Control your lips. Have you ever heard the saying “it’s all in the kiss”? Well, it’s so true. You can tell a lot about a person from the way they kiss. Limit your time. There is no way to get time back once it is gone. Do not spend it with the person that you are trying to not become attached to. If you want to spend time with them or even have time for them, do not overdo it. Give little. Time spent together opens a whole new doorway to emotional attachment. Sexpectations are the only expectations. You can, under no circumstances, develop any expectations for the other person whatsoever. The only expectations that are acceptable are strictly related to sex if you are already having sexual relations with the person. No arguments. If you are angry enough to argue with the other person for something that he or she has done, then you, my friend, have already lost. Do not share any personal information. You know what they say. Sharing is caring and that’s exactly the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish. Stay busy. The best thing that you can do in a relationship is to stay busy. You never want to have too much down time because down time equals time to think.
Group date. Remember what I said earlier about limiting your time. Well, this especially includes alone time. Invite your friends and their girlfriends or boyfriends to tag along. That way there will be little room for personal conversation that will distract you from your goal. Enjoy his or her company without the extra, unnecessary conversations. Sometimes less is more.
Don’t lose yourself. Always remember who you are. Do what you did before that person came along. The first mistake that people make when getting into a relationship is getting so wrapped up that they forget about their dreams.
Be responsible for your own happiness. The last thing that you want to do is be dependent on anyone for anything, especially happiness. If you put all your happiness into one person or thing, you’re just as good as hopeless. You need to be independent in every aspect of your life, so that nothing sets you back from where you should be going. That is your biggest key to success.
Control your lips. Have you ever heard the saying “it’s all in the kiss”? Well, it’s so true. You can tell a lot about a person from the way they kiss. Limit your time. There is no way to get time back once it is gone. Do not spend it with the person that you are trying to not become attached to. If you want to spend time with them or even have time for them, do not overdo it. Give little. Time spent together opens a whole new doorway to emotional attachment. Sexpectations are the only expectations. You can, under no circumstances, develop any expectations for the other person whatsoever. The only expectations that are acceptable are strictly related to sex if you are already having sexual relations with the person. No arguments. If you are angry enough to argue with the other person for something that he or she has done, then you, my friend, have already lost. Do not share any personal information. You know what they say. Sharing is caring and that’s exactly the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish. Stay busy. The best thing that you can do in a relationship is to stay busy. You never want to have too much down time because down time equals time to think.
Group date. Remember what I said earlier about limiting your time. Well, this especially includes alone time. Invite your friends and their girlfriends or boyfriends to tag along. That way there will be little room for personal conversation that will distract you from your goal. Enjoy his or her company without the extra, unnecessary conversations. Sometimes less is more.
Don’t lose yourself. Always remember who you are. Do what you did before that person came along. The first mistake that people make when getting into a relationship is getting so wrapped up that they forget about their dreams.
Be responsible for your own happiness. The last thing that you want to do is be dependent on anyone for anything, especially happiness. If you put all your happiness into one person or thing, you’re just as good as hopeless. You need to be independent in every aspect of your life, so that nothing sets you back from where you should be going. That is your biggest key to success.
Curious, lol!!!!! OMG, he is 47 years old! I see your point. The anonimity of the internet tends to breed a certain kind of discourtousness in some people, indeed! Liv
Quoting Curious2078:
Most inappropriate remark for the blogs, primetime. Most inappropriate indeed. This is a forum for discussion, not for overt [not to mention mind-numbingly stupid] attempts at sexual seduction. I wish you NO luck on here at all until you learn to behave like a 21st century gentleman here on the blogs rather than like an 18th century Lethario.
Quoting Curious2078:
Most inappropriate remark for the blogs, primetime. Most inappropriate indeed. This is a forum for discussion, not for overt [not to mention mind-numbingly stupid] attempts at sexual seduction. I wish you NO luck on here at all until you learn to behave like a 21st century gentleman here on the blogs rather than like an 18th century Lethario.
Curious, lol!!!!! OMG, he is 47 years old! I see your point. The anonimity of the internet tends to breed a certain kind of discourtousness in some people, indeed! Liv
thank you everyone for all of your comments! you guys have definitely encouraged me to post more. You guys have made this blog very interesting to me. Thanks again!
thank you everyone for all of your comments! you guys have definitely encouraged me to post more. You guys have made this blog very interesting to me. Thanks again!
Doesn't much matter why you posted it. Look at all the remarks it has engendered. Good post indeed.
Quoting skyelove:
not sure why i posted this on a matchmaker website but i think it is useful sometimes when you feel like you dont want to become easily attached. just a few things ive learned that actually helped me to not be so quick to settle with just anyone.
Quoting skyelove:
not sure why i posted this on a matchmaker website but i think it is useful sometimes when you feel like you dont want to become easily attached. just a few things ive learned that actually helped me to not be so quick to settle with just anyone.
Doesn't much matter why you posted it. Look at all the remarks it has engendered. Good post indeed.
Most inappropriate remark for the blogs, primetime. Most inappropriate indeed. This is a forum for discussion, not for overt [not to mention mind-numbingly stupid] attempts at sexual seduction. I wish you NO luck on here at all until you learn to behave like a 21st century gentleman here on the blogs rather than like an 18th century Lethario.
Quoting primetime2005:
HELLO SWEET HEART I LOVE TO GET WITH YOU AND SHOW YOU A VERY GOOD TIME I AM A VERY NICE AND SWEET GUY I AM JOE
Quoting primetime2005:
HELLO SWEET HEART I LOVE TO GET WITH YOU AND SHOW YOU A VERY GOOD TIME I AM A VERY NICE AND SWEET GUY I AM JOE
Most inappropriate remark for the blogs, primetime. Most inappropriate indeed. This is a forum for discussion, not for overt [not to mention mind-numbingly stupid] attempts at sexual seduction. I wish you NO luck on here at all until you learn to behave like a 21st century gentleman here on the blogs rather than like an 18th century Lethario.
Interesting topic Skyelove - Celibacy is a powerful and wonderful thing! And I totally agree with Michelle about sex being a reserve of the committed relationship only. Unless of course you can have sex like a man, (i.e. not be emotionally involved too soon) you will be bound to be disappointed when all the guy wants is just that.
Good luck in your search.
Liv.
Quoting skyelove:
that is truly amazing michelle. celibacy is something that takes a whole lot of will power and motivation and i commend you for it. thanks for your input and stay positive and strong. you are a strong woman :)
Quoting skyelove:
that is truly amazing michelle. celibacy is something that takes a whole lot of will power and motivation and i commend you for it. thanks for your input and stay positive and strong. you are a strong woman :)
Interesting topic Skyelove - Celibacy is a powerful and wonderful thing! And I totally agree with Michelle about sex being a reserve of the committed relationship only. Unless of course you can have sex like a man, (i.e. not be emotionally involved too soon) you will be bound to be disappointed when all the guy wants is just that.
that is truly amazing michelle. celibacy is something that takes a whole lot of will power and motivation and i commend you for it. thanks for your input and stay positive and strong. you are a strong woman :)
that is truly amazing michelle. celibacy is something that takes a whole lot of will power and motivation and i commend you for it. thanks for your input and stay positive and strong. you are a strong woman :)
I also agree with your statement completely. Like you said, we women are very emotional. Being intimate before the man has proven his worth just sets us up for heartbreak, if we are interested in a long-term commitment. I have been celibate quite awhile and shall remain so until the right one comes along. And if one never does, at this point I can honestly say that I don't care, and know I am much better off on my own. Thanks for an interesting topic. :-)
Quoting skyelove:
yes i agree with you 100%, but for anyone who is having sex already with that person, they need to expect nothing else from them but that. I think sex just opens the doorway for women to become attached because we are very emotional and we are born to be lovers, so naturally we express it.
Quoting skyelove:
yes i agree with you 100%, but for anyone who is having sex already with that person, they need to expect nothing else from them but that. I think sex just opens the doorway for women to become attached because we are very emotional and we are born to be lovers, so naturally we express it.
I also agree with your statement completely. Like you said, we women are very emotional. Being intimate before the man has proven his worth just sets us up for heartbreak, if we are interested in a long-term commitment. I have been celibate quite awhile and shall remain so until the right one comes along. And if one never does, at this point I can honestly say that I don't care, and know I am much better off on my own. Thanks for an interesting topic. :-)
yes i agree with you 100%, but for anyone who is having sex already with that person, they need to expect nothing else from them but that. I think sex just opens the doorway for women to become attached because we are very emotional and we are born to be lovers, so naturally we express it.
yes i agree with you 100%, but for anyone who is having sex already with that person, they need to expect nothing else from them but that. I think sex just opens the doorway for women to become attached because we are very emotional and we are born to be lovers, so naturally we express it.
I like those with just one change. Keep sex out of the equation, as that just muddies things up and someone will get hurt. Reserve sex for the commited relationship only.
I like those with just one change. Keep sex out of the equation, as that just muddies things up and someone will get hurt. Reserve sex for the commited relationship only.
not sure why i posted this on a matchmaker website but i think it is useful sometimes when you feel like you dont want to become easily attached. just a few things ive learned that actually helped me to not be so quick to settle with just anyone.
not sure why i posted this on a matchmaker website but i think it is useful sometimes when you feel like you dont want to become easily attached. just a few things ive learned that actually helped me to not be so quick to settle with just anyone.
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