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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 19:38

Quoting billzeke

Lisa. There is no such thing as NORMAL. There never was. People should do what they feel comfortable doing and not do what makes them feel uncomfortable so long as they respect the rights of others. Simple stuff...



I know Bill.....Whatever normal is?????? 



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 19:36

Quoting Lisaprendergast

I am new at this cyber dating thing. It really freaks me out ... the cyber sex thing. 

 

Is it inappropriate? I have absolutely no clue. All I know is that is no way i want to be involved with a guy who thinks he can test the waters with a direct sexual ... typed attack.

Call me old fashion, behind the times... probably not much of the later.. perhaps a bucnch more of the other.

 

I do not get how a guy can start taking seriuos pillow talk with someone he has never shared a coke with. Thank-you... but no thank-you.

 

It really does feel awkward and filmy..(Is tat a word? should be..:-0

So, manners and the old getting to know a person before you start sharing playboy fantasies certainly seems like that behavior is the kind of normal behavior expected from a quality flame.

best

Lisa



How about a Pepsi?....lol....G



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 18:24

Hey Britt,

A woman who was amply endowed had photos that showed exactly how endowed she was.  I winked her about how great her smile was.  We emailed and chatted for a couple weeks then went to yahoo.  We never dated (our politics were way too far apart) but we stayed friends.  I never said one word about her breasts in any of our chats.  One day she told me she had purposely put the seductive photos up to screen out the jerks.  Her thought was that if a man could chat with her for a few weeks and not mention her breasts, not ask for more photos, and not make crude comments he would be a gentleman.  She wanted a gentleman and knew the jerks would eventually break down and say something. 

 

 



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 17:53

Quoting billzeke

Hi Britt. Would you please email me a list of the worst offenders. lol...


Bill,

 

I am so sorry to report this to you, but all of the offenders appear to live further than your preference of your own street.  I keep telling you, you need to expand your geographical preference--LOL!

 

Britt

 

MM Counselor



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 16:57

Hi Brit, I am not A girl rather A Woman so I hope it's o.k to post my thoughts:-)?Like my profile/pictures,I can be rather expressive.  How could I not comment on this subject:-)??Have you ever noticed how two people can look at say, A painting, and both will see something different? They are using there "senses".This is the same with profiles and pictures.Each person is different as are there perceptions and will see(view) or focus on an aspect of a profile/picture rather than the whole picture.Profiles/pictures are two dimensional, people are not!As such you can not use "all" your senses when evaluating A profile.  I am A sensual woman , that is but part of who I am. "senses" and "sens"uality do you see the connection.?I have  tested in all areas and scored  90+ .There are many layers and uses  to this.It's not just sexual or seductive.Being able to take in the sheer beauty of nature . life,health are but a few other aspects.Have you ever really touched someone? to there soul?I have. I prefer to be more open-minded and intutive where profiles and pictures go,unless the person behind the profile gives me A reason not to.I seek to know the person behind the profile.Now some may say use "commom sense" and cover up in our pictures or expect to get sexual inuendo.We all know  pervs do this to women covered or not !!.It's A fact and has been stated here on the blogs.As A psychology major , A person who loves the study of interpersonal relationships and people, I have been researching and "profiling " for a few years. The man  you got this comment from,do you personally know him to be A genuine man???You can "look" at this comment in different ways.Who is to say this man posted this comment so he can "Justify Himself" making sexual inuendos to girls??I  Am proud to be A feminine and lovely woman:-)My essense is a woman". And I do know my value-Priceless! .My pictures are A mixture of different looks or facets as I am multifacted.Out of the "several pictures" I post A few are sexy/seductive,because yes I am that too.I have no interest nor desire in "Judgemental" or jaded men.This will not change my "food for thought"..Respectfully, the_rose



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 16:57

Lisa. There is no such thing as NORMAL. There never was. People should do what they feel comfortable doing and not do what makes them feel uncomfortable so long as they respect the rights of others. Simple stuff...



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 16:01

Hi Britt. Would you please email me a list of the worst offenders. lol...



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