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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 12:06

As I was reading my book of Buddism, I came across a topic that I thought might be interesting for all of us here on the site. I see alot of questions or comments regarding what it takes to find your Match how long will it take, why can't I find my Partner etc.. so I thought I would write this blog to see what you all think.

 

Its called the Ultimate Law of Existence. All that is needed on our part is a "Total Invitation" not holding back even a small part of our being. If we are available, open and ready to receive the host, the host comes. It has never been otherwise. Truth cannot be conquered but it can be invited. One has to be a host for the ultimate guest. Thats what I call "Meditation" it makes you empty of all rubbish, it empties you completely so you become spacious, receptive, sensitive, vulnerable, available and all these qualities make you passionately inviting, an invitation for the unknown, unnamable, an invitation for that which will make your life a fulfillment, without which life is just an exercise in utter futility. But one cannot do any more than that, just offer an invitation and wait. This is what I call Prayer, an invitation and waiting in "Deep Trust" that it is going to happen !



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Posted on Wed, May 12, 2010 05:07

I call it faith in Life, in Destiny, that everything that happens has a purpose to learn, to change, or to evoluate for our next Life.

So why would it cost to be ready, ready to Love, ready to be hurted, ready to give, ready to anything... Just do it !

Do you walk in the street with a smile on your face ? Do you sing when you want even if it is in public, are you Happy ? I do believe that smiling, laughing even when time are hard, is a great free therapy, and happiness is contagious, smiles in the street and count how many persons will smile at you back or even say Hello without knowing them.

This is who I am, simple, open, and Happy to live my Life. You would not believe how Happy you are until you see the bad part of the "world". Mainly here we are all lucky, believe me !

Just live your Dream thru your Life, or do your best !

x Nat x



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Posted on Wed, Apr 28, 2010 11:41

Quoting CDinCO

I only hope I am the "she!" ;)


oh you big flirt you !   ;)



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Posted on Sun, Apr 25, 2010 18:27

Quoting niceguylooking

Courtney,,, as usual,, you are right !  ;)



I only hope I am the "she!" ;)


Courtney :)

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Posted on Sun, Apr 25, 2010 18:19

Quoting shazbot82

yes ,actually, it did. I now have several men lined up for dates this next week.

 

but YOU remain elusive, Ray-Ray. lol

 

 i dare you to come play with me......lol. like thats ever going to happen.

 

I liked Ame Bellas  take as well. Im a baby buddist, for now.



Shaz,, you woman of burning love,, see the men are beating the door down to go out with you,,, just be patient Grasshopper !  ;)



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Posted on Sun, Apr 25, 2010 18:17

Conguy,,"Go ugly early."   that is to funny   LOL



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Posted on Sun, Apr 25, 2010 18:14

Quoting CDinCO

That's my theory... except I think NGL wants a she, not a he :)


Courtney,,, as usual,, you are right !  ;)



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Posted on Thu, Apr 22, 2010 21:18

Quoting niceguylooking

Shaz,, thats one way to put it !  LOL

 

Has it worked yet ?


yes ,actually, it did. I now have several men lined up for dates this next week.

 

but YOU remain elusive, Ray-Ray. lol

 

 i dare you to come play with me......lol. like thats ever going to happen.

 

I liked Ame Bellas  take as well. Im a baby buddist, for now.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 22, 2010 13:46

Quoting shazbot82

"empty a drawer, he WILL come "!



That's my theory... except I think NGL wants a she, not a he :)


Courtney :)

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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 19:14

Quoting The_Rose

I beleive in love and it is inevitable between the right people.To find love you have to allow yourself to receive love.Open up your heart,mind,body,soul!To be strong is to be vulnerable with the right person.It starts with great chemistry (a dash of fate) and flows from there.It will happen to you NGL,nature follows a mysterious course and can not be forced.Someone once told me I was fearless yet afraid?I had to look within myself,reflect,meditate,and change .So, while I have never read this particular topic, I think I can  relate to part of this??



Ah Rose,,, the romantic in you is starting to come out, I agree with you.

 

I still say the hardest thing for people to do is to let themselves be vulnerable to another even if the chemistry seems to be there ?



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 19:10

Quoting justjess7

Deeprak Chopra i believe is a good author that explains this. Wisdom of Love or something like that. Just about the most intriguing book I read that talks about this sort of thing.


Jess,,Welcome to the blogs also,, very nice to see a couple of new faces and shared opinions, keep it up,, Please !  :)

I've read a couple of his books and they are definately interesting,, if you wouldn't mind can you confirm the title of the book you mentioned ?

 

Thanks again for sharing



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 19:07

Quoting Hockeygirl2010

I believe that is also called faith. We exude our mentality, even if we don't mean too. If we decide we are ready to have faith in our friendships, then yes, I believe we wash away relative truths gathered through pain and accept the absolutes. It's what drives the distinction between happiness and true joy.


Hockey,, welcome to the blogs !

 

Riding ourselves of passand present pain is the key,, I think anyhow.

 

Thanks for sharing



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 19:04

Quoting Ame_Bella

Hi NGL, I've read quite a few books on Buddism and, everyone of them has made me more knowledgeable about how open and compassionate Eastern cultures are. This is where East meets West. While the theories are factual, it is very difficult to adapt if you're not quite ready or if your belief system is somewhat different. I found this part interesting from the Dalai Lama's 'An Open Heart': For the West the Dalai says, I think that anger and hatred actually cause more harm to us than to the person responsible for the problem. He tells us, in essence, to give up being victims to our anger and hate. The Dalai Lama also has a strong message for the East. He provides a new interpretation of The Third Nobel Truth of Buddhism - Suffering ceases when attachment to desire ceases. So, as you can see NGL -- we as individuals have total control over our minds and, can do, believe, feel, experience what we want to, when we are truly ready for it. Thanks for sharing!

Ame,, you always impress me with your wisdom !

 

 

 

and you read some dam fine books. I agree totally with your words



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 19:02

Quoting shazbot82

"empty a drawer, he WILL come "!



Shaz,, thats one way to put it !  LOL

 

Has it worked yet ?



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 19:02

Quoting thenewman

NGL.  This is my typical Friday evening.  I go to a bar, don't hold anything back, invite anyone who will listen to me to come back to my place or any place, and pray for a positve answer...Damn I must be a Buddhist....I am open, available and ready....lol...G



G,, your are an enlightened soul !



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 19:01

Quoting Ekaterina35

Thank you, Theo! Just thought i'd offer my two cents :)

 

NGL,

Sorry, if it's not what you expected.



EK, no need to apologize we are all entitled to our opinions.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 17:22

Quoting Theo592000

EK.....you are a riot....I loved this....lol



Thank you, Theo! Just thought i'd offer my two cents :)

 

NGL,

Sorry, if it's not what you expected.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 21, 2010 00:28

"empty a drawer, he WILL come "!



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 20:16

Quoting Ekaterina35

And if you do that, and it happens, you lose your sleep and appetite, ability to think and comprehend clearly, you check your mailbox every 15  minutes, and your phone every hour (even though you carry it with you constantly).  You brush your teeth with body lotion, and apply tooth paste all over your face. Your dog feels sorry for you and cautiously watches you from afar. Even your best friend who just got dumped feels sorry for you. Your boss thinks that you are an idiot,  but can you really blame him? ....:)



EK.....you are a riot....I loved this....lol



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Posted on Tue, Apr 20, 2010 20:04

I beleive in love and it is inevitable between the right people.To find love you have to allow yourself to receive love.Open up your heart,mind,body,soul!To be strong is to be vulnerable with the right person.It starts with great chemistry (a dash of fate) and flows from there.It will happen to you NGL,nature follows a mysterious course and can not be forced.Someone once told me I was fearless yet afraid?I had to look within myself,reflect,meditate,and change .So, while I have never read this particular topic, I think I can  relate to part of this??



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