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Posted on Mon, Dec 13, 2010 03:43

Timberoo founded a "Cigar Lounge" and while I admit I enjoy a good cigar now and then, it is a bit of a boys club. So Migs suggested a girl club, and Timber thoughtfully answered with a "beauty salon", imagining that it would endorse our bonding. But (and maybe I'm wrong)...those moments, hair in foils or dripping with deep conditioning - those are between us and our stylist. When I want to be with my girls, it's a night out, a few drinks, post-stylist, in my sweetest tall boots. Here we can converse, one on one, or just whoop it up with our chick-y comrades. To get us in the mood, here's a photo of my last girls night out, a month ago, with me, left front. This is when we discuss men, kids, careers, travel plans, shoes, break-ups, hook-ups, and the persistent male domineering of TV controllers. This is where we let our hair down, or put it up - whatever we feel makes us most shiny. We wear more makeup - or less, depending on how we feel tonight, with none to impress, save the women that already impress us! To further begin our lounge experience, I will confess that, by the end of the evening pictured, I was deeply melted into the comforting arms of my dear friend A, next to me in white pants and black top, while best friends Y and H, both far right, stroked my hair and feet. IMHO, this is how we women are different, no?

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Posted on Fri, Dec 17, 2010 19:04

Gentilezza,

Grazie te per la tua sapienza.  I always learn so much from you.  Just hope the "Sorellanza / Sisterhood" is a little more forgiving than "La Cosa Nostra / Our Thing".  LCN sometimes shuts down those who reveal too much "insider" info.  Of course, sisters tend to be very forgiving and virtuous so I'm sure there's nothing to worry about.

If you ever do need a safe place to hide, I know you are welcome at THE LOUNGE.  If need be I will hide you in the steam room at Miggsy's.  You're a special lady Gentile, and La Famiglia wants to keep you around.  Tu sei brava Gentilezza.  Baci e abracci bell'amica.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 17, 2010 18:37

Quoting Timberoo:

We need luvin' too...



Now there's a picture that's worth a thousand words.


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Posted on Fri, Dec 17, 2010 18:36

Quoting Timberoo:

OK...I'll go back into my "cave" you girls just don't want me....



Oh, you silly boy. You must never announce your return to your cave if you're going to be a proper Neanderthal. [LMAO] You must just choose which girls hair to grab, grab it, and drag. And never, never admit you're not wanted. The potential dragees will believe you and assume something's wrong with you. UGG, UGG, UGG.


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Posted on Thu, Dec 16, 2010 18:11

Quoting Timberoo:

Ewe ewe eweeee...please Gently, please...let me know when the next "Girl's night out" is...I can't wait to be with my fellow ladies!!!  I luv "Ladies night", it's free BEER! LOL!  What dress should I wear???? Huuuum....I'll ask my friends, the "BUD Girls"...



OMG. As if I didn't have enough Neanderthals in my life. ROFLMAO


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Posted on Thu, Dec 16, 2010 17:37

Quoting Timberoo:

Ewe ewe eweeee...please Gently, please...let me know when the next "Girl's night out" is...I can't wait to be with my fellow ladies!!!  I luv "Ladies night", it's free BEER! LOL!  What dress should I wear???? Huuuum....I'll ask my friends, the "BUD Girls"...



Tim,

 

Do I notice a touch of sarcasm here?



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Posted on Thu, Dec 16, 2010 17:22

Quoting migliore:

Starry,

Thanks for straightening me out.  I do see that now -- for women the first priority is finding a guy for a friend although on occasion they'll do something for themselves. That about covers all the bases and still maintains unselfishness and virtue.  Whereas men will tend to do things out of sheer desire and because they want to.  Women show a much higher degree of self-control sensitivity for others.  They're the better half of the human race for sure, no question about it.  I'll drink to that.  If not a martini, at least a Bud for the simpler, more rough-hewn male types.

You're good, Starry.  I missed that one ;)



Thank you Starry for clearing up the confusion,lol. :)


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Posted on Thu, Dec 16, 2010 00:37

@ SweetMystarry and Migs: I think the boys need their feet stroked. Of course, women give good foot, generally speaking. I can imagine it, I think we could subsidize our drinks that way! @ Angelforyou: Martini's for AZ, Curious and me, por favor! We need to loosen up this joint...nobody's been kissed yet. @ Billz and NGL: I love that you guys want to hang with us. As we set up our friends, you will of course, be among the first we wink at. @ Migsy: sorry, my faithful friend...but again, you are sweetly mistaken. There is nothing selfless about setting up my friends with the boys. It conquers oh so many things at once - a divide and conquer technique. You see, I don't set my girls up with the HOTTEST guy - he's the one left out of this shenanigan. Here's the gist: when my girls are all paired up, and since I picked off all his buddies to hook them up with, eventually, I begin to look lost all by my poor little lonesome, everyone's having fun but me and him, until finally, at last, and with zero risk on my part, he is compelled to hang out with me. The true masterpiece? I didn't have to try at all, and he thinks it was HIS idea! See? I empowered him already :) He gets to be a manly man AND I look like a saint to ALL the boys and girls! Oh, you have just begun to enjoy a REAL girl's night out...this technique is tried and true. @ Timbers: please, for old time's sake, wear that toga. Perhaps, if you sport it right, it will ultimately double as back seat protection. ..........OMG, yes, I just said that. Let the dancing commence!


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Posted on Wed, Dec 15, 2010 20:21

Quoting SweetMystarry:

Careful, Migs, when noting details it is important to note all of them. Angel did say "matching them up with our single friends" but then continued on with "or for ourselves". Of course we are looking! Angel, I'll take one of those martinis.


Starry,

Thanks for straightening me out.  I do see that now -- for women the first priority is finding a guy for a friend although on occasion they'll do something for themselves. That about covers all the bases and still maintains unselfishness and virtue.  Whereas men will tend to do things out of sheer desire and because they want to.  Women show a much higher degree of self-control sensitivity for others.  They're the better half of the human race for sure, no question about it.  I'll drink to that.  If not a martini, at least a Bud for the simpler, more rough-hewn male types.

You're good, Starry.  I missed that one ;)



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Posted on Wed, Dec 15, 2010 17:31

Its time to unwind...its "Martini Hour" :) One for everyone in the house...its on me! SweetMystarry....here is one for you and kudos on the picture of the awesome red shoes.

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Posted on Wed, Dec 15, 2010 09:30

Quoting migliore:

Wow!

 

Ladies checking out guys in their immediate surroundings?  I'm learning alot here as I had been led to believe that "wandering eyes" were a guy problem -- women are too virtuous...Oh, no, I see now -- when ladies' eyes wander they're just looking to make a match for a friend.  That reassures me and my faith in women is restored.  Women are angels.  Got it.



Careful, Migs, when noting details it is important to note all of them. Angel did say "matching them up with our single friends" but then continued on with "or for ourselves". Of course we are looking! Angel, I'll take one of those martinis.

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Posted on Wed, Dec 15, 2010 04:20

Quoting angelforu:

This is a great idea! Love the "Girls Night Out" lounge. Many of us ladys can agree that a girls night out is a select group of lady friends, a great pair of shoes, and a perfect martini. Gentlemen, we do talk about everything from the kids, our men, and everything in between. Even checking out the men hanging out in our surroundings...matching them up with our single friends or for ourselves,lol. Cheers Ladys :)

Wow!

 

Ladies checking out guys in their immediate surroundings?  I'm learning alot here as I had been led to believe that "wandering eyes" were a guy problem -- women are too virtuous...Oh, no, I see now -- when ladies' eyes wander they're just looking to make a match for a friend.  That reassures me and my faith in women is restored.  Women are angels.  Got it.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2010 18:37

Ciao Gentilezza,

 

Your insights are as always both welcome and uplifting.  To be honest, we have trouble understanding why women would be so fascinated with men.   We just figured the ladies had many things to talk about and enjoy on a girl night out without having to resort to allusions to the more rough hewn gender.

 

Many men have rather aromatically challenged feet, so doubtful you would ever see us massaging each others' unless for nefarious reasons.  Perhaps we might join in with women in massaging each other, however, that's only because we're wholesome, fun-loving and often a little shy.

 

Gently, far be it from me to think that you would share all secrets womanly on your first visit.  And we know well that given the aura of mysterysurrounding women, it could take lifetimes to know all the deep inner workings of your souls.  However, I am honored, that you dropped by Miggsys.  

 

All hope to do is make good on Timberoo's investment to get it set up, and better myself by furthering my understanding of the lovliest creations under the stars...women.  Well, gotta go now to say hello to Mrs. Cleaver and help her son, Walter, mow their lawn.

 

Ci sentiamo car'amica,

 

Migs



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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2010 17:37

This is a great idea! Love the "Girls Night Out" lounge. Many of us ladys can agree that a girls night out is a select group of lady friends, a great pair of shoes, and a perfect martini. Gentlemen, we do talk about everything from the kids, our men, and everything in between. Even checking out the men hanging out in our surroundings...matching them up with our single friends or for ourselves,lol. Cheers Ladys :)

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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2010 11:15

NOT THIS: LOL...


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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2010 11:13

Don't you guys know how to merchandise anything??? These women are much too classy for a beauty shoppe. What's needed is a very upscale, full service spa...

 

THIS:


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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2010 10:33

Quoting GentlyWoman:

Oh, Migs...men are OFTEN the very reason for a girls night out! Either to get away from one or to find another to get close to, men are never far from the topic of conversation. This is why I invite you and all men to this Girls Night Out as well. We should surely have a few bits of surprises. For example, did you know that a beautiful woman will almost always find you instantly likable if you compliment or pay attention to her less attractive friends? But ONLY if you don't make it obvious that you now know this!


Absolutely agree, Eva. I love Girls Night Out. It's a basic female need.


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Posted on Tue, Dec 14, 2010 09:25

I sure would like to attend that night !   ;)



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Posted on Mon, Dec 13, 2010 22:31

Oh, Migs...men are OFTEN the very reason for a girls night out! Either to get away from one or to find another to get close to, men are never far from the topic of conversation. This is why I invite you and all men to this Girls Night Out as well. We should surely have a few bits of surprises. For example, did you know that a beautiful woman will almost always find you instantly likable if you compliment or pay attention to her less attractive friends? But ONLY if you don't make it obvious that you now know this!


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Posted on Mon, Dec 13, 2010 20:55

If my memory serves me....and trust me it has been a long.........long time since I've been on a real night out with the girls......men were on our minds!  We liked to see how many we could get to hang around all night long, on the off chance that one of us would pay more than a little bit of attention to them.....or perhaps take them home......LMAO! 

 

I don't suppose that would work now......

 

I agree that a beauty salon is not where I would discuss the topics you mention Eva because I'm usually not that friendly with my stylist.  Besides he's my cousin and would just tease me to no end if I did....LOL!

 

 



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