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Posted on Thu, May 03, 2012 09:44

 

I'd love to hear from people who are actually going on dates. No need to get personal or too heavily into specifics.. Don't need to know who you met, just if you're meeting anybody and how it went... 

I'm just wondering how many of us are actually going on dates with people we meet on this site.

In my case I'm finding it a bit like a faulty vending machine! You take your time looking at the selection. Decide what you'd like..... But it's either completely unavailable, starts moving forward but then gets stuck, or it's a bit stale. ( as in not recent photos! )

Is anyone having better luck?

 

 



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Posted on Mon, Oct 07, 2013 10:53

This is what I want and expect. couple eails, some talk time and a meet in the women's town with my own hotel and vehicle. Just takes time which  we all should appreciate and use for the one perfect person.



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Posted on Fri, Jul 27, 2012 17:11

I have met 2 women on the site, and just to confirm there is at least one man here that wants what you do fitfunblonde, i flew from atlanta to san diego to meet one, and to london england to meet the second. I honestly dont understand how most men were brought up, but my mother taught me to always be a gentleman, so separate rooms if we went somewhere to start would be something i would suggest. I am willing to go anywhere in the world to find love, as most men should be, and i am not talking one night, i mean with the prospect of life together. My biggest problem on the site is many assume the age number defines the guy, i dont know any 30 year olds that are as active as i am, in as good a shape or want as active a life. Anyway my suggestion is what i tell myself, only need one real, honest and loyal person here to end the search. Robert



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Posted on Thu, May 10, 2012 18:27

I have to say I am probably a fool to have come back to this site. I joined for a 6 month membership about 5 years ago or so. I came back for the day about a year later and saw all the same people on here still fighting about all the same topics and wondering why no one picked them yet.

A couple more years went by, I slid on for a day to see what the atmosphere was and STILL saw all the same people. Still fighting. Still single. Still wondering when they would get picked.

 

I came back again and saw some of the people had left. I figure they either grew weary of fighting with the same people or they were finally picked.

 

SO I signed up for another membership last month and omg why? 

 

 There are a lot fo beautiful women so if I were gay I could have fun hitting on them all. However I am straight and find the profiles of men on this site to be boring, narcissistic, and full of what they own and lacking in any substance of who they are inside.

 

Sadly my IM stalker boy is probably the most real male I have come across on here.



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Posted on Wed, May 09, 2012 09:28

 

Today's invitation.

I have no idea who this man is BTW!

"Sorry haven't been in touch for a while. Elderly Mother to take care of. Surgery to recover from and a toxic relationship I just got out of. How about I send you a ticket to come visit me in NYC for a weekend"

 



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Posted on Wed, May 09, 2012 07:32

 

Thank uou apex. I think you have a great profile and you're traveling which is awesome. I'm stuck in a small, remote city. There's nobody to date here so I put myself on 4 dating sites!

What I've found is this. Either the men aren't serious about actually meeting at all.. Just long email after email ... Or they want you to travel to their location and knock on their door ( booty call ). Or they want you to meet them in Vegas or some other touristy place.. and there is NEVER a mention of having your own room!!! Booty call..

Complete strangers honestly believe I'm going to drop everything ie: my business and my dogs.. my life.. Jump into my car or on a plane.. Drive to some far away locale.. And straight into bed with them! 

And it gets worse every year.. This is the expectation on these sites ... Which leads me to believe that some women at least are doing it.. jumping into bed with men they've not even spoken to on the phone.

If a man ever exchanges a few emails which leads to a phone call or two and then dinner. I think I'll fall over dead!!

 



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Posted on Wed, May 09, 2012 06:30

FFB-All I can say is that if a woman that looks as fantastic as you (forget the "for your age" nonsense, as you look great for any age) does not go on many dates from this site, I wonder who does? I am not feeling that hopeful now and in fact think I should go and work out right now! lol



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Posted on Sat, May 05, 2012 18:22

I had a first date from this site.  Nice lady.  She may still be running.  If there was a way to put my foot in my mouth, I found it.  Sometimes, if it matters too much, you do your worst.  Oh well. 

 

rmac



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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2012 10:33

 

FitFunBlonde;

I would like to reach 51 years like you (Congratulations)

Of course, this page works (not necessarily to find our twin blade), but to make friends and share with many people!

 

Here you can find everything (liars and false) and also friendly and educated people.

 

It is difficult to find what you are looking for, but not impossible, you have to try, it is better to know that you tried not having ever done anything.

 

"Remember that he who touches it will be opened, who asks is given and he who seeks finds"

 

good luck.-

France.-



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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2012 08:50

I have had a lot of interest, made some great new friends here. I flew to meet one lady in san diego(from atlanta currently) and found her to be amazing. we hit it off really great and timing at least so far wasnt great. but i have the view--it only takes one person to end the search!  So dont give up-today might just be your lucky day!!

 



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Posted on Thu, May 03, 2012 20:26

Fit,

 

I think your post is poignant. In the early days, when I first joined I often wondered the same as I wasn't going on any date on here. My first and only date on here didn't show up and I thought - what an ill-mannered coward! He's still listed here. Anyhow, I soon found out that I wasn't alone - a lot of people are either not going on quality dates or not at all, a few have found people on here but then had had reason to return when it didn't work out. My other liaison on here stopped at daily fantastic-chemistry laden e-mails. Again, dang: it all stopped. My conclusion long ago is the Blogland is lovely and don't cease to make me laugh. I had taken a break some months ago, not back yet, but still occasionally peep in and see what is cooking or who's stirring the pot!

Fit, it is a lovely place to make cyber friends, as for quality dates or even a relationship that may indeed be a stretch, but again, others may have found better luck. But I can't complain at all.

Liv.

 



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Posted on Thu, May 03, 2012 16:15

Forgive them.... they know not what they miss

 

 

Long distance....lol  near and far

 

I went to Thailand for a 1 month "date". We had known each other for a year and were intent on starting a Health tourism business and see if we could "SEE each other. It was an adventure in learning about the culture, but alas A road that detoured

 

England, 09 to early this year. wonderful woman I met here, a  great good one, Gone but not forgoten

 

Dates? I go on relationships...even for the  moment....



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Posted on Thu, May 03, 2012 15:31

Wow. Actual relationships : ) Any long distance or were they all faily local?

I think part of my problem is that men, even older men, cut off their search at around the mid to upper 40's. Not many men out there are looking for a woman over 50.

It would be interesting to hear from women my age and see if that rings true for them too. I do my share of searching and I'll contact men I'm interested in. But I'm really begining to think that I'm not going to make the connection I'm looking for via this avenue..

 



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Posted on Thu, May 03, 2012 14:39

I have had a few memorable relationships from MM...All learning experences.

Good Post Fit...I'll give a hands up

 


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Posted on Thu, May 03, 2012 13:39

 

Way too much time on my hands today!

I forgot, I did have a date from this site last year. Again very nice guy, he drove from CA to AZ which was extremely nice of him. That's more than a 5 hour drive... We had dinner the first evening, then met again the following day and went to the movies..

We weren't a match, so it went no further..

But it does prove that there are men out there who are willing to put in quite a bit of effort....

And I did have dinner with another guy in CA.. but again it was just the one date..

So that's 4 dates in the last couple of years.

Anyone else?

 

 

 



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Posted on Thu, May 03, 2012 09:51

 

Or even just a show of hands. Have you been on a date/dates?

Me: Yes two dates, a couple of years ago!

One extremely nice man. He went out of his way and we had two dates. But we weren't a match, so no third date.

And one very nice man, but I just couldn't figure him out. The date was a little uncomfortable. He was a gentleman, but there was no chemistry and no second date.

Nothing since then! There's been some interest, but it never gets further than a few exchanged emails....

 

 

 



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