickly lost and they move on.
Good luck in what every method you choose to find the one!
i think CG is correct when he says that there are not too many men in there 30's here, so perhaps it would be an option to join another site that is more populated with men in the 30's category. Many older men here seem to consider the option of dating someone far younger than themselves so I guess many are going to take the chance irregardless of what perimeters the other person has set regarding the age requirements they would consider.
I still find the best option of meeting men in there 30's is still cafes/bars and in my experience you will find some more interested in a one night stand but these are in the minority most are open to seeing if it will go further. In many ways I still prefer this method over internet dating because in person you become more than a static image with a few words strung together to describe yourself, you show your personality and after having many discussions with male friends over the years , personality ranks very highly as attractive qualities they seek. In other words no matter how great somebody looks if there personality does not match or is deemed unattractive , interest is quickly lost and they move on.
Good luck in what every method you choose to find the one!
Well, your profile is quite explicit about the age, so, yes, a man reading it should respect your age limits. And yes, you are certainly bright, interesting and attractive enough to attract men your age. But I don't think there are many men in their 30's on here??? Maybe the 40's ??
Elevating the exposure to your profile by posting in the blogs and forum will help, of course.
And I think almost everyone (except the 50-something who still wants to nail young hotties, lol, or the young hottie who wants a sugar daddy) will agree with you about your age parameters. I have seen instances where larger age differences work, but in my opinion, 20 years is the outside. For 90% of the cases, 15 years is probably the limit. And while I personally know some 20-somethings who ARE mature enough to make it work, they are as rare as blue diamonds. And the reverse is true....there ARE some 50 year olds who can keep up with the 30 year olds, but they are damn rare, as well.
And with all that said.......there is just an overwhelming sense of comfort with someone (within 5 years of) your own age. She gets the jokes; he remembers Paul McCartney was once in a band (before Wings, lol); he doesn't need to prove he can still nail anything that moves; she doesn't need to prove she can DANCE all night, etc., etc. Or if you're younger, he still thinks Jaeger bombs are a great idea; she coordinates shaving and tattoos; he will shave IT lol; he WILL dance all night (and still bed you well); she thinks Kid Rock is a dirty old man, too, etc., etc.
Different strokes for different folks. Some people prefer the comfort of familiarity. Some people love the excitement of the differences. Age is just one of those.
You were clear about what YOU found important. That should have been sufficient. Best wishes.
-CG-
Well, your profile is quite explicit about the age, so, yes, a man reading it should respect your age limits.
And yes, you are certainly bright, interesting and attractive enough to attract men your age. But I don't think there are many men in their 30's on here??? Maybe the 40's ??
Elevating the exposure to your profile by posting in the blogs and forum will help, of course.
And I think almost everyone (except the 50-something who still wants to nail young hotties, lol, or the young hottie who wants a sugar daddy) will agree with you about your age parameters. I have seen instances where larger age differences work, but in my opinion, 20 years is the outside. For 90% of the cases, 15 years is probably the limit. And while I personally know some 20-somethings who ARE mature enough to make it work, they are as rare as blue diamonds. And the reverse is true....there ARE some 50 year olds who can keep up with the 30 year olds, but they are damn rare, as well.
And with all that said.......there is just an overwhelming sense of comfort with someone (within 5 years of) your own age. She gets the jokes; he remembers Paul McCartney was once in a band (before Wings, lol); he doesn't need to prove he can still nail anything that moves; she doesn't need to prove she can DANCE all night, etc., etc. Or if you're younger, he still thinks Jaeger bombs are a great idea; she coordinates shaving and tattoos; he will shave IT lol; he WILL dance all night (and still bed you well); she thinks Kid Rock is a dirty old man, too, etc., etc.
Different strokes for different folks. Some people prefer the comfort of familiarity. Some people love the excitement of the differences. Age is just one of those.
You were clear about what YOU found important. That should have been sufficient. Best wishes.
Don't feel too bad, I'm in the same boat.I put my cutoff at 43, but people pushing 50 or more are the only ones that even think twice. I was out last night at a latin dance party and the only guys that asked me to dance were well into their 50's, probably even 60's. It does make me wornder. Maybe they just feel more comfortable and aren't as concerned about rejection. At least that's what I'm trying to tell myself because the only alternative is that I look like I'm pushing 50 myself and I don't know that I could handle that! :)
Don't feel too bad, I'm in the same boat.I put my cutoff at 43, but people pushing 50 or more are the only ones that even think twice. I was out last night at a latin dance party and the only guys that asked me to dance were well into their 50's, probably even 60's. It does make me wornder. Maybe they just feel more comfortable and aren't as concerned about rejection. At least that's what I'm trying to tell myself because the only alternative is that I look like I'm pushing 50 myself and I don't know that I could handle that! :)
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