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Posted on Mon, May 07, 2012 09:35

browsing through the male profiles & this is what i found:

 

 

 

1 saying he is sensual-i get it, you have a p3nis. why turn me off before we even meet?

 

 

 

2 pix of random children-i'm sure their parents didn't say it was ok to plaster their face all over the internet

 

 

 

3 main profile picture with 700 people in them-no, i have no idea which one you are nor do i care

 

 

 

4 puns-why do older guys always do this??????reminds me of that "off" inappropriate uncle

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

time to go to my red carpet event. i might add some more later



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Posted on Wed, May 23, 2012 23:00

Quoting rmac22:

Re making your grandfather’s day.

 

We are at a restaurant, me clearly way older than my very attractive daughter, and my three exuberant and pretty granddaughters, ages 2 to 9 yo, calling me Papa.  As we leave the restaurant a somewhat elderly gentleman jumping up to shake my hand and telling me I don’t know how lucky I am. 

 

I do know how lucky I am.

 

rmac

 



Lolololol!!!!! RMAC!!!! This is way too funny, lolololol!!!

 

Liv.



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Posted on Wed, May 23, 2012 11:38

Quoting FitFunBlonde:

Me too..

I had one who was at least 100lbs larger than his photos and was wearing a very bad, very obvious, too black toupe..

I just took a deep breath as he walked towards me and  was polite and friendly through dinner. He had driven a very long way and was a very nice guy. But his photos were deceptive..

It was so bad that people were actually laughing. And when he left to use the restroom, one guy on the table next to us ( all males ) said in a loud voice..  " Those two deserve eachother! "

Reminded me of the time I took my 89 year old Grandfather to the pharmacy to pick up his meds.

"Oh look .. Anna Nicole and her billionaire!"

Made my Grandads day...!!



Re making your grandfather’s day.

 

We are at a restaurant, me clearly way older than my very attractive daughter, and my three exuberant and pretty granddaughters, ages 2 to 9 yo, calling me Papa.  As we leave the restaurant a somewhat elderly gentleman jumping up to shake my hand and telling me I don’t know how lucky I am. 

 

I do know how lucky I am.

 

rmac

 



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Posted on Sat, May 19, 2012 06:55

that was hysterical !! i agree totally



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Posted on Fri, May 18, 2012 15:10

Curious - AMEN! Unfortunately, I haven't had any better luck but like you, appreciate the interaction. Sometimes I just read the live chat going on as I'm also not a paying member and can't chime in. I've only met one person on here and though he was nice, he isn't looking for the relationship his profiled claimed he is.

I do not enjoy the dating game. Never had. I'm finding myself far to independent for most men and often those I meet are drowning in their own egos, serial daters or worse...needy.

I do not feel the need to pose half naked or provocative in pictures. I think men who are chasing those kinds of girls are also chasing headaches. Women who crave the attention (that KIND of attention) will never be satisfied with the affections of just one man. I don't understand the men that say they are "athletically built" and yet their pictures clearly show they are not but yet they want a HOT, THIN, ATHLETIC, PETITE...woman.

I also am turned off by the men whose profile picture of them is without a shirt. If you look like a model in your pictures, you're probably a fake profile or think you're hot stuff. I won't give you the time of day. I prefer to see a REAL main profile pic and if you have others in your pictures that include one or two of you without a shirt, fine. I've seen some hairy men. That may be a turn on for some but not for me.

Some of the women on here are very interesting and I think I'd rather chat with them then some of the men. I'd probably have more laughs and a better conversational exchange than with the bitter men that can't take rejection!



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Posted on Thu, May 17, 2012 21:30

Quoting Thatoneguy2008:

Why is it that everyone seems so angry?


You gotta look at all this stuff through a lens I'm going to dub the "Groucho Marx" lens. 

In other words, see it through a lens of humor.  Don't take it all that seriously.  Why?  Because if you could see the expressions on the faces of most of the people posting, if you could hear their tones of voice in the words they type, you'd see that most of it is to be taken with a grain or two or twenty of salt and laughed at as they sip yet another drop from their wine glasses--or vodka glasses--or green tea--or whatever.

This is nothing more than a bunch of people at a bar, getting slightly drunk [on booze or words or their own personal hangups or needs or whatever] and trying very hard to connect, to laugh together, to connect, make friends, and make each other feel better about whatever.  So, stop worrying so much, and try to enjoy.  Most of us are just here to help keep body and soul together.  Chat, chat, chat, gab, enjoy, and, when the night comes to a close, feel as though we've connected with someone in ways we haven't been able to find during the day with the real world.  

Sounds kind of pathetic for those of us on here--but, given the way most of live our lives today, it makes perfect sense. 

Enjoy, laugh--or cry.  But above all, feel better for the blogs, or get off them.  If they don't make you feel better in the end, you probably shouldn't be here.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



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Posted on Thu, May 17, 2012 21:17

Quoting gagirl2012:

Perhaps he (Voyager) just isn't getting enough attention? And what has HE been doing hanging around the laundromats to know where the girls hang out?

Its all in good fun but when somene says that "Ya'll are going about this the wrong way" well, do tell us V, what IS the right way since you seem to have it all figured out? Oh, and are you still single? If so, forget about the advice because you TOO must be doing it wrong :)

I don't think we're all angry. I'm certainly not.



Most of us aren't angry, Gagirl.  And Voyager is just, well, Voyager.  He just loves to stir the pot. 

Very few people on here have been successful finding a match, Gagirl.  I've been hanging around here for 4 years or so now.  The first one was spent trying to find a match.

After that, and all the many scammers--not to mention idiots--I encountered, I gave up paid membership and stuck around for the blogs alone. 

I hope you have better luck than I've had with searching and finding a match.  Just be careful--always.  Stay on the lookout for scammers, and never give out personal information until you re 100 percent sure--objectively sure, not emotionally sure--it's safe to do so.

GOOD LUCK!

 



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Posted on Tue, May 15, 2012 16:36

Perhaps he (Voyager) just isn't getting enough attention? And what has HE been doing hanging around the laundromats to know where the girls hang out?

Its all in good fun but when somene says that "Ya'll are going about this the wrong way" well, do tell us V, what IS the right way since you seem to have it all figured out? Oh, and are you still single? If so, forget about the advice because you TOO must be doing it wrong :)

I don't think we're all angry. I'm certainly not.



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Posted on Tue, May 15, 2012 06:36

Everyone seems so angry


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Posted on Tue, May 15, 2012 00:50

Quoting Curious2078:

V, you're being a bit too tough on Newbies, my friend.  Of course this topic gets sent around every year or so.  Newbies weren't here two years ago to read what the newbies posted then about douche bags and such.

Come on, V.  Dallas has, as you said, just posted a re-post.  But it's all new to her, for crying out loud. 

Let it be, Voyager.  Just let it be.  Note that you've been through this complaint before, and move on.  No need for the insults.  

Unless, of course, you're seriously LOOKING for some insults to inspire you.  LOLOLOL 

 



it may be a repost(as you said) but obviously no one is learning from it because there are still horrible profiles 



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Posted on Mon, May 14, 2012 18:52

Quoting Voyager54:

~dallas~...Your blog is stupid. This topic gets touched upon every half year or so. And I generally tell the person that THEY ARE pissed off at men and or the site in general. Everybody knows that men can be real douche bags from time to time and of course there are scammers on here too, but if you're too ignorant to figure those people out then you really should move on to another form of picking up men...like the 7-11 or the laundromat or wherever it is you girls normally go to....just sayin'.



V, you're being a bit too tough on Newbies, my friend.  Of course this topic gets sent around every year or so.  Newbies weren't here two years ago to read what the newbies posted then about douche bags and such.

Come on, V.  Dallas has, as you said, just posted a re-post.  But it's all new to her, for crying out loud. 

Let it be, Voyager.  Just let it be.  Note that you've been through this complaint before, and move on.  No need for the insults.  

Unless, of course, you're seriously LOOKING for some insults to inspire you.  LOLOLOL 

 



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Posted on Mon, May 14, 2012 13:11

Why is it that everyone seems so angry?


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Posted on Sun, May 13, 2012 17:00

Quoting la_malefique:

Number 8 

No picture whatsoever and then the faint excuse that he can't post one " due to my position /situation/ exposure..." bla bla bla .  Who do these people think they are??? Most of the times it is the ones that have the least to worry about it have the "celebrity/papparazzi syndrome" 

 

Even Bill Gates could pass unrecognized on MM ;-)... How hard is it to put a picture of you, be it on a golf course, be it with a huge fish hanging from your rod ;-) , be it on the  beach in an all-disguising wet suit with goggles... ANYTHING!!! 

Nobody want the whole saga of "I'll email you my profile description and some pics".... What is there to be ashamed of even if you were recognised by your friends as Bill Gates?

Are you naked? Are you telling lies in your description? Are you cheating on someone? Are you online during business hours?;-) 

 

P.S  Bill Gates, you can always just tell people that you happen to look like someone famous..;-) nobody is going to believe it is you anyway 

 



it's not that he is important. it is because his wife is even more important....



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Posted on Sun, May 13, 2012 13:25

Number 8 

 

No picture whatsoever and then the faint excuse that he can't post one " due to my position /situation/ exposure..." bla bla bla .  Who do these people think they are??? Most of the times it is the ones that have the least to worry about it that have the "celebrity/papparazzi syndrome" 

 

 

 

Even Bill Gates could pass unrecognised on MM ;-)... How hard is it to put a picture of you, be it on a golf course, be it with a huge fish hanging from your rod ;-) , be it on the  beach in an all-disguising wet suit with goggles... ANYTHING!!! 

 

Nobody wants the whole saga of "I'll email you my profile description and some pics".... What is there to be ashamed of even if you were recognised by your friends as being Bill Gates?

 

Are you naked? Are you telling lies in your description? Are you cheating on someone? Are you online during business hours?;-) 

 

 

 

P.S  Dear Bill Gates, you can always just tell people that you happen to look like someone famous..;-) nobody is going to believe it is you anyway 

 

 



I have a dog. I run my own finishing school and I take prisoners

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Posted on Sun, May 13, 2012 13:05

I actually love this blog! Men and woman alike I'm sure have run into similar situations. Men mistakenly think its something to brag about when they post pictures of themselves with other women. WHY? Do they not understand that other straight men aren't checking out their pictures to see the other women? And to those of us other available women, it only makes you look like a player.

Or worse, if the other women in your pictures are all half naked, make up caked and silicone...why would we want to fit into THAT mold??

Dallas90210, good for you girl for posting what you want. You're blog is not stupid.

Voyager54- take your own advice. If you don't like something you see...a blog, a picture, a profile, "move on down the line, why wobble" and the advice you should take the most.." So why bother with all the ridicule? It's a waste of time."  Was it really necessary to make the attempt to ridicule or bully? Was it WORTH YOUR TIME to do so? Do you hate women that much that you had to be derogatory?

Disappointing too because I just viewed your profile recently and thought you might be intrigueing.

People seem to forget that there are so many ways on this site to get to know the REAL individual aside from what they want us to know on their profile. There are some very intelligent women on here and those are the ones who will turn you down. The more activity you have on here, the more you open your "mouth" so to speak, the better we get to know you.



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Posted on Sun, May 13, 2012 01:45

Quoting Voyager54:

~dallas~...Your blog is stupid. This topic gets touched upon every half year or so. And I generally tell the person that THEY ARE pissed off at men and or the site in general. Everybody knows that men can be real douche bags from time to time and of course there are scammers on here too, but if you're too ignorant to figure those people out then you really should move on to another form of picking up men...like the 7-11 or the laundromat or wherever it is you girls normally go to....just sayin'.



who is forcing you to read this blog?

 

again, you sound bitter & pissed. no woman in her right mind will find that sexy. good luck to you & know that the department of mental health has free therapists & rx drugs to help you in your time of need

 

your bff in christ,

the d



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Posted on Sat, May 12, 2012 09:25

??? You mean the uncle that used to bounce you on his knee.??? Yah know we can multitask. dont yah???


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Posted on Fri, May 11, 2012 10:53

Quoting Voyager54:

~All~...On this particular blog, all of you seem really pissed off, as if you've been hosed by some dude you haven't even met. Y'all are going about this the wrong way. The scammers are easy to pick out. Pick them out and move on down the line. Why wobble over dopey photos...you're going to blow the guy off anyway. So why bother with all the ridicule? It's a waste of time.


the only one who seems pissed or bitter is you, my dear



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Posted on Thu, May 10, 2012 08:00

Me too..

I had one who was at least 100lbs larger than his photos and was wearing a very bad, very obvious, too black toupe..

I just took a deep breath as he walked towards me and  was polite and friendly through dinner. He had driven a very long way and was a very nice guy. But his photos were deceptive..

It was so bad that people were actually laughing. And when he left to use the restroom, one guy on the table next to us ( all males ) said in a loud voice..  " Those two deserve eachother! "

Reminded me of the time I took my 89 year old Grandfather to the pharmacy to pick up his meds.

"Oh look .. Anna Nicole and her billionaire!"

Made my Grandads day...!!



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Posted on Wed, May 09, 2012 20:15

Quoting FitFunBlonde:

 

Photos of them throughout their childhood and then one fuzzy photo of them as an adult.. Either taken in the eighties or they have a wacked sense of fashion. Big collars and flared pants!!

And the angry profiles.." Don't bother if you're this. Don't bother if you're that.. etc."

All caps is another.

 

 



yeah, the "dont bother ones" i steer clear of.



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