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Posted on Tue, Dec 29, 2009 22:06

Men love sexy arm pieces. That seems to be a reflection on some of you and your sexual abilities/appetites. The younger the woman the hotter you are in bed? Or is it the younger the woman the more money you have? *L* Whatever!!!What if you really connected and had tons of stuff in common with a woman online, on this site, who turned out to be like me....pleasing plump. (You'd have to read a previous blog)  Would you have the balls to take her/me out in public to meet your "millionaire" friends?

Some might say I have a self esteem problem because I'm dwelling on this "pleasing plump" thing. Trust me, I don't. There are lots of women out here who are successful...women who carry themselves well...have great careers and yet, because they don't meet the criteria of what society or magazines deem sexy or desirable, they don't fit in. 

What are your thoughts?



Government's first duty is to protect the people, not run their lives. President Ronald Reagan

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Posted on Sat, Jan 09, 2010 09:12

GO EAGLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ahhhh well aren't you a sweetie! Thanks for taking time to respond! You need to have fun and have a good time whatever you do! Life is so serious and we all need to make the best of every situation! I look forward to further communication in here and email if you so desire! Have a great weekend!!!



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Posted on Fri, Jan 08, 2010 16:36

Well I'll never have a sex arm piece then! *L*



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Posted on Fri, Jan 08, 2010 16:24

Dekan. You are pleasingLY plump and a sexy arm piece is a Rolex....LOL.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 01, 2010 15:55

I agree with you converysguy!



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Posted on Fri, Jan 01, 2010 09:15

Actually Peggysue I do. And because they were buff, men and women, they were very unapproachable. It's like "my s**t don't stink"  kinda deal! I guess my point with my blog is that because of outside appearances we're not approached. Oh hell I know what I can bring to the table in a relationship. I'm a great catch! But it takes that initial getting to know a person to find out what they're really about and that doesn't happen as often as I'd like. Thus, by blog.



Government's first duty is to protect the people, not run their lives. President Ronald Reagan

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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 23:43

hey Bill very astute observation.he did and still does have major self esteem issues. I left him and he didnt like that. Blamed my 2nd husband for "stealing me"...never mind that we had been seperated for months before i even met # 2


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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 20:45

Screw political correctness! That's what got soldiers at Ft. Hood murdered!



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 20:43

Thank you Robin! And you're right! A night out with my girls was extremely fun. No one had seen boobies as big as mine so lots of pics were taken! *LOL* Hell I saw more nipples and breasts on the way to Philly on the party bus to see a male review than I saw dick! Will they kick me out for saying that?



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 20:11

Pat.....Do you expect Bill or anyone else to call someone out and say they are obese?  Because someone is overweight or obese does not make them a bad person.  That being said, most folks wont post a comment and say who they think are obese.  It is politically incorrect.....lol



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 19:33

Quoting: Originally posted by Curious2078

Hey, Bill.  Your right that obesity is a major halth issue.  But who are you referring to here?  No one I see on this blog....  Just asking.....

Pat



No one necessarily here. Just responding to some of the comments in general.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 17:29

Quoting: Originally posted by Arizona53

Way to go Pat, now you're making them cry.......LOL.  Thankfully for the right reasons, good on you, that was a great response!



Thanks, kiddo.  Sometimes my writing skills do some good....!!!!!  I think Dekan is absolutely beautiful. 

Pat



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 17:27

Quoting: Originally posted by billzeke

You guys can "SUGAR COAT" it all you like but obesity is a major health issue. Shaz; If your ex really said that it would appear that he has some major self esteem issues.



Hey, Bill.  Your right that obesity is a major halth issue.  But who are you referring to here?  No one I see on this blog....  Just asking.....

Pat



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 17:23

Quoting: Originally posted by Dekan09

Pat you brought tears to my eyes! That is the sweetest thing in the world to have said to/about a person. People are sick of my political stuff on a dating site. So I've tried to come up with other things for discussion. At least I don't have black women wanting to kick my ass about what I say about the president! *LOLOL*
Thank you for taking time to read my blog and responding.



Darlin', I read all your blogs--at least I think I do...hope I've found them all...  Anyone whose signature is a quote from Ronald Reagan is a friend of mine!  Not to mention that any gal with a totally REAL smile, and a totally REAL body--who wants to be wanted for EVERYTHING she is.......  Sometimes my judgment is off a bit.  I've been known to be so wrong sometimes you could stick a mere toothpick into the body of my judgment and get an explosion that would do away with Iran and Iraq both in one big bang.  But I do think I'm right when it comes to you.  You're a REAL woman.  And at my age, sweetie, I want all the REAL women friends in my life I can find.  We may or may not find true love again [or maybe for the first time] but we sure as hell can connect with women friends who will keep us going when we DON'T have that soulmate to cuddle up with at night.  I think you and I both--and a lot of others on here--are at a point in our lives where we'd rather spend an evening partying with our REAL women friends than spending an evening with some man we are just settling for because we feel we need a man.  

I'm starting to babble---but I'm sure you get my point.

A very happy New Year to you Dekan.  May this evening be a blessed one full of laughter.  And if the laughs are slow in coming, may the insights, born, perhaps of sollitude, be most illuminating/gratifying, and  inspirational.  

Pat

P.S.:  I am not sick of your political blogs at all.   



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 10:24

You guys can "SUGAR COAT" it all you like but obesity is a major health issue. Shaz; If your ex really said that it would appear that he has some major self esteem issues.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 09:13

Quoting: Originally posted by Dekan09

Pat you brought tears to my eyes! That is the sweetest thing in the world to have said to/about a person. People are sick of my political stuff on a dating site. So I've tried to come up with other things for discussion. At least I don't have black women wanting to kick my ass about what I say about the president! *LOLOL*
Thank you for taking time to read my blog and responding.



Not only are you beautiful and gracious in your blogs, you have a great spirit. I was discussing the whole dating online matter with a "girlfriend" of mine who is quite full figured and that's what attracted her FANTASTIC fiancee to her in the first place. Don't worry what people see on the outside because you "got it goin' on ~ on the inside!!!" You don't want to be with a man who deems you a trophy anyhow... HIS trophy yes but A trophy NO!!!! As for the political debates, BRING 'EM ON!!! I'm on your side baby!!!!


Courtney :)

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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 08:08

Thanks candee you're a sweetie!



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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 07:26

ohh honey you are too beautiful!! Imbrace your curvs and love yourself. I guess its all in attitude im a size12/14  and i rock a pair of sweatpants or a hot sexy dress! If anyone has a problem with it f*um believe me plenty of guys out there love natural women not stick figures. you are beautiful



Candy...;)

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Posted on Thu, Dec 31, 2009 03:19

well In my opinion I don't think it matters really...I've been looking for love and all I had was thin girls that looked good and never got what I want so I think this would be my time to try someone different...Maybe it will work out...


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Posted on Wed, Dec 30, 2009 21:06

Way to go Pat, now you're making them cry.......LOL.  Thankfully for the right reasons, good on you, that was a great response!



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