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Posted on Fri, May 25, 2012 17:18

Quoting la_malefique:

This is a fantastic topic! I have been looking for the right game balance myself, I am curious what the rest will say and keen to try different ways to tackle some of the games that some have  going on here...;-D

 

I feel that without without the games it's just like supermarket shopping...Pacing through the isles... looking onto the shelves for products in your favourite section... put it in the trolley and move on through the isles.

 

And then, just before you're heading out to pay, you change your mind about one of them....choose something else that catches your eye and leave that one behind for not being "in the game" enough.  For being too "familiar" and being exactly what you expect it to be and nothing more....

 

This is why they say "don't go shopping for food when you're hungry !"... ;-)

 

 

Games are fun. They stimulate the mind. And body. If you can't play games here before you actually meet someone then where else and how do you start playing them after?..;-)

 

 

 

 



I am curious as to what the other might say as well. 

 

Re  "don't go shopping for food when you're hungry !"  -- don't go looking for love when you are desperate. 

 

Thanks for your comments

 

rmac

 



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Posted on Fri, May 25, 2012 17:10

Quoting Diana3316:

Hmmmm....yesss...Rmac.  I feel like I have so much more to say about this topic, but for now...it's always a bad thing if the man gets the woman backing up.  The trick is to make her want to lean forward.....whether it is with her mouth for the kiss....or her body and mind.... for the love!

 

It just doesn't usually work....... to go fishing with a baseball bat.



Do you suppose it might be ok to keep them just a little off balance? 

 

I look forward to anything you might add on the subject.

 

rmac

 



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Posted on Fri, May 25, 2012 12:04

I prefer to call it the “dating process”  rather than the “dating game”. In my opinion, people who are being truly authentic are not playing games.

 

To me a game is when one person CONSCIOUSLY deceives or manipulates the other person by controlling what that person does or thinks for their own selfish gain. When someone is "gaming" somebody it usually ends up causing harm, such as making the other person feel unworthy, cause emotional pain, loss of respect, loss of trust, etc.

 

To study the differences between the way men and women think and operate is a very interesting and enlightening subject. I’m certainly no expert, but I’ve learned a lot since I began this study after I decided to start dating again. There has been tons more research done since the Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus book. This book is a good starting place for those who want to learn.

 

No matter how evolved we are, men still have the instinct to hunt/provide, and women have the instinct to nurture/nest. Some have stronger instincts than others. We all need to learn about these so we can understand and relate better and not drive each other crazy and away.

 

 I have found the most effective way to be noticed is to be authentic and become  the best person that I can be in every area of life-- mind, body, spirit, emotions, lifestyle, and financial. This will make anyone more magnetic and attractive. You don’t have to be perfect, just keep growing as a person with right intention and authenticity--be the best you can be for yourself, not be the best to impress the guy or gal.

 

Also, there are times when you can be doing everything right, and the person could even love you, but if there is no “chemistry” at that primal level, no matter how well you both get along, it probably isn't going to work in the long run. …………. BeWell



BeWell and wishing you only the best ! ..................;-D

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Posted on Thu, May 24, 2012 22:32

Hmmmm....yesss...Rmac.  I feel like I have so much more to say about this topic, but for now...it's always a bad thing if the man gets the woman backing up.  The trick is to make her want to lean forward.....whether it is with her mouth for the kiss....or her body and mind.... for the love!

 

It just doesn't usually work....... to go fishing with a baseball bat.



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Posted on Thu, May 24, 2012 15:45

This is a fantastic topic! I have been looking for the right game balance myself, I am curious what the rest will say and keen to try different ways to tackle some of the games that some have  going on here...;-D

 

I feel that without without the games it's just like supermarket shopping...Pacing through the isles... looking onto the shelves for products in your favourite section... put it in the trolley and move on through the isles.

 

And then, just before you're heading out to pay, you change your mind about one of them....choose something else that catches your eye and leave that one behind for not being "in the game" enough.  For being too "familiar" and being exactly what you expect it to be and nothing more....

Games are fun. They stimulate the mind. And body. If you can't play games here before you actually meet someone then where else and how do you start playing them after?..;-)

 

This is why they say "don't go shopping for food when you're hungry !"... ;-)


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