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Posted on Tue, Nov 16, 2010 22:36

I don't think I'm half bad-looking. I am pretty cultured and highly educated. I posted "harmless" pictures and a few sexy ones, too. I even blog from time to time, but very few men will reach out to me. Whats a girl to do? I recently renewed my membership, after letting it lapse for a spell and within two weeks, I've received over 150 views, but on 3 men actually stated an interest. I've reached out to gents, but for some reason, I am not getting actual emails. I know I may not be desirable to everybody (okay for real, I'm lying) but c'mon, can a sistah get some action? An email or 3 or 4? What can I do? Any ideas?


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Posted on Sun, Dec 26, 2010 09:29

Great insights! If those 'blind men' don't contact you back...maybe they don't deserve the best out of the bunch! The right one will notice U one day. Keep hope alive and happy holiday.


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Posted on Fri, Nov 26, 2010 12:03

Quoting sistercounselor:

Moldy!!!! Women MUST be blind to pass you up! You are WONDERFUL! I really like the pic you attached. How creative! Missed you, Moldy. Been on vacation. I hope all is well there and that you are having a Happy Thanksgiving!

*Kissing you all over your face!* Muah!



Hope you had a good enjoyable vacation. Yes all is well and spent the Giving Thanks with Dad

......all over my face???.....say that lower please....lol



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Posted on Fri, Nov 26, 2010 00:35

Quoting DONTFITMOLD:

Aww Swirl we both seem to be in the same boat



Moldy!!!! Women MUST be blind to pass you up! You are WONDERFUL! I really like the pic you attached. How creative! Missed you, Moldy. Been on vacation. I hope all is well there and that you are having a Happy Thanksgiving!

*Kissing you all over your face!* Muah!



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Posted on Fri, Nov 26, 2010 00:33

Quoting billzeke:

A large majority of the people that are on here are not paying members. They can wink but they cannot email. They also cannot see who has viewed their profile. If someone piques your curiosity or interest just send them a quick email and see how they respond. There are no guarantees but at least you are attempting to open up a line of communication outside of the canned stuff that MM allows non paying members to send. Good luck. You will need it. LOL...



Lol! You are so right! I can use all the luck you are sending me. Shooot, its getting cold and I would love to have someone special. Hee Hee. I shall heed your advise. I wonder why many people on MM are non-paying members? Seems like you get a greater chance of meeting somone if you are paying, but then again, I can understand if the price does not fit people's economy. Shows you how much a want a mate...I made it a monthly "bill." Lol

Thank you so much, Love.

Muah!



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Posted on Fri, Nov 26, 2010 00:30

Quoting zzzoraya:

... Each day brings its own eagerness .... just when you're not "looking" for someone ... that "someone" will appear .... but: The world is full of blind men!


Thank you, Sis*Star! How encouraging! I hope one of these "blind" men stumbles onto me. ;)

Happy Holidays! And the Best of Luck to you! Its getting cold outside, we sure could use a Boo!

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Posted on Fri, Nov 26, 2010 00:28

Quoting Timberoo:

Hey Sistah!  Haha... I've sent out over 1800 e-mails, got viewed by 400+, and only have one that has interest!  ONE but to me she's the one, so don't give up hope!!!!!  Keep posting interesting blogs, go on chat, let them know how much fun blogging is, you get much more attention being on chat, and continue to work at it...you know the ol' saying, "Nothing worthwhile is obtained easily!"  Just keep going, the other day i had 4 "attack me" out of no where...you only need one, right...be patient and keep workin' it sistah!  XO....

 

P.S. it's not you it's the "system"

By going on chat and makin comments, people can view you behind the scenes...many just read the chat and don't partake(lurkers) but on there you can scroll down those profiles of people signed in, once they see you personality and beauty they'll "HIT" on you...

 



Whoa! You put in farrrrr more work than I! Thank you for the tips and encouragement. I'm Rotflol @ 4 "attacking" you. Ahahahaha! I pray that the "one" of interest that you have so far is your dream come true. Smooches!



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Posted on Fri, Nov 26, 2010 00:26

You all are the  GREATEST!!! Thank you so much for the encouragement. You all are soooo inspiring! Now ,I KNOW I can make it! People keep saying it will happen when I don't expect it. I hope so! By the way, I'm so sorry for the late response. Been out of town for the holidays. I can't wait to see what everyone has been blogging about. Happy Holidays! Muuuuuah! Smooches and ((Hugs))

 

 



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Posted on Thu, Nov 18, 2010 13:02

... Each day brings its own eagerness .... just when you're not "looking" for someone ... that "someone" will appear .... but: The world is full of blind men!


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Posted on Wed, Nov 17, 2010 07:43

A large majority of the people that are on here are not paying members. They can wink but they cannot email. They also cannot see who has viewed their profile. If someone piques your curiosity or interest just send them a quick email and see how they respond. There are no guarantees but at least you are attempting to open up a line of communication outside of the canned stuff that MM allows non paying members to send. Good luck. You will need it. LOL...



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Posted on Wed, Nov 17, 2010 05:21

Aww Swirl we both seem to be in the same boat


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