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Posted on Wed, Jul 05, 2006 01:48

1. Men, in general, have not lost their ability to be romantic but are either a)too lazy to be romantic or b) more often than not, are not inspired enough by the woman they are with. However, there are exceptions to the general population of men that actually enjoy being romantic and a gentleman regardless. 2. Men aren't as dumb as some women may wish to immediately excuse their issues with. Relationships are a two way road and sadly, a lot of women do a lot of "he doesn't do this for me" or "he never does that for me." Perhaps your man didn't do those things for you because he didn't feel you deserved it. Instead of blaming him, perhaps discovering what you could have improved on first is the better route to take. Then again, this is the age where finger-pointing is quite popular. Oops, I spilled some McD's coffee on my crotch, I'll be right back after I sue them. 3. Most men actually like cuddling and doing romantic things. If you're with someone who doesn't, they are the rare exception . . . not the other way around. What's that? That's every man you've dated? You have poor taste in men, then. 4. Almost all men are just as--if not more--self-conscious as women about their looks and about how accepted they are. They just go about dealing with it in their own way which will never be as you would handle it. 5. Those macho players you keep running into at the bar and wonder why "all men" are jerks? . . . perhaps it's the type of environment you're meeting men in instead of those few members of our gender representing us as a whole. The man you should be with and want to be with won't be found at the end of the bar or on the dance floor. 6. More often, men are concerned about their partner's feelings and pleasing them than most would say or like to think. It's a shame that on the flip side, most men are considered selfish when it's actually quite the opposite. 7. Nearly every man will compliment a women on their beauty and looks first when they are interested in getting to know you before saying something on a deeper level. This is a scientific fact. But getting a compliment no matter how it's phrased does not mean he's being a pig and wants to get laid. 8. Deep down, nearly every man wants you to be with him sexually because you truly like or love him and want to express that. As much as we are stereotyped to be more apt to have sex because of physical desires, we actually do have emotion ones that only some men choose to ignore; but they are the vast minority. 9. When a man compliments you about something you would tend to disagree with within yourself . . . actually thank him and believe him. Who else are you trying to please? Stop saying you're the if he's telling you you're not! When you do this, you slowly push him away for not believing him . . . and it doesn't matter what you meant, that's what he hears. 10. Putting on a J-Lo dress and a ton of make-up actually doesn't hide your insecurity to a man . . . it only encourages the vast minority of men that are pigs to think you're an easy target. Though there may be times where dolling up is appropriate, most honest men want to see you for you . . . not your assets.


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Posted on Thu, Jul 06, 2006 22:42

Haha . . . yeah, I had a bit of fun posting this =) Thanks ebreeze ;) I am actually looking into moving into that area . . . closer to Rockford if I can . . . beats the cost of living in Los Angeles!!! 2 bedroom condos for $650 a month?!?! Good luck getting that in LA below $2000!! And yes, the 10 list is serious but added humor to lessen the blow to the overly serious bloggers ;)


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Posted on Thu, Jul 06, 2006 20:51

Kudos to you CMG!!! Humor interjected appropiately - very well said! I agree wholeheartedly. It's unfortunate, however, that many women will not. J


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