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Posted on Sun, Nov 14, 2010 17:29

Let's say you find a Prime Mate that you have attraction to on many levels....but in the moments of physical connections something is yet to be discovered...Are these "talents" a natural gift or is it learning / teaching opportunity for open minded partners?


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Posted on Sun, Mar 18, 2012 05:53

Quoting Diana3316:

So! We've talked about politics and we've talked about religion....it's only natural that we get around to sex! This should be fun! *wink* To answer your question, I think it is a combination of both, basic raw talent and learning. Speaking from a woman's perspective, there are some men so clumsy that no matter how much you communicate, you can't teach it. However, having said that, I do think it is possible for a man to learn great skills if he desires to learn. Men that truly like women are typically very interested in sex….and will want to have great sex. They will read books, talk to friends (especially women friends) and watch how the men on soap operas kiss! *wink* lolol I don't know much about the male point of view...but from a female perspective...it is the man that sort of sets the agenda. If he serves it up right, I think generally….. women like it ALL!! Hmmm...I could be wrong...and some men may tell me so. I guess I'm just speaking from a personal point of view. :))


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There are women who are clueless too ...believe me ....lol


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Posted on Sun, Mar 18, 2012 05:48

Quoting Hoping4Love2000:

I'm sorry Don.. I still don't understand... ??? LIMITS?? As in what?? Are you talking.. Well if 2 people click they will agree to multiple partners if they have no limits.. For me.. ANY man who can't hold my attention ON HIS OWN.. is out the door.. Any man who feels I am not enough.. is out the door... Does this mean I am a prude? Perhaps to FREAKS!! LOLOL... What about REAL FREAKS into severe bondage or animals?? Because I say HELL NO!! Does that mean I am setting limits?? So seriously.. You are being FARR too vague here... LIMITS? I have none as far as the right partner FOR ME would be concerned... because we will be totally in sync... If it barks, bites or talks... IT AIN'T IN THE ROOM WITH US!! Call me BORING.. but that's my LIMITS!! LOL


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Intimacy to me is a paradise on earth. A making two into one, made for two to learn each others inner being ,and connect with what we like and what turns us on. Being in sync with the rythums of responces. The holding,touching, kisses shall have no zones unexplored.....Tantra????

I have been know to bark, bite and talk and expect that my mate to express her pleasures too...


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Posted on Sat, Mar 17, 2012 16:09

Hangdrums an experiment in utube posting

 

http://youtu.be/wqHb_xXX7Ps

 

 


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Posted on Sat, Mar 17, 2012 13:40

I have to say you have good sense of humor.

and actually it is a true.



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Posted on Sat, Mar 17, 2012 09:33

I'm sorry Don.. I still don't understand... ??? LIMITS?? As in what?? Are you talking.. Well if 2 people click they will agree to multiple partners if they have no limits.. For me.. ANY man who can't hold my attention ON HIS OWN.. is out the door.. Any man who feels I am not enough.. is out the door... Does this mean I am a prude? Perhaps to FREAKS!! LOLOL... What about REAL FREAKS into severe bondage or animals?? Because I say HELL NO!! Does that mean I am setting limits?? So seriously.. You are being FARR too vague here... LIMITS? I have none as far as the right partner FOR ME would be concerned... because we will be totally in sync... If it barks, bites or talks... IT AIN'T IN THE ROOM WITH US!! Call me BORING.. but that's my LIMITS!! LOL


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Posted on Sat, Mar 17, 2012 08:51

So! We've talked about politics and we've talked about religion....it's only natural that we get around to sex! This should be fun! *wink* To answer your question, I think it is a combination of both, basic raw talent and learning. Speaking from a woman's perspective, there are some men so clumsy that no matter how much you communicate, you can't teach it. However, having said that, I do think it is possible for a man to learn great skills if he desires to learn. Men that truly like women are typically very interested in sex….and will want to have great sex. They will read books, talk to friends (especially women friends) and watch how the men on soap operas kiss! *wink* lolol I don't know much about the male point of view...but from a female perspective...it is the man that sort of sets the agenda. If he serves it up right, I think generally….. women like it ALL!! Hmmm...I could be wrong...and some men may tell me so. I guess I'm just speaking from a personal point of view. :))


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Posted on Sat, Mar 17, 2012 06:04

Quoting Hoping4Love2000:

I'm with CURIOUS on this one!! WHAT ARE YOU ASKING EXACTLY??? If two people "click" ... it's HOT.. and only gets HOTTER... BUT.. if you are asking if you click intellectually, emotionally, even attracted physically....... but there are NO SPARKS??? N-E-X-T!!!! Either two people "have it" physically... or they don't.. And when they do... Their boundaries and desires are typically pretty much "in sync.." That's why they have it... ;) (OR.. as CG said.. The man just "accepts" her limits.. cause he really digs her----- and the things she won't do.. aren't enough for him to leave... LOL)


I cant imagine clicking intellectually, emotionally, and physically and not have "Sparks".

 

Limits we bring into a relationship result from our past experiences..."willing to try new things" a statement used by so many, suggest expanding those limits. No need for things he or she wont do..grin

 

 



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Posted on Fri, Mar 16, 2012 21:36

I'm with CURIOUS on this one!! WHAT ARE YOU ASKING EXACTLY??? If two people "click" ... it's HOT.. and only gets HOTTER... BUT.. if you are asking if you click intellectually, emotionally, even attracted physically....... but there are NO SPARKS??? N-E-X-T!!!! Either two people "have it" physically... or they don't.. And when they do... Their boundaries and desires are typically pretty much "in sync.." That's why they have it... ;) (OR.. as CG said.. The man just "accepts" her limits.. cause he really digs her----- and the things she won't do.. aren't enough for him to leave... LOL)


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Posted on Fri, Mar 16, 2012 21:17

Mmmm.....yesss....you always hear that men are visual creatures. Well....women are too!! Luv the pics Don! :)


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Posted on Fri, Mar 16, 2012 04:04

Quoting Chaaarm:

Definitely combination of both! Plus mutual desire to play and to be open minded...


An open mind offers an unlimited opportunity to the doors of the imagination and accesses to unimagined seas of bliss


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Posted on Thu, Mar 15, 2012 23:28

Definitely combination of both! Plus mutual desire to play and to be open minded...


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Posted on Sat, Nov 20, 2010 22:19

campfire... donchagree it's in the attentive cooking...keep basting


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Posted on Fri, Nov 19, 2010 14:43

It may be a learning/teaching opportunity, but it is possible that it is just not the One. Prime means choice, but choice is not always the juciest cut.


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Posted on Mon, Nov 15, 2010 18:38

goes to show ...communication is the link doncha tink. The will does have it's way if it desires so



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Posted on Mon, Nov 15, 2010 11:41

Always A Ss willing to try something. Once


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Posted on Mon, Nov 15, 2010 04:24

Would discuss that with your intimate partner



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Posted on Sun, Nov 14, 2010 23:19

Learning/teaching opportunity for sure! "Where there's a will..."


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Posted on Sun, Nov 14, 2010 20:39

"Hard" to say, Don. Your post is illusive. Can't figure out what the heck you're talking about, friend.


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