Bloggers , I have allways felt that any kind of enhancement to ones person can only be a good thing. Its a self esteem issue I feel. After all whats the harm. From the most innocent fake bake to the full blown real deal we all want to look our best ....no? If having your hair coloured, nails done , whatever makes the sun shine brighter in your world makes it good for you, then why the hell not? How far do we take it though, and in doing so does it make us a Narcissus? or part of the Narcissus syndrome. Is it acceptable to go on a diet but not to have a nose job? Does a boob job and a face lift make us stupid and shallow or is it ok to do both to enhance and ergo 'improve' on what we have? Or would some say ruin what we have. Was Michael Jackson's enhancement acceptable or not. Some may have agreed he had gone too far , beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that. However does it have anything to do with the rest of us as long as he was happy I suppose it depends on who does the work and whether the clients expectations were fullfilled. Whether the practicioner is good at what he or she does also plays a part. Im sure there have been many whos higher ambitions for themselves have been thwarted because their vision exceeded the skills of the practicioner. Lord knows Hollywood has turned out more than a few disasters . However in the main I say... go for it. Im all for the artificial woman. I celebrate her and him! Hell I havent been a natural for over 30 years!!! I cant remember what its like to not colour my hair. Does mouse seem sexy to you? NOOOOO it doesnt , so I change it in the same way many women and men also change theirs If it came to the crunch , would I have a face lift , hell YES and anything else I could get my hands on! I had a client come to see me the other day who was 100% artificial. A living work of art. She had had it ALL done. She had been lifted, sculpted ,plumped , liposucted Dyed filed and very probably rodgered as well. She looked amazing , and as she stood there in the most amazing evening gown telling me about was her latest piece of work involving her body , I couldnt help but admire her. Some would no doubt say it was vanity gone mad, but you know what ....I dont think so. She has created the dream she had of herself and I say thats great and why not. Before you all strt screaming and telling me you all want to be natural beauties and want to grow old gracefully [BARF], what about the men. Is it ok ?... or not. Would we women be happy to accept a partner who , lets say for arguments sake, had a facelift? or a stomach reduction, Do you think it reflects on his masculinity? or does that man have the right to be the best he can be in his own eyes? and in turn be able to attract a quality mate because of it Over to you bloggers , over to you
Bloggers , I have allways felt that any kind of enhancement to ones person can only be a good thing. Its a self esteem issue I feel. After all whats the harm. From the most innocent fake bake to the full blown real deal we all want to look our best ....no? If having your hair coloured, nails done , whatever makes the sun shine brighter in your world makes it good for you, then why the hell not?
How far do we take it though, and in doing so does it make us a Narcissus? or part of the Narcissus syndrome. Is it acceptable to go on a diet but not to have a nose job? Does a boob job and a face lift make us stupid and shallow or is it ok to do both to enhance and ergo 'improve' on what we have? Or would some say ruin what we have. Was Michael Jackson's enhancement acceptable or not. Some may have agreed he had gone too far , beauty being in the eye of the beholder and all that. However does it have anything to do with the rest of us as long as he was happy
I suppose it depends on who does the work and whether the clients expectations were fullfilled. Whether the practicioner is good at what he or she does also plays a part. Im sure there have been many whos higher ambitions for themselves have been thwarted because their vision exceeded the skills of the practicioner. Lord knows Hollywood has turned out more than a few disasters . However in the main I say...
go for it.
Im all for the artificial woman. I celebrate her and him! Hell I havent been a natural for over 30 years!!! I cant remember what its like to not colour my hair. Does mouse seem sexy to you? NOOOOO it doesnt , so I change it in the same way many women and men also change theirs If it came to the crunch , would I have a face lift , hell YES and anything else I could get my hands on!
I had a client come to see me the other day who was 100% artificial. A living work of art. She had had it ALL done. She had been lifted, sculpted ,plumped , liposucted Dyed filed and very probably rodgered as well. She looked amazing , and as she stood there in the most amazing evening gown telling me about was her latest piece of work involving her body , I couldnt help but admire her.
Some would no doubt say it was vanity gone mad, but you know what ....I dont think so. She has created the dream she had of herself and I say thats great and why not.
Before you all strt screaming and telling me you all want to be natural beauties and want to grow old gracefully [BARF], what about the men. Is it ok ?... or not. Would we women be happy to accept a partner who , lets say for arguments sake, had a facelift? or a stomach reduction, Do you think it reflects on his masculinity? or does that man have the right to be the best he can be in his own eyes? and in turn be able to attract a quality mate because of it
Over to you bloggers , over to you
Hi Hon. Hows Blighty these days, Hot as Hell here. I thought you'd been 'Touched up' a few times LOL Bit like getting 'Knocked up' or 'Topped up' One could go on , but musn't . Have a great summer Rob
Hi Hon. Hows Blighty these days, Hot as Hell here. I thought you'd been 'Touched up' a few times LOL Bit like getting 'Knocked up' or 'Topped up' One could go on , but musn't . Have a great summer
Rob
Agree with Sarah. Also, I believe that every woman is beautiful, depending how she carries herself, her sense of style, how she takes care of herself. Also, I don;t think childbirth ruins your body if you take very good care of it before giving birth: I mean, exercise.
Quoting MissMonteCarlo:
LOL as in children. My friend has told me all about what happens after being a mum. So I might depending if it is an issue for me. Thing is with surgey, I'd always worry about scarring. I wouldn't want to ruin myself in the sake of vanity. Then there is also the risk you could die during the opp or pick up an infection and become dangerously ill or generally it could all go wrong. Thats why I think cosmetics should be a last resort than a hobbie some people pick up.
Sarah :-)
Quoting MissMonteCarlo:
LOL as in children. My friend has told me all about what happens after being a mum. So I might depending if it is an issue for me. Thing is with surgey, I'd always worry about scarring. I wouldn't want to ruin myself in the sake of vanity. Then there is also the risk you could die during the opp or pick up an infection and become dangerously ill or generally it could all go wrong. Thats why I think cosmetics should be a last resort than a hobbie some people pick up.
Sarah :-)
Agree with Sarah. Also, I believe that every woman is beautiful, depending how she carries herself, her sense of style, how she takes care of herself. Also, I don;t think childbirth ruins your body if you take very good care of it before giving birth: I mean, exercise.
Tink, my dear, I'd never fall over them. If they get so low that falling over them is a danger, I'll just walk backwards. LOLOL
So--what about it? TINK'S TUCK & TATTOO PARLOR [OR PARLOUR]???
Get it going, girlfriend. I'll start with a teensy, tiny shamrock on my left shoulder. But it's got to be finely detailed like a Titian or a Botticelli. No Biker-style, broad-sweep lines for me. I want classy, romantic stuff only.
Quoting Tinkerbelle:
i love that Pat ... Tinks Tuck and Tattoo Parlour. Ok what shall we have done?? A winged bird across the chest maybe? Do any of the bloggers sport tatoos I wonder. Are any brave enough to fess up to it? Pat your boobies are your own and if they please you then fine lol but remember if they droop too low when you are old and grey , you may just fall over them
Quoting Tinkerbelle:
i love that Pat ... Tinks Tuck and Tattoo Parlour. Ok what shall we have done?? A winged bird across the chest maybe? Do any of the bloggers sport tatoos I wonder. Are any brave enough to fess up to it? Pat your boobies are your own and if they please you then fine lol but remember if they droop too low when you are old and grey , you may just fall over them
Tink, my dear, I'd never fall over them. If they get so low that falling over them is a danger, I'll just walk backwards. LOLOL
So--what about it? TINK'S TUCK & TATTOO PARLOR [OR PARLOUR]???
Get it going, girlfriend. I'll start with a teensy, tiny shamrock on my left shoulder. But it's got to be finely detailed like a Titian or a Botticelli. No Biker-style, broad-sweep lines for me. I want classy, romantic stuff only.
I'd do anything, if I felt like it, and most things within reason if my significant other preferred it. I have worn a beard since age 18 (oh !! were they ragged and scraggly in those college days!!), but would shave it if the love of my life preferred me clean shaven. It's only hair, after all. I'd draw the line at shaving other parts of my body, though.:):) I'd never color my hair for ME, but would do it in an instant for the woman I loved. I'd do a liposuction to remove some belly. I'd do a tune up on my face. (Again, all these things would be for her preference, because I don't care.) I'd even get a tattoo. I'd draw the line at piercings other than an earring. I even told a woman(and her husband, a friend) one time if anything happened to him she could take me to the plastic surgeon and just tell him what she wanted her next husband to look like.:):)
In short, I think anything you want to do to your own body is fine. You shouldn't do it because of poor self esteem issues or anything like that. You should only do it if you like who you are, but realize you'll still be you when it's finished, too. If you wanted to give a companion the gift of a different appearance on a part of yourself, so what? I'd prefer a woman ask me before she did anything drastic, and I'd prefer she ask what size I like, too, but if I love her I should be happy for whatever changes she wishes.
I didn't always look like George Clooney, you know. :):)
-CG-
Tink,
I'd do anything, if I felt like it, and most things within reason if my significant other preferred it. I have worn a beard since age 18 (oh !! were they ragged and scraggly in those college days!!), but would shave it if the love of my life preferred me clean shaven. It's only hair, after all. I'd draw the line at shaving other parts of my body, though.:):) I'd never color my hair for ME, but would do it in an instant for the woman I loved. I'd do a liposuction to remove some belly. I'd do a tune up on my face. (Again, all these things would be for her preference, because I don't care.) I'd even get a tattoo. I'd draw the line at piercings other than an earring. I even told a woman(and her husband, a friend) one time if anything happened to him she could take me to the plastic surgeon and just tell him what she wanted her next husband to look like.:):)
In short, I think anything you want to do to your own body is fine. You shouldn't do it because of poor self esteem issues or anything like that. You should only do it if you like who you are, but realize you'll still be you when it's finished, too. If you wanted to give a companion the gift of a different appearance on a part of yourself, so what? I'd prefer a woman ask me before she did anything drastic, and I'd prefer she ask what size I like, too, but if I love her I should be happy for whatever changes she wishes.
I didn't always look like George Clooney, you know. :):)
Conyers so nice to hear from you....its all in the mind isnt it, I mean if you can get past the fact that you are undergoing a general anaesthetic lol how the HELL do you spell that...... and all that it entails then so be it but do you think that the pursuit of perceived beauty is ok? Does this obsession with looks and the perceived body beautiful make us shallow beyond belief or are we striving to be the best we can be? Questions questions.... What would you have done Conyers eh?
Conyers so nice to hear from you....its all in the mind isnt it, I mean if you can get past the fact that you are undergoing a general anaesthetic lol how the HELL do you spell that...... and all that it entails then so be it but do you think that the pursuit of perceived beauty is ok? Does this obsession with looks and the perceived body beautiful make us shallow beyond belief or are we striving to be the best we can be? Questions questions....
What would you have done Conyers eh?
Sarah, I wish you girls WOULD stsrt a boob blog, with pictures, of course. (insert lecherous grin here.) :)
Tink, I see nothing wrong with it. I personally wouldn't care what anyone thought as long as I, and my partner if there was one, preferred the work done to not done. Nearly all of us make changes to our bodies t appear more attractive to others. I cannot imagine what made it seem like a good idea to be the first person to scrape a razor blade across one's face, but it is the accepted norm now, of course. So i figure after that ridiculous decision, the other actions are merely chapters in the same book.
Live and let live. (But I've certainly observed that there are more people who want you to live near (or on :):) ) them if you look better, according to the beauty standards our society has set.
-CG-
Tink,
It's good to see you !!!!!!! :):)
Sarah, I wish you girls WOULD stsrt a boob blog, with pictures, of course. (insert lecherous grin here.) :)
Tink, I see nothing wrong with it. I personally wouldn't care what anyone thought as long as I, and my partner if there was one, preferred the work done to not done. Nearly all of us make changes to our bodies t appear more attractive to others. I cannot imagine what made it seem like a good idea to be the first person to scrape a razor blade across one's face, but it is the accepted norm now, of course. So i figure after that ridiculous decision, the other actions are merely chapters in the same book.
Live and let live. (But I've certainly observed that there are more people who want you to live near (or on :):) ) them if you look better, according to the beauty standards our society has set.
Thanks for sharing curious. Thats a good attitude to have. To love our boobs. hehe Women should talk about boobs more I think. We should have a boob blog. Can you imagine? Every man on mm would be reading it. hehe
Sarah :-)
Thanks for sharing curious. Thats a good attitude to have. To love our boobs. hehe Women should talk about boobs more I think. We should have a boob blog. Can you imagine? Every man on mm would be reading it. hehe
i love that Pat ... Tinks Tuck and Tattoo Parlour. Ok what shall we have done?? A winged bird across the chest maybe? Do any of the bloggers sport tatoos I wonder. Are any brave enough to fess up to it? Pat your boobies are your own and if they please you then fine lol but remember if they droop too low when you are old and grey , you may just fall over them
i love that Pat ... Tinks Tuck and Tattoo Parlour.
Ok what shall we have done??
A winged bird across the chest maybe? Do any of the bloggers sport tatoos I wonder. Are any brave enough to fess up to it?
Pat your boobies are your own and if they please you then fine lol but remember if they droop too low when you are old and grey , you may just fall over them
Others can do what they want. Me, no one, no how, no where, never absolutely would I allow to touch my boobs with a scalpel ever ever ever, short of cancer problems. They aren't much, though they've become a good deal "mucher" as I get older. And even though they now sag a bit--one is even noticeably lower than the other--I love 'em just as they are. A surgeon could raise them them back up to my 35-year-old-self postion--but, even if I had the money for that--if it were mere pin money to me, no way. These boobs have served me well. They've been loved well, stroked, kissed, hugged, adored well. Even if they wind up falling down to my waist, I'll still love them just as they are.
So, when Tink opens her Cyberspace Nip & Tuck shop, nobody better drug me and haul me into the OR for surgery, or I'll kill 'em.
I love my droopy boobs just the way they are. Anyone else doesn't--to hell with them. Period.
Quick note regarding boob jobs:
Others can do what they want. Me, no one, no how, no where, never absolutely would I allow to touch my boobs with a scalpel ever ever ever, short of cancer problems. They aren't much, though they've become a good deal "mucher" as I get older. And even though they now sag a bit--one is even noticeably lower than the other--I love 'em just as they are. A surgeon could raise them them back up to my 35-year-old-self postion--but, even if I had the money for that--if it were mere pin money to me, no way. These boobs have served me well. They've been loved well, stroked, kissed, hugged, adored well. Even if they wind up falling down to my waist, I'll still love them just as they are.
So, when Tink opens her Cyberspace Nip & Tuck shop, nobody better drug me and haul me into the OR for surgery, or I'll kill 'em.
I love my droopy boobs just the way they are. Anyone else doesn't--to hell with them. Period.
Self-improvement comes in many forms. Plastic surgery is just one form. Regarding plastic surgery, I say fine, whatever you want, just as long as you don't wind up looking like Joan Rivers, who has made herself into something that looks like the human equivalent of one of Stone Henge's building blocks. Or the likes of Kenny Rogers who's surgery went so wrong he looks like someone else entirely other than himself.
The Michael Jackson thing? As for that issue, I think we need a whole new blog--one most of us would probably not want to bother going to. I do think there was something very sadly, pathetically about that boy's needs. Jokes about it, even of the mildest variety, seem awfully cruel, all things considered.
Quoting Tinkerbelle:
well yes Miss Monte but for many the issue of self it the prime raison d'etre. What say you then.... Think on this also I run 2 companies and i lead a busy and interesting life but yet i'm still allways looking to improve the way I look.I like that , it makes me feel good. We CAN focus on ourselves and still have a life ....no? Do you think self improvement is shallow?
Quoting Tinkerbelle:
well yes Miss Monte but for many the issue of self it the prime raison d'etre. What say you then.... Think on this also I run 2 companies and i lead a busy and interesting life but yet i'm still allways looking to improve the way I look.I like that , it makes me feel good. We CAN focus on ourselves and still have a life ....no? Do you think self improvement is shallow?
Self-improvement comes in many forms. Plastic surgery is just one form. Regarding plastic surgery, I say fine, whatever you want, just as long as you don't wind up looking like Joan Rivers, who has made herself into something that looks like the human equivalent of one of Stone Henge's building blocks. Or the likes of Kenny Rogers who's surgery went so wrong he looks like someone else entirely other than himself.
The Michael Jackson thing? As for that issue, I think we need a whole new blog--one most of us would probably not want to bother going to. I do think there was something very sadly, pathetically about that boy's needs. Jokes about it, even of the mildest variety, seem awfully cruel, all things considered.
Good Lord, that sounds like a good idea. Who wants what done? Nobody would actually have to go under the knife. It's all cyberspace fantasy. I think you should open the clinic immediately. And since it's cyberspace, I have a few more things I'd like done.
Oh, and by the way, where are you with that sucker thingy? I hope you didn't show up when the front door was locked and get so mad about my not being here that you just flew back to England without so much as a by your leave.
If that's what happened, I shall send you an official cyberspace plane ticket [you know how they work--LOL] and if you'll give me a definitive ETA [okay, that's an oxymoron, but you know what I mean] I will definitely be waiting for the sucker to go to work on me.
ROFLMAO for sure.
TINK'S TUCK & TATTOO PARLOR. How's that for a title? [Even though I suspect you don't like tattoos.]
Quoting Tinkerbelle:
Helloooo Moll. You want a new waist? OK im coming over with a sucker thingy to suck it all out! Get ready.. Perhaps instead of opening a new bar and grill on here we should open Doctor Carvers nip and tuck clinic.... go to work on the boys and see if we can make something half decent ! ROFLMAO
Quoting Tinkerbelle:
Helloooo Moll. You want a new waist? OK im coming over with a sucker thingy to suck it all out! Get ready.. Perhaps instead of opening a new bar and grill on here we should open Doctor Carvers nip and tuck clinic.... go to work on the boys and see if we can make something half decent ! ROFLMAO
Good Lord, that sounds like a good idea. Who wants what done? Nobody would actually have to go under the knife. It's all cyberspace fantasy. I think you should open the clinic immediately. And since it's cyberspace, I have a few more things I'd like done.
Oh, and by the way, where are you with that sucker thingy? I hope you didn't show up when the front door was locked and get so mad about my not being here that you just flew back to England without so much as a by your leave.
If that's what happened, I shall send you an official cyberspace plane ticket [you know how they work--LOL] and if you'll give me a definitive ETA [okay, that's an oxymoron, but you know what I mean] I will definitely be waiting for the sucker to go to work on me.
ROFLMAO for sure.
TINK'S TUCK & TATTOO PARLOR. How's that for a title? [Even though I suspect you don't like tattoos.]