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Posted on Tue, Oct 18, 2011 08:47

I have read these sayings on many of your profiles.  I must say..  no man can complete you and no man can make you happy.  If you are not happy with yourself no man can change that.  What a relationship needs are two people sharing their happiness with who they are and making that grow into a deeper contentment with other parts of your lives.  I went thru a relationship trying to make someone happy.  It didn’t work.  Every time I accomplished the latest thing that would make her happy, another problem arose to keep her from being happy.  It all stemmed from her not being happy with herself and not being able to accept what others did for her because she felt unworthy.  You need to step back and find out what is the source of your unhappiness because frankly at some point you maybe alone for the rest of your life and it would be terrible if you went thru life unhappy.

 

As for “complete me”..   You need to be a complete person when you come into the relationship.  Then the two of you may grow what’s between the two of you..   complete that relationship (although I believe that our relationships are ever evolving).  I would prefer you speak to “creating our world of two”.  The place where you have taken your completed self and started building the intimacy of a relationship.. and as I stated above, you maybe alone along time not to feel "completed".

 

Relationships are people who are happy with themselves..   know their faults..   and find someone who sees all of you and wants to be with you anyway to build something lasting.. let me repost a poem that I think adds a little to this.

 

. True love’s eyes

 

I saw myself thru your eyes today

And saw how much you loved me

 

I saw that you knew all of my faults

And still thought the world of me

I saw that you knew where my wounds were

And that you would never touch them

I saw that you knew what I feared most

And knew you would always protect me

I saw that you knew what I wanted most

And you were always going to help me

 

I saw that you saw that I loved you back

Even more since I saw

    ​        ​        ​      how much you loved me



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Posted on Sun, Mar 18, 2012 19:13

if only more people would think like you .....


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Posted on Sun, Oct 30, 2011 23:46

I agree with what you said and might add that we should accept people for who they are and never get into a relationship thinking the person will change. You need to love the person the way they are. We can all change small things like putting the cap on the toothpaste, but biggger things will not change. I like your post and how you think. I am happy with what I have accomplished and find it sad that many people think a new car/watch/house will make them happier. All I need to make me happy is to look out and see my horse grazing in the sunlight. I don't need anything fancy. We all have everything we need, especially in this country.

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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2011 19:26

Quoting alic176:

You are ablely. Wrote a lot. I like all these.


Thank you Vivian...   thats very sweet of you to say.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2011 11:49

You are ablely. Wrote a lot. I like all these.


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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2011 11:48

It is great ! I like to read all. you are very ablely.


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