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Posted on Sat, Sep 17, 2011 07:16

smax.   you need to date women closer to you..   you need to get out and date some of these women you have been chatting with..  after a long summer of work I decided to test the waters... here are some of my experiences (none of these were sexual encounters..   all were very respectful and above board first dates that Mom could be told about)

sooo lets see   in the past 4 weeks    4 dates    the one that got engaged a day after we met...   the one who has a 12 year old daughter who texted her mom thru the whole date and doesnt want her to have a second date because she doesnt want a man in her mother's life...   the one who thinks she could fall for me but is moving to florida and doesnt know why she accepted a date from me but really wanted to meet and now she doesnt want to meet again because she will get emotionally involved but she cant have a long distance relationship because they suck...   and the one who is a very sweet person that looks like an average woman in her photos but who is soo tiny and couldnt sit still for one second thru the whole date to the point it was making me nervous and I realized how she stayed so small...

sooo   I survived..   I was able to drive to meet all of them...   each one of them said over and over again how i was much more handsome in person...  and that we had a great date...

the one that got engaged said she was holding off getting engaged until we met..   then realized it was going to take too long for us to build a relationship...  so she accepted the other guys outstanding offer..  I am still trying to get a second date from the one with the daughter but its been 2 weeks and she still hasnt been able to get away to have a date even tho we chat or we talk every day.. the one moving to florida is making arrangements and we chat often..  and the one that is soo sweet will stay a friend also..

 

Now I am not perfect   I have many faults.. which my ex and my siblings will gladly point out to you.. I have my issues and the women I met would tell you the other side of this and I would accept what they say..  I'm just saying..   it ain't easy...   but   you do need to date to find out about that other person..  get out from behind the screen and date   I did meet 4 great people and enjoyed their company.



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Posted on Sat, Sep 24, 2011 09:42

VOYAGER... When you write on a blog.. you need to ADDRESS the person you are speaking to please.... LOL I never know if you are referring to me... or someone else... LOL My little blonde brainn had to ask someone else if they thought your comment wa sin reference to me!! LOLOL I was confused!! And that takes very little these days!! Sometimes I gotta say.... I never know what side of the field you are throwing the ball from!! BUT YOU'RE A REAL HOOT! LOLOL


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Posted on Fri, Sep 23, 2011 08:24

I AGREE W/ SARAH WHOLE HEARTEDLY ON THIS MATTER!! DOOR #1. ENGAGED? How much did you speak to her to know she was in a serious relationship already? I don't recommend "prying" when you are speaking over phone.. but COME ON... the fact she had an obviously permanent steady lover in her life should have come up at some point! Perhaps you don't ask the proper questions? Asking a woman if she is seeing anyone steady IS an appropriate question gentlemen!! Or perhaps she just misrepresented herself the entire time? In which case you should have gotten mad for oh.. at least 5 minutes for LYING to you... GENTLEMEN.. Women who date you while considering engagement to another are not ready to commit to anyone.. but perhaps should BE committed for being so wishy washy... Relationships aren't that difficult for the most part.. Either a woman wants to spend the rest of her life with a particular man or she doesn't.... She knows the answer... WHAT A FLAKE! DOOR #2 TEXTING TEEN? A mother who is "into" a man is not going to allow a child to step in for no valid reason... A woman who is "into" a man would have told her BFF.. "Look I am going out with a man and Little Suzie is going to call you if she needs anything.. I have told her I am leaving my phone in car while we eat and not to bother me." TRUST ME MEN.. If a woman wants to spend "alone time" getting to know you.. kids are not getting in the way once the time has finally arrived.. Hell.. Most women will have ppl text them purposely as an "escape!" LOL (You guys didn't know that?..... REALLY??) And if the mom can't be a real mom and make it known WHO THE PERSON IN CHARGE IS... Well SMAX.. You may have dodged one very painful bullet!! AHhhh.. DOOR #3 Miss FRUIT LOOP.. LOL Sounds like some big lame excuse to me... or the woman is really a borderline idiot dating men while she is leaving state?? SMAX.. I can honestly tell you dear.. YOU ARE NOT FINDING OUT ENOUGH ABOUT THESE WOMEN BEFORE YOU TAKE THEM OUT... OR YOU ARE CHOOSING VERY POORLY WOMEN WHO MISREPRESENT THEMSELVES WHICH EITHER OF THESE MEANS YOU NEED TO REASSESS WHO AND WHY YOU CHOOSE WHO YOU CHOOSE... DOOR #4 Miss JITTERS... She may have just been nervous, etc.. Not enough info to go on... But obviously you were not into her, but nice to have a date and as you said .. GET OUT THERE... Now SMAX... Even with Miss Jitters.. You can tell a hyper person when speaking on phone to them.. I am a little high strung myself and speak rather rapidly at times... It takes no time for a man to "get this" about me BEFORE we meet... Now I am not like this woman was jumpy all through dinner.. but if she did not display her jitteriness through phone conversations .. you may have made her nervous?? If I really like a man... I go one extreme or the other.. I either speak a hundred miles an hour... or am so shy and quiet they don't recognize me... LOL PROUD of you for getting out there... But I stand by my thought..I don't think you are asking the right questions before you plan a date... I'd forget ALLL of them.. even the ones you think are friendly.. WHAT'S THE POINT? The time utilized in them is time you could spend searching for the one right for you... GOOD FOR YOU FOR GETTING ON THAT HORSE AGAIN AND AGAIN!! Now just get to know the horses a bit better before you take them out to see if they are corn flakes or fruit loops! Bwahahahaha!!


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Posted on Wed, Sep 21, 2011 03:53

I need to apologise Smax....this story is soo funny... I cannot believe so many women are so indecisive...

It would help if people recognised the energy they send out to the universe is the energy they will receive in return and time is not predjudice.

Thank goodness that woman getting engaged decided to go through with it...can you imagine the relationship...hmmm... my view, great amount of energy and valuable time of life has been saved...the angels of love were looking out for you, honey.

Love your blogs

xxxxx



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Posted on Mon, Sep 19, 2011 19:43

I had a hit today. A mere wink. When I checked it out--he had already been removed for being a scammer!!! C'est la vie. I'll be off Wed. nite to our local "hangout" for happy hour. Friends who have been trying to get me there for over a year have finally succeeded. But, I can tell you right now what I'll find there. Drunks, drunks, and more drunks. No, I'm not as cynical as that statement would indicate. I simply know who and "what" hangs out at our local "hangout." Guess you'd have to live in the boonies like I do to understand what I'm talking about. Most nights it's more fun to go out in the dark and wait for the wild critters to attack the local dumpster and watch the activity there than it is to go out to a bar/restaurant and watch the activity there.... Heck...I'm off to walk my dog for her final run of the night. Maybe we'll see some raccoons trying to lift the lids on our dumpster. Short of watching the state police finally catch a drunk driver on my street, that would be the most exciting thing I've seen in many a moon. Unless you count watching the grass grow--or the paint dry on the side of the neighbor's house. LMAO


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Posted on Mon, Sep 19, 2011 09:42

Ha ha ha SMax! You're the best! Thanks! @Sarah, awww - you're so sweet! SMax, btw, I agree with Sarah's observation about these 4 women. JMHO. Liv.


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2011 18:29

Quoting GoddessLove2000:

Congrats,SMAX!  The only man on this site who's not from Nigeria AND he's dating real women!  They are real, right?  LOL.  Good for you.  Now, go find 4 more!

Everytime someone winks at me, I just wait a day or two and find him on the scammer blog!

 

Such is life!  Yay, you!  Keep it up!

 

 



Oh Goddess    tell you I did not?   I am traveling in Ghana wear i an haleping my sict mother who runs an orphanage their for AIDS babys.. Dead is my fathter and I am her soul help and she is ill now..   without ensrance and did i tell you I love you?



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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2011 18:17

Congrats,SMAX!  The only man on this site who's not from Nigeria AND he's dating real women!  They are real, right?  LOL.  Good for you.  Now, go find 4 more!

Everytime someone winks at me, I just wait a day or two and find him on the scammer blog!

 

Such is life!  Yay, you!  Keep it up!

 

 



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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2011 12:01

Wow so many complex people. I'd just move on from these women and continue to date. Then eventually the right woman will appear. None of these women you mention sound like they are ready to enter a relationship. They need to sort themselves out first. Sarah :-)


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2011 10:02

Curious2078     now its your turn to get out there!   Go for it!



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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2011 10:00

Quoting Livnlov:

Way to go SMax - 4 dates in 4 weeks - you Rock! What may surprise you is I have never been on a date since joining this site! Not for want of trying initially, but what's a girl to do. If I was not a very emotionally healthy and stunning looking woman, my self-esteem would have suffered a serious knock back by now; but I actually just think about the fact that I have never been on a date from this site and I just laugh. I just enjoy the blogs and I have made some really wonderful friends here like Hoping and CG. Hey go for it SMax and I wish you the very best with your search!


livnlov....   you are all you say you are...   and more..  those silly British men need to get off their butts and take you out!



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Posted on Sat, Sep 17, 2011 20:13

Smax, congratulations on giving it the "Ole College Try." You've done really well, my friend. Especially since your description makes it sound as though you've a whirlwind of a month. Reading it feels a bit like what it must feel like to go on one of those--what do they call that go-round where you greet and meet a new woman every 5 minutes and either you make a connection or you don't? Musical chairs with benefits or something? I'm glad you enjoyed yourself, Smax, and I hope you keep it up. Not just for your own sake, sir, but for ours as well. Your tale is most entertaining and I'd like to read more of your adventures. Therefore, you must have more adventures as charming as the ones you've outlined here. Good luck, Smax. Keep smiling for sure.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 17, 2011 14:41

Way to go SMax - 4 dates in 4 weeks - you Rock! What may surprise you is I have never been on a date since joining this site! Not for want of trying initially, but what's a girl to do. If I was not a very emotionally healthy and stunning looking woman, my self-esteem would have suffered a serious knock back by now; but I actually just think about the fact that I have never been on a date from this site and I just laugh. I just enjoy the blogs and I have made some really wonderful friends here like Hoping and CG. Hey go for it SMax and I wish you the very best with your search!


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