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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 20:22

Pat you brought tears to my eyes! That is the sweetest thing in the world to have said to/about a person. People are sick of my political stuff on a dating site. So I've tried to come up with other things for discussion. At least I don't have black women wanting to kick my ass about what I say about the president! *LOLOL*
Thank you for taking time to read my blog and responding.



Government's first duty is to protect the people, not run their lives. President Ronald Reagan

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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 18:55

Quoting Dekan09:

Men love sexy arm pieces. That seems to be a reflection on some of you and your sexual abilities/appetites. The younger the woman the hotter you are in bed? Or is it the younger the woman the more money you have? *L* Whatever!!!What if you really connected and had tons of stuff in common with a woman online, on this site, who turned out to be like me....pleasing plump. (You'd have to read a previous blog)  Would you have the balls to take her/me out in public to meet your "millionaire" friends?

Some might say I have a self esteem problem because I'm dwelling on this "pleasing plump" thing. Trust me, I don't. There are lots of women out here who are successful...women who carry themselves well...have great careers and yet, because they don't meet the criteria of what society or magazines deem sexy or desirable, they don't fit in. 

What are your thoughts?



Conyers notwithstanding...you've blogged on this issue twice now.  Your being pleasingly plump.  I wanted to respond to the first one, but I was just too damn busy.

 

Dekan, coming from a woman of years [64 close to 65] a totally straight woman---you are one hot chick!!!!  We straight women know a hot chick when we see one....and we know a hot chick who is a hot chick we can relate to and not be jealous of.  [did I spell that correctly....who cares?] 

 

Sweetie, I don't know the answers to all your questions, but I know this.  You gotta stop worrying about being pleasingly plump.  You know you don't want to even BOTHER with a man who is looking for the skinny arm candy you talk about.  None of us older ladies want to bother with those jerks.  If someone, some guy, connects with you, it will be because of your great smile and what you've said in your profile.  Sooner or later it will happen.  Maybe not on this site; maybe on another.  Who knows.  

 

But, for God's sake---know you are one sexy, warm lady--obviously.  And just hang in there.  I've been here only 3 or 4 months [forget how long now....having a ball on blogs] and I'm now corresponding with a very nice--seeemingly nice, we'll shall see] fellow who doesn't give a s**t that I've got a few extra pounds on me.  He's just "in love" with the personality I've projected in my profile.

 

It--the big IT--may not happen here on MM.  But, it will happen.  You have a wonderful attitude....and you are a CONSERVATIVE!!!!!!  Lord, Almighty, girlfriend.  There has to be a million men out there just waiting to meet you.  They just might be too shy to contact you!!!!  Men often are much more shy than we think all of them are because of that testosterone thing....  They make big noise when they exit their "caves," .... they make big noise directed at the universe  [how cool am I??!!!  All you ladies should WANT me instantly....], but, really, most of them are very, very shy about approaching any one of us with more than a wink. 

 

Hang in there, sweetie.  Keep a positive attitude.  It--love--is gonna happen for you sooner or later I'm sure.  Were I a man, I'd be down your throat with emails pleading for a meeting---and a good roll in the hay.  You come on so warm and friendly and genuine--as long as the guy "reading you" has a love for political conservatism.  And I know you wouldn't trade your political belief for love for sure....  You put yourself out there for all the world to see....so it just might take a little longer for the men/man who can connect with you to find you.  Women who put only a little bit, leaving beliefs, ideals, serious wants and needs unsaid--they get more responses than we do.  Obviously.  they also get a lot more trouble to deal with than you or I do.  Hang in there, kiddo....  You are far too lucious and warm and sweet and wonderful for at least one of your soul mates out here in the blog-es-phere to ignore you for too long.... 

 

Here's to Ronald Reagan, sweetie---and to your future love life.  I'm sure it will be grand....

 

Pat

 

Keep on keeping on Dekan.     



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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 10:52

lots of other countries VALUE and WANT their females to be down right FAT. Its seen as a sign of fertility and wealth. The USA is twisted up and the images we are fed by the media are unrealistic and unhealthy. Very few people are naturally bone thin like the Hollywood set. And they probably are not NATURALLY thin either. ok sure, one has to make allowances for being healthy and active and all that. I AM overwieght by american standards...and I dont care at all. What I care about is being comfortable in my own skin..so I exercise and eat well and those things for myself. I am not thrilled to have a tummy, but im not going to make myself crazy over it, either. I cant see myself with any person who values me at size 8 but dumps me at size 12 ??? Shallowness isnt a trait I want in a mate or friend. LOTS OF MEN like FAT women. One only has to look around to see how many men are MARRIED to fat women. My ex, for instance. HIs 2nd wife is easily 300 pounds. Frankly, he chose her because no one else would try to " steal his wife again" ( his words) Whatever,,we all have our own individual love maps of what we want/need/will accept. One man ( or woman) may not like or want to be with anything but the physically perfect mate. For status, for sex,,whatever the reason is. Dont waste your time or enegry on trying to change someone else's preferences. Spend that energy on locating a person WORTHY of your own unique gifts.


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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 09:36

webmastertests Who is this? It says I have two comments from them but I can't find it.



Government's first duty is to protect the people, not run their lives. President Ronald Reagan

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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 09:19

I know that. And when I'm out and about I see young girls who are hefty already and I think...oh my what are you going to look like after you have a couple babies????? Women get down right ugly sometimes! *L* There is one woman on here a little brunette whose body is so skinny that her head looks to big for her to carry it around. Skinny is as unattractive as fat to me. An MSG that I used to work with, who is now deployed, when she left I hugged her and holy crap she was a bag of bones. The uniform doesn't let one know what the person is like unless it is tight. Bones or boobies? *L* just kidding!



Government's first duty is to protect the people, not run their lives. President Ronald Reagan

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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 08:50

Yep pretty much! *LOL*



Government's first duty is to protect the people, not run their lives. President Ronald Reagan

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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 08:19

Quoting niceguylooking:

My thoughts, I think you already know the answers to your questions, You know how men are ! you just want us to admit that we are shallow, narrow mined, cavemen who only think with our P**is !  LOL



In a sense, I agree with that NGL!!! On the otherhand, if you get to know somebody on this site/blog and are attracted enough to meet, even if simply as a friend or possibly the encounter of a lifetime, then you meet and NOTHING... 1. If you were thinking with your P**is, wouldn't you try to bag the woman anyhow??? 2. What is it about the woman that during your encounter changes from a fun/lighthearted online relationship to NADA? 3. If you were thinking with "it," why would you invest time and effort into it as opposed to simply asking to meet her? But wait, aren't the "pleasantly plump" known to be rockstars in bed? So if "it's" leading you, you should be all over the woman!!! LOL


Courtney :)

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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 06:15

I don't think you are.....pleasing plump.... Dekan. You are a lovely....PLEASINGLY PLUMP...LOL. HAPPY NEW YEAR....



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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 05:39

My thoughts, I think you already know the answers to your questions, You know how men are ! you just want us to admit that we are shallow, narrow mined, cavemen who only think with our P**is !  LOL



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